mASF post by "jaydilla" posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, May 5, 2005There has always been a discussion amongst the seduction boards that a strong
frame of mind is essential, not just for PU, but in life in general. Now I used
to read this all the time, but I never REALLY understood what it meant. Yes, I
would say, I have a strong frame of mind! I am determined! I won't let anything
stop me! Which was great, because it led me here to my current situation. But
the power of thought does not stop there. To have a real strong belief in your
thoughts will determine every external factor that comes to you. A true
understanding of this is crucial to success.
Circumstance is not something that is determined by luck, it is only determined
by the manifestation of your thoughts. Afterall, a man's character is the sum
of all his thoughts. Think about YOUR current situation in your life. For
myself, I can see where I had the thoughts of a king in particular areas of my
life and how I soared, and other areas where I let my thoughts and desire
dwindle and how they correspond to my life now. This is the power of thought.
Thought is spawned by desire for something, and if you have this strong belief
and strong desire, then there is nothing to stop you. That is it. This is how
to shape your own reality. Everything that doesn't enter the equation will
naturally be ignored. Respect is a given. Fear is not something that is
considered. This true belief in yourself and desire to accomplish will carry
you through. It has carried many great people before you, and will continue to
do the same in the future.
So now do not underestimate the power of thought. If you plant the seeds for
positive thoughts, positive reactions WILL come. Likewise, negative thoughts
will garner negative reactions. A successful person does not fall from grace
due to fate or bad circumstances, it is his negative thoughts and desires which
have led him to his downfall. My advice to those with a weak frame of mind, as
a beginning is to write down positive statements and to read these to yourself
once a day. This is nothing new. But this is all from MY experience, and it has
worked wonders for me. Let me give you another example in relation to PU.
I posed a question asking how people would tackle a situation regarding a group
setting with 4 guys and 4 girls. After reading the replies an interesting
thought just came to me. When my thought pattern is similiar to this - "I have
to break into the group. I will open this guy now and get the girl" it is like
they can already smell my agenda from a mile away. The only time I've ever
successfully done it 100% is when another drunk guy from the group approached
me as I opened up his unwilling friend. If my thought pattern is like this - "I
will be a cool sociable guy" I can usually open anyone because there is no
hidden agenda and they sense that. Now, for the TRUE power of thought. If my
thought pattern is this - "She is a beautiful woman and I am going to get to
know her" backed with strong DESIRE and FAITH in myself, nothing is going to
stop me from approaching her like a man, like a real alpha. To think is to act.
Every action I do, everything that happens to me, everything that comes to me
is due to my thoughts. Now live the life YOU want to lead. Plant the positive
seeds of thought in your mind and reap the harvest. There REALLY is NOTHING
stopping you.
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