mASF post by "TheRoyalFlush"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2005This is how I have been framing things. I got the idea from an RSD mailbag
where a student was having about the same problem (although not as extreme) as
me. I was tolerating the frequent attempts he had to dominate me in set
because it put me through social pressure that I have to get used too and gave
me practice taking the frame back (which thanks to him I have been getting good
at). Also (he has even told me this) that this is something he cant control, it
seems to be instinct.
On the flip side out of set is where things piss me off, because like I earlier
said there is no excuse about going behind a friends back and trying to steal
his women, that’s just intolerable and reeks with him just being green with
envy. I have laid down rules which consist of whoever approaches the girls gets
first pick of which one they want, its the same for girls that you already are
talking too, he agreed. TD is right the rules have done nothing, and the sick
part is when i call him out on it he completely denies it, even when it happens
if front of my very eyes.
So I basically don’t know if I should play his game on this shit, or just let
it go and focus on getting the girls hooked. This way what ever he says will
be irrelevant. He doesn’t know about the community soo hopefully he will just
come off as try hard trying to win the girls back and blow his chances.
On 7/25/05 11:32:00 AM, Freelancer101 wrote:
>That can suck, bro.
>
>Having a wing with 2 left feet
>or who sabotages is actually
>desireable at the upper level
>of
>the game because ideally you
>want
>to be able to recreate mojo in
>ANY situation - ANY situation.
>
>So I used to have this bozo
>that
>would come up right next to me
>in
>a bar while I was mackin' a
>girl
>with a slow talk and a hypno
>gaze
>and he'd just stand there so
>obviously
>staring right at us.
>
>First off, it gave me an
>indicator
>as to how powerful my
>persuasion was
>with her - whether or not she
>stays
>eye-locked.
>
>Second, the dude would
>actually butt
>in and say, "Hey, you know why
>I'm
>staring at you and my friend?"
>and
>then add, "Because I just love
>hearing
>him fuck with people's minds."
>
>Now, if I were junior, or
>really green,
>this would be a major, major
>downer
>because obviously, though I
>might not
>let on, I'm in need of the
>juice. But
>once you get enough juice,
>you'll find
>a strange kind of pleasure not
>in getting
>laid, but in upping your game.
>
>And when you reach that level,
>ANYTHING
>and EVERYTHING goes. You're
>just
>thrilled with the challenge of
>mastering
>your environment.
>
>So whenever this manic dude
>would
>interrupt or stare at me and a
>girl
>talking, I just used it to
>make look
>even better.
>
>So it's my inclination to tell
>you to
>do that, but if you haven't
>got enough
>of the juice from getting laid
>a lot yet,
>then you might not be
>comfortable blowing
>your wing out of the water.
>
>If he's going to f with your
>share, then
>you need to cannibalize the
>bastard very
>soon. Don't just leave him,
>but just don't
>expect him to be THAT kind of
>wingman you
>expected. Use him mainly as
>an opportunity
>to up your game under "less
>than ideal"
>conditions.
>
>Be zen about it. Just kick
>back against
>a wall, observe, and watch for
>amazing
>openings. When you watch for
>them, like
>birdwatching, it might take a
>little while
>for them to appear, but they
>do. And
>in those specific instances,
>you won't
>need to remember patterns,
>because you
>used the situation to make it
>come to you.
>
>Your friend is truly
>irrelevant. It's
>all about your game and
>mastering your
>environment. ;-)
>
>Best to you,
>Freelancer
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