mASF post by "Phenix"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, April 4, 2005On 4/5/05 9:10:00 AM, Patrick wrote:
>Since I got out of my LTR
>troubles I have been talking
>to girls/women at every
>opportunity. Last evening I
>met an interesting chick at
>the gym and started creating
>rapport etc. Note to self: 3s
>rule works! It all went well,
>she showed interest by
>renewing the conversation even
>after we had been interrupted
>(we were doing exercises after
>all) and found lots of common
>grounds. But then she told me
>between the lines that she has
>been married for two years.
She felt sorry probably.
Letting you know this is also kinda way for women to get rid of their
responsibility in the whole affair.
>Is it worth getting into these
>muddy waters or is an affair
>with a young and freshly
>married woman beyond the scope
>of a rAFC?
Depends on your spiritual and living standards.
Also if you like her, just think about if she can cope with an affair.
Ask yourself if you would like your wife to cheat on you.
Ask yourself if you want to risk every one suffer, and particulary have this
other man life may be destroyed.
And only go on if you feel all this is not generating negative feelings for you
and her.
Some women just find attraction and sex natural, is she one of them ? If you
too, just go on and see where it goes.
If you also find her really great and HONESTLY think both of you will cherish
what happened until the end of your lives, go on.
>More generally: What are the
>differences between boyfriend
>busting and husband busting
>and how can you cope with the
>guilt complex (your own and
>the chick´s)?
Your own : depends on your values and what kind of relationship you feel.
An affair can be the most sincere and sane thing, or just the worst lust
affair.
Where do you situe yourself ?
Hers : techniques are approximately the same, just be sure you do not forget to
use them systematically with married women because they need them and may not
tell you before fleeing suddenly (guilt is more intense).
Married women tend to feel less desired (which is often the case) and love to
feel living and falling in love again.
High desire ones also feel imprisoned by fidelity obligation they do not
subscribe to, and would like you to help them get rid of it.
Use Our World Routine (FS101, I also posted a light version I tailored for a
difficult married target recently in Heisse's last thread), FS Player Guide
smashing techniques, and ManiacPlan lines/argumentation.
Just remember this is more difficult (to get her and to see her, to live), far
less healthy, and it is risky.
Ask yourself what price you and others pay for this.
Phenix
"We live in a vastly complex society which has been able to provide us with a
multitude of material things, and this is good, but people are beginning to
suspect we have paid a high spiritual price for our plenty."
Euell Gibbons
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