mASF post by "The_One"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, September 9, 2004I posted this elsewhere roughly around 6 months ago, and a lot of people seemed
to find it useful. Thus, some encouraged me to post here for everyone. I hope
some of my field experience helps your game.
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Buying Temperature vs. More Solid Game:
This is based on field experience, and I am not theorizing while sitting on my
ass.
A lot of posts on ASF seem to deal with the concept of “Buying Temperature” and
how high her buying temperature is at any given time.
It’s a common theme where guys posting field reports are constantly obsessed
with buying temperature, i.e (is it high enough yet? How high is it? Oh shit,
it’s dipping down. Put a thermometer in her ass.)
I do NOT play the buying temperature game. (Anymore)
Why?
The buying temperature game consists of amplifying attraction so high that she
will act hastily and in a rash manner. It requires minimal amount of comfort.
In fact, it requires just enough comfort so that she trusts that you are not
some psychotic ax-murderer who is going to cause bodily harm to her.
This is great with a certain group of girls whom you are interested as having
for one-night stands, and do not plan to see again.
(Thus, if you are only interested in getting a blowjob in the bathroom, this
does not apply to you. And this is the only thing some of you are after.)
However, if you do actually like the girl and plan on making an LTR or MLTR out
of her, playing the buying temperature game is the wrong choice. She won’t want
to see you again, and I’ll explain why.
Imagine a girl having a secret code like a safe. If you know the right
combination of numbers to push, you can get her to open. (This is done through
pushing her emotions.)
By pushing those right buttons, you will get her to open up but what once you
have made out with her, or had sex with her (onenight stand), she will realize
that she behaved out of character.
In other words, she’ll come to her senses and realize what happened the night
before. She won’t call you again.
Recently, I wrote a post called “4 out 5 Playboy.” It was when Playboy-LA and
I went out 5 nights and extracted girls back to the house on 4 of those
occasions and made out with them.
One common thread I noticed along these lines was that it was so hard to get
these girls to come out and see us again. They just did not want to do it. Why?
There was enough attraction for them to have full make-out sessions with us the
night we met them, and yet, they are hesitant to follow up.
I made it a point to tell pursue one girl and get her out with me.
She was REALLY attracted to me, and you could see her battling herself to not
make out with me. She failed. We made out for a while, it became really
passionate, and I number closed her as she and her pal left project Hollywood.
I called her the next day and I got "I am seeing someone" excuse.
After calling her a few times, doing a few false-invites, false flakes, I got
her to come see me.........TWO Months later!
While talking about relationships, I brought up how funny girls are when it
comes to their behavior and how they have ASD [anti-slut defense.] (I did not
use this terminology, obviously.)
She admitted to me that this was the reason why she would not want to do a day
2.
She said, “Why do you think I kept avoiding coming and seeing you?”
This debriefing was an interesting revelation.
I talked to IN10SE about this, and he shared a similar story about a girl he
had in his house. In this case, the girl explicitly stated, “If you want me as
a girlfriend, don’t sleep with me tonight. If you do, you’ll never see me
again.”(Now, that’s the kind of honesty only matched by Jlaix in his admission
of laying fat girls.)
Playing the buying temperature game is less solid game. I had a chat with
Mystery, Style, and Wilder about this. Mystery says it’s fool’s mate. I agree.
Issues with buying temperature game:
All or nothing syndrome:
I view buying temperature like a swinging pendulum. You might have her super
charged emotions and got her buying temperature high, but if something happens
and she slips out of that state, you will lose everything. The pendulum will
swing completely the other way and you’ll have nothing. This is why you get all
or nothing.
Buyer’s remorse:
If you do like the girl and make out with her too quickly, she won’t want to
see you again. This is why Jlaix and I decided to not take the girls back to
project Hollywood in the previous report.
If I had to illustrate this on a graph:
Solid game would be charted like this:
You start at zero and push her attraction to about level 3. You maintain that
across the graph and periodically push it up (to a 4, then 5, then 6, etc…)
Buying temerature game is like having an instant spike in the graph to a level
of 8 or 9, but just as it spikes, it could crash like bad Enron stock.
I do not really like one-night stands, or drunk party girls. For this reason,
the buying temperature game can be pointless.
On the other hand, if you are trying to get a “Party chick” or a bar-whore all
excited and a state of frenzy, in order to get a quick extraction to do
whatever, then buying temperature game might be the thing for you.
However, realize that the pendulum could swing and that spike could crash very
easily when emotions are running so high.
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