mASF post by "ZeroBox"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, August 8, 2005
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>>Does it ever create ASD?
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>Hmm, if I had a clue what ASD was, I
>could answer that. Please enlighten me
Anti slut defense. Maybe you did this in the newb stage, but you apply kino
say something to early and she walls up or does something to stop you "Is this
necessary?" when she is wriggling in her chair from arousal
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>>Are there ever times when a hb
>>holds back her emotions with
>>this and let on that she is
>>feeling great?
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>Absolutely! On the surface, it might
>seem like she's just trying to be
>cooperative, or that she's just trying
>to give you a good impression of her.
>But internally, for HER, what you're
>asking her to do/feel is not flowing on
>the same level as the level of rapport
>you've established with her.
>So she's not going to "release" herself
>to actually feeling the emotions.
Well I meant she is just afraid to show emotions in public
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>>2. That monologue in the
>>middle was great., about men
>>and women and there
>>differences. I was wondering,
>>once I did a cold reading with
>>a women and she started to
>>tear up, is there a certain
>>direction to take this since
>>it is a strong response?
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>Dude, if you're relating to this woman
>AT ALL, you'll FEEL the right direction
>to take it. When a woman I've just
>recently met starts to cry, from
>something I've shared or said, I do 2
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>1)I value that she was connected with me
>enough to express that vulnerability.
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>2) I don't take advantage of that
>vulnerability.
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>I hope you're not looking at it as "Ooh,
>she's crying. What would work best on
>her right now?"
>That's the WRONG way to look at it.
>Depending on the situation (like if
>she's just an emotional wreck to begin
>with, or did I touch something within
>her)
Yes..at the time that was it...I just wiped the tear away and kept going
I'll keep my voice slower and
>softened until I notice that she's
>passed through the emotions that caused
>her to tear up. And as I start to notice
>the emotion passing, I match it with my
>voice becoming less and less slow and
>soft in tone.
>Why?
>Because I'm making it okay for her to
>express herself to me emotionally,
>without trying to comfort her. And
>without punishing her for tearing up
>(which can result her shutting
>down/putting walls back up).
>See, most guys will try and comfort her.
>I'll just let her cry as if it was a
>completely normal reaction, which is why
>my voice will remain in "flow" and in
>synch with what's going on in the
>moment. Which will often result in
>opening the door for her to express
>herself in other emotional ways (Like
>the more fun ones, like arousal)
If I remeber she gave me ner # w/o asking, but never took my calls, so I was
wondering if what I did was to much/overwhelming.
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>Great questions! Thanx for asking them!
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>Michael
>"Bishop"
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>"Unleash What She's Been Waiting For"
>www.new-alpha.com/fos.html
I am the one Orgasmatron
the oustreched grasping hand
my image is of agony
my servants rape the land
obsequious and arrogance
clandestine and pain
two thousend years of misery
of torture in my name
hypocrisy made paramount
paranoia the law
my name is called religion
sadistic
sacred
whore
I twist the truth
I rule the world
my crown is called deceit
I am the emperor of lies
you grovel at my feet
I rob you and I slaughter you
your downfall is my gain
and still you play the sycophant
and rebel in your pain
and all my promises are lies
all my love is hate
I am the politician
and I decide your fate
I march before a martyred world
an army for the fight
I speak of great heroic days
of victory and might
I hold a banner drenched in blood
I urge you to be brave
I lead you to your destiny
I lead you to your grave
your bones will build my palaces
your eyes will stud my crown
for I am mars the god of war
and I will cut you down
Giving every man a vote has no more made men wise and free than
Christianity has made them good. - H. L. Mencken
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