mASF post by "smooth666"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, March 3, 2005On 3/18/05 1:06:00 PM, Nashvilleplayboy wrote:
>Before I came to this
>community, I was already good
>with women. I won't say great
>or I was a player but I
>received fair amount of IOIs,
>created attraction in plenty
>of chicks, had a decent number
>of lays considering I spent
>alot of time in LTR's.
>
>Since finding this community,
>alot of things have changed
>about me and my game in
>general and my views on life
>in general.
>Another reason for my lack of
>success as far as new lays, is
>after studying ASF and
>applying ideas from here in
>conjunction with my game, alot
>of my beliefs and values
>changed and alot of the things
>I used to do, I now do
>differently. With new values
>and beliefs, the way I run my
>game now is alot different now
>than pre-ASF although it still
>has it's roots in how I used
>to operate.
When I started reading seduction boards (pick-up guide), my game sky rocketed.
But after some time my success rate went down. That is because 99% of the posts
on any board I know are AFC bullshit (KJ crap). They influence your game in a
bad way. I am now very selective on what I read and what I put into my personal
archive on my PC.
>
>In my personal life, there is
>much commotion, which I'm
>currently sorting through and
>attempting to manage better.
>Between school, work, starting
>a small business, financial
>issues, family problems, etc.,
>I'm under a noticeable amount
>of stress. And it's having a
>terrible effect on my ability
>to PU. I realize that I'm
>tired more, if I lose state
>for any period of time, it
>takes effort and work to to
>get it back, it's harder for
>me to put my game on autopilot
>(be "on", because im
>distracted more) and so I
>consciously have to dictate
>alot of things and analyze
>alot of situations as opposed
>to just "doing what I normally
>do" and it kills my game when
>I get like this. The best I
>can do is generate attraction,
>and maybe hold it long enough
>to get up for a day 2. Even
>though this doesn't happen
>alot, it does happen alot more
>than it should. If you can't
>get anything out of this post,
>get this. HANDLE YOUR PERSONAL
>LIFE. Keep it under control,
>keep stress at a minimum, and
>don't let your problems
>distract you from you're
>goals. And even if not that,
>outer game is much more
>difficult to perfect when your
>inner game» is not up to par.
>
This is soooo true. When I am really stressed, it is very difficult for me to
have good game. Problems cloud your state and girls realize it IMMEDIATELY.
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