mASF post by "Hypnotic"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, November 11, 2004Great to hear, I just finished boot camp week 1 (today), and I completely agree
with you. Ive been fighting with my computer song playlist all week! I had
absolutely no idea how many songs I had with AFC undertones and messages, and
how many of them I really liked listening to. Its been hard, but Ive pretty
much cut it down, and I have no intention of letting up on my vigilence. Some
other things Ive been doing this past week that arent on the assignment but Ive
picked up as pretty good ideas to do are:
1. Check out your friends and acquaintences that are good with girls, watch
them and try to pick up on how they act (in a non creepy way), realize what
they are doing that gives them success and REMEMBER IT.
2. When associating with people that are AMOGs, learn why they are Amogs. See
how they behave and why they can alpha over you. This has been a big thing for
me because while I am confident in myself, who I am, etc, Im relatively
introverted when not drunk. This leads to me losing a lot of sets to AMOGs
when having group conversations with girls. IE, if I open a set or topic of
conversation Ill only be able to hold it for about 30 seconds before someone
else takes it over, and Im definitely trying to work on this.
3. Working on EC. I forget who did the writeup in the players guide, but It
involved a excercise where he would walk the halls during breaks at a
conference and when a girl would be about 30 feet away going the other
direction he would look at them in the eyes and not divert his eyes. Ive been
trying this around campus for the last week and its been a great excercise. It
felt weird at first, but within about 2 days I was not the slightest bit
intimidated to look people in the eyes for an entire conversation, not to
mention you get to see TONS of girls 'give in' to your dominance by looking at
the ground etc. Yeah its kinda creepy to do but the only way to learn is to
practice.
4. Work on kino. Ive been actively kinoing girls I know, im sure they
probably felt a little weird about it because it was kind of out of the blue,
but if this is going to become second habit Im going to have to start
somewhere. And with a few it has definitely increased the physical level of
our relationship (not to a sexual level, but noticeably more friendly.)
5. Start standing up for yourself. Ive had to cut about 5 friends(girls and
guys) and my Fb6 this week due to them walking all over me. After reading the
PG and lurking here I realized my FB was dictating when and where the sex took
place, and if I suggested her coming over she would say she was going to then
not show up, and then talk to me with an excuse. Essentially I told her that I
wasnt going to stand for this and if she wanted to see me again she would have
to start inviting me places, because Im tired of her broken promises. Yeah im
not getting sex any more, but it felt real good.
I guess this turned out to be my BC week 1 report, but maybe any guys just
starting off can read this and take some good ideas from it.
Look into my eyes...
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