mASF post by "David Vedder"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2004On 7/16/04 2:16:00 PM, pimp trainee wrote:
>ok ive been seein this girl
>for all of five days now, a
>complete hottie, shes really
>weird though just last night
>she said shes really attracted
>to me and she likes me alot
>but then she broke out the
>LJBF crap,
She's attracted to you, as long as you don't behave like a wussy. I'll explain
what I mean.
Have you been in a LTR lately? Just guessing. You take all what she says so
fucking seriously.. don't do this, man. Judge her by her actions, not her
words. And her actions speak clearly, don't you think? Welcome to mASF! When I
discovered ASF, I was in a similar situation. I attracted a hottie and didn't
know how to handle her. I managed to piss her off soooo badly and I would like
to help you not making the same mistake.
this is after four
>days of intense fooling
>around, anyway after like 6
>beers last night she starts
>takin off my clothes and says
>"lets do it just this once" i
Alright, but don't take her literally. She probably said "just this once" to
keep you at distance.
You basically want the same thing.
>was immediately sceptacle
>about the just this once part,
Just ignore it. Even if she says it every time you do it ;-) Btw this is not
weird at all.
>but i still got her off and
Good work, man. I really mean it. You seem to do a lot of things right, and
some totally wrong.
>she said id didnt bother her
Great girl!
>after i apoligized for not
>performing, but i know it did,
THIS! is what I mean. What do you think you're doing?
You need to be a man, you did the best you could, got her off, and it didn't
bother her that you couldn't perform like a pornstar. You were drunk, couldn't
get it up and still got her off. Respect! By apologizing you shoot yourself in
the foot plus sabotage her perception. If you keep doing this, you ruin
everything.
>right after the sex i said if
>she gave me another chance id
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH! What are you doing? Stop doing this immediately!
>make it worth her wild, she
>slept over my house and played
Seems to be a cool girl, did I already mention that? And the only one who
behaves weird, is you. Make it worth her wild, what does that mean?
>with each other all night, i
>addressed the 'lets just be
>friends' stuff and she said ya
>im weird and spontaious like
>that, cool with me, we also
What kind of logical explanation did you expect? She was contradicting herself,
is that what you want her to say?
Seriously, she tells you that she makes decisions based on how she feels, her
state. Knowing this can be a great advantage for you, if you figure out, what
works for you and what doesn't.
>had amazing attraction in the
Attraction or rapport?
>last couple of days, we woke
>up this morning and she said
>more of the 'friends' crap and
This is her making sure you don't get clingy. This is the right thing to do
from her perspective.
>said that was "probably" my
>only chance, but this is a
YOUR only chance?
>girl that really dosent know
>what she wants, and shes a
>liitle crazy, but hot as hell,
>im not sure if i should pursue
>her more, or leave her alone i
>dont want a girlfriend just a
>fuck buddie, we left off with
>a kiss on the lips this
>morning.
Why do you think she wants you as a BF? She doesn't know what she wants,
remember?
>also when i was i was
>fingering her there was
>massive amounts of air in her
>pussy, whats up with that?
It means you finger her good lol. I assure you it's perfectly natural.
I suggest you read these sources first (and if you already did so, read them
again):
The Players Guide on Fastseduction - for all the basics you are missing. Study
it carefully, and you'll wish you could undo your last five days.
The David DeAngelo Newsletter archive - to fully understand the concept of
wussy.
The David Shade archives - about how to be a man and act accordingly to it. You
will also understand why she does what she does.
Anything about inner game», mindset, framing. You will find it.
This is all free stuff on fastseduction.com
David Vedder
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