mASF post by "zarathustra_fi"
posted on: alt.seduction.relationships, July 7, 2005This is so funny. My resisting of her betaising attempts is causing jealousy in
her. I have been using my "Minimal Social proof" STRICTLY ONLY in those
situations when she says or does something which is an attempt to raise her
value too much or lower mine. Otherwise I have been a "good guy". Being jealous
is VERY unusual for her: she never was in her life. In her past there are x 3
LTRs with guys (years) ALL of them made supplicant and betaised. Two of them
begging her on their knees (LITERALLY) at the end of the relationship.
I swear I am doing absolutely nothing else than counteracting the betaising.
Otherwise I am behaving perfectly loyal and faithful.
I am still not sure can chicks get on the long-term the fact that a guy cannot
be betaised. But I will know.
Yesterday evening I got home from work. She is at home and starts to look at
possible scratch I may have on my skin. She finds at least two.
One has been caused by my hand bag. I was at the barber shop, doing my hair and
it was falling down and I got cut by the metallic part. The other was caused by
my luggage in weekend.
Women´s acuteness for small particulars is amazing. At that stage I did not
know about the scratches myself. I remembered the causes afterwards.
Wife:"Bet you have another day of vacation and today you were not at work"
Franco:"What?"
Wife:"Where did you get those scratches"
Franco:"King Kong wanted to fuck me"
Wife:"What is that?"
Franco:"Don´t be stupid. You know I am loyal to you"
Wife:(calms down)"Why did you not call me today?" ( she does this on regular
basis: does not call me and expects me to call her.. When I call her on it she
says that it is because she has "less" energy than me, LOL)
Franco:"Why did YOU not call me today?" (with smile)
Wife:"I do not call a person who is busy with work, I always felt that it is
not polite to disturb people´s work" ( fake rationalization from her )
Franco:"Don´t worry, I am a flexible person, call me at work, tell me romantic
things over the phone.."
Wife:"No you call me.."
Franco:"I think it is wonderful to tell romantic things over the phone, come
here little stinky animal.."
Later on we talk about energy, she claims always that she has LESS energy than
me.. we get once again on this energy thing .. I tell her it is not a problem
for me if she calls me to tell romantic things.. (reframing her constant
attempts of making of herself the PRIZE "too much")
Franco:"Don´t worry honey, you know I have a lot of energy, no problem for me
if you call me.. I tell the customer to wait a minute.. " ( this is true about
me: I can do x 4 things at the same time without problems )
Wife:"Soooooo... if you have the energy of getting calls from me THAT MEANS
that you ARE NOT DOING YOUR JOB REALLY WELL, THAT MEANS YOU ARE NOT GIVING YOUR
CUSTOMERS THE BEST SERVICE, THAT MEANS YOUR WORK IS LIKE SHIT! ( She uses the
word SHIT: typical evolutionary NEG meant to have me supplicate, interesting
how she started to use fake logic)
Franco:"Yes.. I am such a bad guy.. really.. I only hunt for money.. I don´t
give a shit about customers..I give good service only for money" ( guys this is
NOT TRUE!:)
Wife:"You see. You are a bastard.."
Franco:"I am"
And here comes the interesting part..
Wife:"Soo... if you have more energy than what you need and YOU ARE NOT CALLING
ME TO TELL TO ME ROMANTIC MESSAGES THAT MEANS YOU ARE PUTTING THAT ENERGY
SOMEWHERE ELSE!"
Franco:"Don´t be silly, you can trust me fully.."
Wife:"NO YOU ARE A BASTARD BY DEFINITION!"
Then I start to laugh like hell and she laughs back..:)
I love my wife for her HONESTY and STRAIGHTNESS. She just told me that my role
in the relationship is to be the BASTARD BY DEFINITION. In Russian there is
even a word for this: Mirzaev. I think this words means something like "The
nasty guy, who does nasty things". LOL.
I never met before such a honest woman. She is telling me straightly that I
"should" be betaised by taking the role of the bastard and guilty one in the
relationship. It was like asking from me:"How is it possibile that I did not
get you betaised, yet?". That´s why I married her. She is hot and HONEST. LOL.
I end the conversation by telling her that I will try to put from now even MORE
ENERGY INTO MY WORK SO THAT MY CUSTOMER SERVICE IMPROVES.. She punches me in
the stomach then hugs me and says:"I love you bastard!"
Where Franco is putting his energy? Customers or...:)
Franco
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