mASF post by "thx"
posted on: USENet: alt.seduction.fast newsgroup, May 5, 2000>I can't count how often I've heard women talking about how all these
>things guys have to do all "just happen naturally".
You know what I think? It IS natural for PUAs. Not that I'm a PUA (AFC
backlash phase actually) but I think that all these techniques we try to
incorporate, they will just be used naturally once we get enough practice.
Sure, the tactics are complicated at times but so is landing a 747. Once you
get the hang of it, you won't be thinking about kino or eliciting values or
pattern language, it will just flow just like the cryptic C code I write
every day almost without thinking. Tap-tap-tap.
>The effort involved in seducing or romancing a woman is one area where it
>is impossible to get much empathy from women. They are solidly the
>*audience*. They *want* it to look effortless. It's a totally passive,
>recipient mindset...they can't begin to fathom what it's truly like to be
>completely responsible for taking the initiative (with someone new who
>isn't already her partner).
They don't have to! There's always this guy who will be all over them and
beg and plead and buy gifts and it sure feels better being pampered than
getting rejected. Some guys here will say, yeah but they're not men, they're
supplicating, they're this and that, but chicks fuck these guys ALL THE
TIME.
As for the initiative... there's this chick (oh no, not again!) and I'm not
sure about her. I've known her for like six months and we talk sometimes and
stuff, so I called her the other day for coffee and she was so done up, like
a 9 or something. She skipped two classes to be with me, walked half across
town in the heat and was all cuddly and shit. So, I leave her after like a
half an hour and tell her to call me, so we can get together again. I'm
going to FORCE her to take initiative or LOSE. I feel I made enough effort
with her and this way I won't be bothering with flaky chicks but only get
the ones that are into me too.
I've read something about this here and when I read Rio's report on that
flaky chick, I realized I would never try for more then five minutes. I'm
not referring to Rio here but I can't believe how guys can be patient with
chicks like two hours of fucking is worth two hours of begging.
>Women occasionally experiment by asking a guy out, but the instant they
>experience a rejection they usually go running back to passive recipient
>mode with the comment that men "aren't letting women take the intiative"-
>-these women can't quite grasp the fact that dealing with rejection goes
>with the territory.
You know what they do? They ask you for your number and then call you and
then they stay for an hour on the phone, humming and saying stupid shit like
"Sooo... you used to play the violin?" for six times. You still get to do
all the work.
rgds
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