mASF post by "DBCooper"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, July 7, 2002"hot firewoman who lives down the street from me, married to a
fireman. She is CONSTANTLY wearing overly tight outfits (relative to the
social norms of the society around her, etc. etc.), and being flirtacious
with strangers. I simply "know" from looking at her, that this
flirtaciousness is NOT a signal of interest. I don't know how I know, I
simply do know, my gut feeling tells me, that she is fucked-up about boy-
girl interactions. She is ALWAYS out there, in a way that isn't so much
NEEDY, as simply self-affirming. If I were to reciprocate the human
sexuality that she implies (and I know a few guys who have tried) she would
be OFFENDED that I was so "vulgar." Basically, she's a nerd. She doesn't
understand the subtle social cues that go on around her. But her nerdiness
isn't about computers or engineering, it's about her boobies."""
So, if you've got one of THOSE women on your hands, I simply say that you
can (if the context is right) verbally call her on it. Then walk. If your
gut-feeling indicates that you're dealing with someone who does not KNOW
what she's saying with her actions and attitude, then you are dealing with
someone who will be VERY hard to lay, and also VERY difficult to deal with
after the lay. But that's just my gut-feeling about it. Maybe some of these
chicks have seriously low self-esteem, and so need to get approval from
every man they can find, and in the only manner they know how to get that
approval -- in which case, I suppose there'd be a pretty direct path to the
lay, but then do you want to deal with the logistical nightmare of that
type of chick in your life?"
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I am surprised this type of woman has not been discussed before, but I avoid
women like this. I am sure RJ would have a good summary of there actions, but
there more of a problem. On one hand I think they come from problematic
childhoods and on a cynical note they are just manipulative power grabbers. If
you were to play the Cube with them , they would be the type that would have a
bunch of horses running around in a corral. They use there looks to manipulate
and play with men. Why, because it's a blast.
I think there are really only two ways to get women like this, use manipulation
on them and to use very direct kino and confidence, to lead them where you want
them. And yes they are problematic, my instincts say be aloof with them and
hopefully they get message, otherwise they keep sending signals and they waste
there time. I know a guy who just managed to get somewhere with a gal like
this, but it took him a while , and his time might have been spent more wisely
on other pursuing other women. As far as I know, he doesn't study the seduction
boards, but he has great instincts about this women at least. As a side note as
to how far this women will manipulate, she was once at a wedding and told her
uncle that some guy grabbed her ass. This uncle tried to strangle this poor
guy. Turns out she made it up just to get this uncle angry. Another time this
guy (who I mentioned earlier who spent some time pursuing her before he got
her) was talking with me. she came up to us and asked me if it was ok to talk
to this guy about something important. She then took this guy into the bathroom
that was right in front of me and gave him a blowjob. But she asked me if it
was ok just so she could rub it in. She regularly gives out her number to guys
just so she can blow them off when they call. She ditches her dates when she
goes out with them at festivals and such. Just a really despicable, amoral
person, and she is only 20!
But this guy who pursued her outsmarted her. She wanted to go out with him he
told her he was dating someone else. So she decided to see this guy as fuck
buddy while he pursues this other gal. He also used kino, aggressiveness and
outrageousness to pick her initial interest, but that's what it took to succeed
with this women. But the question is, do you really want to spend that much
time on getting someone like this?
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