mASF post by "n3rv1"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, November 11, 2004On 11/25/04 1:45:00 PM, rp_5150 wrote:
>I suggested a photo and you say that
>"there is
>nothing I can write to give you the
>picture".
>
Hmm, sounds like a typical case of Ididn'treadthepostitis. In response to your
ankle-biting request to post photos of myself I said that I'm not an
exhibitionist. I don't like the idea of posting photos of myself on public
seduction boards for the entire world to see. I also don't have my photo up on
HOTORNOT.com, nor do I go in chat and post links to photos of myself for other
guys to critique. *cough* *cough* I WILL, on the other hand, meet you in real
life if you are really hung up enough to travel to Wisconsin. I somehow doubt
you would do that, as I think this is mainly hot air you're releasing at me
about some personal issue.
>
>This is a discussion board, you've
>started a discussion,
>anyone that asks for more info, in your
>mind, doesn't
>"get it", thus, no further explanation
>is necessary.
That's off the mark buddy. I'm more than happy to go into painful detail about
things that DESERVE it! If you aren't aware of what your eyes are saying when
you interact with people, it sounds like you have a lot more learning to do, in
which case you should refrain from critque. That is meant as a helpful
suggestion.
>that's rather neat.
>
Yes, I think you are "neat" too.
>you like experiments, or at least, you
>like for others to
>go do approaches for you,
What a weird thing to say man! You mean approaches like, "my friend n3rv1 likes
you, do you like him?" Hell yeah I like experiments! That's how you learn! It
helps you get out of the comfort zone! Things like eye communication ARE
advanced, and you WON'T understand it, and you WILL ask for in-depth analysis
of it, UNTIL you have tried it out YOURSELF!! Again, it is not my gig to write
novels on the specifics of human interaction. That's what we have TD for! You
will not find play-by-play advice and counseling with me. I'm not selling
anyone anything, so I don't CARE if you get it or not! I'm writing for the guys
who are like myself, the guys who read something like this, understand it, but
might be able to take another angle on it because its put in terms of an
unfamiliar metaphor.
saying, "why
>don't
>you go try it out and decide for
>yourself instead of
>asking others", and when asked directly,
>to see if there's
>any basis to your own idea (that's what
>an experiment is
>supposed to do), you suggest I'm the one
>with a problem.
The first step in solving a problem is acknowledging its existence.
>That's neat, too, and also presupposes
>that I don't already
>go out. it's like a tight little
>package going here.
>
Let's not get personal, dear wobert. It was not my intention to hurt your
feelings with my writing.
>Then, you mention I should lose my ego,
Again, re-read. I suggested you live by your own quotes.
>when in fact
>(ego: a person's sense of self-esteem or
>self-importance;
>an overly high opinion of oneself), I
>see only one ego
>here and it isn't mine,
Who's DO you see? Mine? I love my ego. Sometimes it steps on people's toes.
Such is life. That statement alone could be a 5000 word essay in and of itself.
Hmmmm, maybe I'll start working on it...
>
>i figure I can summarize like this;
>
>. guy comes to self-help place
>. guy seeks help and wants to be the man
>. guy shares his idea
>. other guys ask him more about it
>. guy insists others prove his points
>for him
>. guy gets defensive and angry, claims
>no one understands
>him or is as good as he is (at uni. they
>say this is
>symptom of "guy with esteem issues")
>. guy throws up hands & says self-help
>is for losers anyway, no wonder no one
>"gets it", because they're
>obviously all losers
>. guy goes away for a while, though
>eventually comes
>back later, because he knows he needs
>help, repeat from
>beginning
>
Shit pal I hate to drop the bomb on you like this, but this isn't a self-help
forum! It's a forum about picking up chicks. A lot of self-helpology trickles
into this forum because of the seduction community's origins in NLP, which is
used by "personal change coaches," as well as psychologist, across the globe.
Sorry you are so disturbed by all this my man, hopefully things start improving
for you soon.
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