mASF post by "KGB" posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, November 11, 2003>Have to be careful with cute >ones. They have an image of >innocence to maintain... the >real them is probably not even >close to innocent.
I READ about this from the post archives, it's the first time I actually
experienced it.
>>>>I wanted to lay her, even though she's a party person, but her stealing the
food really messed up my goals so I decided just to see where she's coming
from. > >Depends if you just want to >keep her or not... and judging >from what I know so far, even >if you dumped her ass - she >would have no issues with it.
I don't want to lose my cherry to a girl who sleeps around. What if she's been
with like 100 guys? But on the other hand it's only been 2 months...
I think I'm making excuses...
>>>>Apparently she's from another country and been here only from the beginning
of the year. She has financial problems so she often "takes out" the food. She
also drinks A LOT, not as much as me, but much more often.
>Just have to make your move >right about here. She's >totally open for sex in her >dorm...
But there are 6 people living in that house lol And it was the evening, so by
the time we started fucking each other everybody would come in. I wasn't ready
for that - how should I handle it?
>You made it to the finals, but >you bombed out from the >suspense. >Look... she's not asking for a >relationship. You had the >opportunity and she had the >motive. You didn't need to >offer her a relationship at >this point to bring her >slut-issues down... and unless >you are incredibly good in the >sack will she bug you for a >relationship anyway.
I haven't thought about it that way. I still have Disney fantasies and I don't
know exactly what I want, but I thought I knew.
>What makes me upset is this... >a chick makes herself >available for sex, and you >think she's a slut. So she >ends up frustrated, and then >decides that in order to get a >man that she has to appear a >little harder-to-get. This >equals more women flaking and >not putting out....
I am too new at this, it was my first cheek kiss in the last... 2 years lol So
don't be that harsh
>In college, women just want to >fuck, fuck, fuck!
And I don't know what I want. Damn - today I was the one with ASD, not the
chick.
>What baggage? She's making >excuses for herself to be >slutty. Understand this shit >for those reasons. She fucks >around.
But how many guys did she sleep with? I can get all kinds of micro flora and
fauna from her...
>And yes, guys CAN get away >with sexual comments just as >long as they don't make the >woman in question feel slutty. >In fact, you can grab her ass, >and as long as you make her >look innocent and yourself >look like a sexually depraved >young man... she will like it >(in most cases) but won't show >it.
This is wonderful. I kinda felt this, but couldn't really rationalize that, so
I just didn't do sexual stuff at all.
>A woman is not going to make >the first move. Hence, they >will do anything non-slutty to >get attention. Some women will >do absolutely nothing to give >the guy a chance until one guy >molests her regardless.
Evil grin - you can molest her, as long as she doesn't look like a slut :)
>As long as you don't make the >woman feel bad about herself, >you can get away with quite a >lot. OTOH, try being too >direct and make the woman feel >slutty.... and there'll be >hell to pay.
Cool, now I just need a week or so to process all this stuff. lol
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