mASF post by "Jestor"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, July 7, 2005Women are always in the game. Or at least, their feelings always are.
Therefore, always be mindful of your actions.
You can't do whatever you want, no matter how good you think your inner game»
is. There are rules to follow, a minimum number of them but nonetheless you
must follow them. In the most general, broadest sense they are: never appear
needy, never supplicate, don't care about the outcome, and treat 95% of her
actions as shit tests (ie. tests where she is more interested in how you
respond than in what you respond).
Fear of loss is the biggest thing fucking up guys, even guys who have
experience. Things like wanting to reach a lay quota and not willing to
experiment with an idea, for fear of not reaching the quota, is what fucks us
up.
When I am with a girl I am 100% there. This is not the same as being needy. I
am dominant, impudent, physically affectionate and constantly invading her
space with my physical presence. And when I'm not there with her I move on to
something else.
Make the ho say no, as a flake prevention strategy, and to get her to want to
see you again. I have lost girls by being "considerate" at the first sign of
resistance. Bad. Push as far as you can. Keep pushing, keep smiling, and
never appear like you're losing patience. But don't give up without a fight.
Even if she ultimately won't go back to your place, by persisting like an
animal you lay the groundwork for her wanting to see you again. If instead you
give up at the first sign of resistance she will most likely see you as weak.
This is especially true for Secret Society women. More on this later.
You: "Let's hang out at my/your place"
Her: "No"
You: "Cool, so how about hanging out at my/your place"
Her: blah blah, basically a no
You: rub her ass and say "Nothing will happen"
Keep doing this until she gives in, or until it becomes clear that she won't
budge. If she doesn't give in then the symbol (your persistence) is most
important.
Subcommunicating sexual selfishness is how you make a woman feel cherished. If
you want to show her you care, go for the lay. You are living the moment after
all, just like women do.
Another example: You move in to kiss her. She moves away. Move in again and
say "you have pretty good reflexes...let's try this again...you can't avoid my
lips forever".
Women like men who are expressive, and who can reach them with their words, and
actions. Be that man.
Secret Society women are basically attractive women who date a lot (and/or get
a lot of offers). They are jaded by AFCs and generally view men as needy until
proven otherwise. These women look out for themselves and only respond to men
who are like-minded. They are very intolerant of mistakes; just like people
who are jaded with movies, and are very hard to please at the cinema.
Secret Society women (even those attached) regularly structure opportunities
for casual sex by putting themselves in the heart of situations where players
can fuck them. They put up token resistance, to shift conscious responsibility
away from themselves, but deep down they know it's only a matter of time before
"it just happened".
With these women you need absolutely no fear of loss. Women who are recent
immigrants, and/or have little experience dating, and aren't (yet) brainwashed
by feminist, anti-provider stigma, are the ones with whom you can afford to be
"nicer", more "considerate", and less dominant.
I recognize these women by the fact that they use very little 101 on me, shit
test little, and are visibly enthusiastic about being with me.
To recognize Secret Society women on dates pay attention especially to how she
ends the interaction. Does she end the date early when it comes time to go to
the next level, even when she is clearly attracted? Is she withdrawing,
telling you she has to go meet a friend or whatever? With these women you need
harsher treatment. More dominance, more 101, more impudence. These are the
hoes whom you want to get the NO out of.
Dominate, show impudence, connect, build rapport, flirt, make the ho say no
(sometimes yes), then say goodbye. And then FORGET ABOUT HER. This is solid
game for the attractive, jaded women who want the very best. You will give
them the "worst" and will succeed that way.
Positive reframe: This is the heart of the Zen Philosophy.
So now that the date is over and you made her say no, you will part ways with a
"We'll keep in touch", or "Let's catch up another time" or similar variations.
Then kiss her passionately, walk away, and don't look back. Don't contact her
for 3-5 weeks (rough estimate). You can send SMS or whatever small 101
technique (to touch base, not to set up a date), but it's not essential. This
is what keeps the passion alive. If you try to set up another date even a few
days after the last date you run the serious risk of turning her off. Where's
the passion she asks herself? Now I'm turned off. One woman actually told me
she likes it when she doesn't know what the guy is going to do next.
If she contacts you first and suggests another meet then accept it. The iron
is hot, and she likely wants to fuck. Otherwise, make her wait (esp. if she
didn't fuck you on the last date). The point is, get around to seeing her
again, don't plan to see her again. That IS solid game.
And don't worry about her nexting you because you made her wait. Very few
women (the truly feminine ones) have the inner strength to resist a guy who is
totally there one instance and then gone indefinitely the next. Also, by doing
it this way you are subcommunicating a very important thing, you are fucking
other women and are in no hurry to get around to doing her.
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"So what you don't want to fuck me! Do you have any idea how many chicks have
pussies and mouths??" - MrSex4uNYC
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