mASF post by "Vince"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2005It's one thing to have techniques, strategies, methods, etc.; quite another
to understand why they work, why they are needed and whether or not YOU
should consider using any given one.
Let me preface this by saying my approach to women is one of cooperative
conjugation: I'm not out to scam on them or seduce them into doing something
that will cause 'buyer's remorse'. I am out to find and connect with women
who are all right, in and of themselves, and who really like men. I
studiously avoid those who would be termed "damaged goods". I screen out
those who are too immature to be responsible for their own behavior (and
likely to place blame on others for their own mistakes, i.e. cry rape).
I also tend to include women whom shallow types would reject. I have been
known to conjugate with women one could term ugly. I have also been known to
associate with women who are developmentally disabled, crippled, etc., but
who are decent people. Although I have a healthy preference for beauty, mere
bilateral symmetry in form, without a wholesome person underneath the flesh,
is not attractive to me. I have experienced being with the girl all the guys
in my clique wanted, and found out she was a neurotic mess. I have also been
with the woman whose looks were laughable, but her self worth and
self-confidence were not based on her body image. Let me also say that those
who are less than perfect in looks can often be found to try harder in other
areas to be desirable - say, for instance, in bed.
Finally, a word about whom you are. You are a decent guy. You are reasonably
clean. You have a life. You are a good friend. You have something going for
you. If you are lacking in any of the areas above, do something about it.
The Game is all about common sense. The better you are, the better you'll
play.
Vince
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