mASF post by "stoned_tokki"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, October 10, 2003From now on I will update bootcamp reports on SUNDAY. I have school and I
cannot deal with posting on wednesday, so sunday will be when I post my
updates.
This week was pretty good, learned a LOT. Learned I really do need a LOT more
field experience and less armchair shit and not just more field, but more
sarges with people I don't know (so far I've usually only sarged girls I've met
through a friend or in class, but not really in a party or public setting).
Sarged decently at a party, good rapport, good negs, got IOI's, etc. Even had
some good BL going on. But in the midst of all that, I forgot a lot of things
and didn't even kino! And then my freakin mom called my cell so I had to go to
a quiet area to talk (I'm in HS). Then I didn't come back immediately, talked
to some other friends first, got some more beer, talked to some other people
about buyin some herb, and then went back. I guess I took too long cuz she
disappeared. I dunno if she left or if she just melted away into the crowd,
but I didn't bother looking for her cuz that would just be too needy and AFC.
So I ended up not doin shit! But I learned a lot from that experience, so, at
least I got something out of it.
Also talked to a natural PUA/AFC. Knows a LOT of girls, but is extremely AFC.
Lots of girls also like him, but he's too AFC to do anything about it. But I
observed his style and it was a "nice guy jerk." That seems to work with a lot
of asian chicks, cuz I have a really hard time with asian girls, whereas he
doesn't. He toned down the c+f compared to me, and also was a good storyteller
(worked on that a lot, I'm a lot better now at that). The way he talked to
girls was very c+f but nice at the same time. He would say stuff that's like
"you're so beautiful, I like your hair" but in a cocky manner. Whereas I was
being pretty blunt and I think TOO cocky. Anyways, he was also polite and nice
and stuff, so I'm gonna observe him more and see what else I can learn from
him, and try to tone down my c+f cuz it helped me get over my shyness, but I
think it turned me into a bit of an actual jerk.
Really like the journal, very good for reading over and learning stuff from
what I did....also am taking notes from the archives and from here about what I
learn so that way my FR and my notes will be in one place. Blah blah blah, I
got to go do some HW, I'm out. Later.
-stonedtokki
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