mASF post by "Phenix"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, August 8, 2005On 8/2/05 11:12:00 AM, LowRider69 wrote:
>Yes man. Absolutely agree.
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>Rapport assumption is good.
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>Give her glimpses of your
>world while she opens up and
>tells you about hers.
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>Lowrider
Making them *feel like* having rapport is a bit wider that only sending rapport
signals.
Make people feel trust, complicity, tolerance, validation and support (as
persons) from your part, and whatever could fit their current emotional needs
and elicited values.
A fucking technique I use, after having them partake commonalities, talked
about emotions and agree about some feelings about whatever (people,
behaviours, things of life) is to *TRUST* them with some routines - erh
condifant stuff about me, telling with BL, tone and/or words that I dont
partake with anybody.
Then I pace down as if confiding to theim was bringing a well being state.
'They' earn 'my' trust. Then I go on partaking feelings (I can let them do too
this confidence/feeling talk if I have time to or push it if I think it is
needed), and thank them for being great /listening/[whatever EVed] persons.
Generally at this point we are best friends :)
I then switch to sentimental stuff or go straight to "It's fun, I do not trust
people easily, but I feel this between us... This connexion, like if I had
known you for years..." and go on to demonstrate she is more than only attract
stuff, to foreblast ASD.
Phenix
"Illusion is the first of all pleasures."
Oscar Wilde
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