mASF post by "4evr_rAFC"
posted on: alt.seduction.relationships, June 6, 2005Well recently I've decided enough is enough, and I thought a post on here would
guide me through my decision and maybe give me a perspective I haven't seen
before. The post is fairly long but I broke it up and did my best to provide
the information needed to give accurate advice.
BACKGROUND INFO:
I'm in high school, so is my LTR. I've been lurking ASF for several months, and
decided to take the path of the rAFC. I read the Player Guide (but not
excessively) and used it to get with the girl I've had my eye on for a while. I
ran C&F and acted like I was the prize (my frame still had her as the prize,
however I did a decent job of disguising it). She is a year younger than me,
and was what I was looking for. A 10 in my book, and no one had touched her
before (very moral and clean girl). I did a fair job of leading but lacked
control of the sexual situation. I let her set the pace which FUCKED (not the
fuck I wanted :]) me in the long run. Yes, this is pathetic, but we didn't even
kiss for the first month or two (and I thought I was on my way to becoming a
PUA!). I made the mistake of verbalizing the importance and it became so blown
out of proportion that a simple kiss to her was like full blown sex or
something. So everytime an oppurtunity came to kiss she would shy away.
THE PRESENT:
Well it's been 4 months, and the same resistance is occuring now (with oral,
etc). I LMR searched my ass off and found some excellent ASD breaking
techniques and loved the push pull method. I tried them the passed two times
we've been together and this girl just DOES NOT respond according to ASF. I'm
not saying she should do exactly what ASF says she would do, but I'll give you
an example: My hands are down her pants while were watchin a movie, makin my
way down and she stops me right before I get there. She tries to keep my hand
there but doesn't let me get any further. This makes me think she WANTS it but
doesn't know how to handle it. So I keep going for it and she keeps pulling
away. So this time I take my hand completely out (push) but recieve no pull. I
escalate kino again and I'm back in her pants. Eventually I became so
frustrated I called her out. I tried to come accross as smooth and comforting
as possible.. "What's the matter? Why can't you be honest with your desires and
just let me make you feel good?" She said "I just don't know". Well for the
next hour I sat there pissed and she kept asking what was wrong. I asked her
again "What are you afraid of?" She basically changed the subject and kept
bullshitting. We kissed a lot but that just doesn't cut it anymore. I'm not
getting what I want from her and that defeats the purpose of a relationship. I
feel that I failed to effectively seduce her enough to be all over my dick.
Right now my dilema is, should I just GIVE UP (I'm so close) or just call it
quits and end the relationship.
FUTURE:
It seems that our next step torwards oral is becoming blown out of proportion
(just like the kiss). I thought of several ways to prevent this from happening
but I'm open to any suggestions/comments..
1. I could STOP mentioning WHY she resists and reduce kino. The reason behind
this would be to decrease my NEEDINESS to her and get her thinking, why doesn't
he care anymore?
2. I could just flat out tell her, "I can't do this anymore... you're confused
and I can't deal with your teases." This would basically either be a break-up,
and make me look like a jerk and give me an asshole reputation at school, OR
she will (in an attempt to keep me) give me what I want.
I'm sure there's a lot of info I'm forgetting to share, but that's the gist of
it. I do like most things about her but she has some growing up to do, I don't
think she knows what she wants. What I'm afraid of is, she'll learn from her
mistake after I call our relationship off and be too afraid to let it happen to
the next guy so she'll go give that untouched pussy to him. Fuck that.
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