mASF post by "evolution88"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, January 1, 2005Finally, someone else is on the same wavelength.....I think too many people
look at the postings and think to themselves, "I must go through each stage and
take each step as suggested and then, I will be this cool guy that everyone
will want to be with." Unfortunately, that is not the case.....I mean, don't
get me wrong, the advice is sound, but it is not that easy. You can not lose
yourself in the process. I found myself approaching over and over and as a
result, I have built my confidence to a level I could not imagine being at, but
then I realized that I was missing something.....I was missing
emotions.......................it was all about the result (getting laid) than
actually making any kind of connection or understanding of myself.
Also, every situation is different......what works with one girl is not
necessarily going to work with another.......if you try the same routine over
and over, eventually it will work on someone, but how about understanding why
it did not work on the other ones......................it seems to me, that the
game helps aesthetically, on the surface, but when it comes to truly believing
you are this cool person, you need to feel the process....I do not think that
just approaching hot girls and getting laid on a regular basis gives you the
inner strength and confidence you need to feel complete. Social interaction in
any situation will give you more than spending time in clubs approaching hot
girls. Think about it, you are already in a setting where women expect to be
approached and for the most part are open to it.............However, take them
out of the "pick up" element and you will be challenged on a greater level.
The game gives you the tools, but it is up to you to use those tools to become
the ultimate YOU. In learning about what makes other people tick and
understanding their insecurities, you will automatically learn about yourself.
Getting laid is a bonus, not the ultimate reward....the ultimate reward is
finding out who you are and being thrilled to be that person......not needing
validation from others to feel good about yourself.
This is a lot of rambling and jumbled thoughts......maybe somebody can make
more sense of it and get something worthwhile out of
it...........................
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