mASF post by "Melodic"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, November 11, 2004Im experiencing differences in the way I approach women since I discovered
mASF. Up to last year, I would always do EC with them in clubs, hesitate some
minutes, and then approach with a lot of boring questions like: "Hi, how is
your name, what do you do, do you go out often, how old are you etc... I did
that for 5 years. I was going straight for rapport. Most of the times, those
girls would just leave me talking alone, because I was boring the shit out of
them. The few times I had lucky were when they liked my appearance or the way I
acted. It is funny remembering it now, because after a few questions I would
always ran out of things to say and since I didnt have the balls to escalate, I
got often rejected.
In the beginning of this year I started doing direct approaches. "Can I talk to
you? I would like to meet you..I think you are beautiful. This got me somewhat
better results because I was being direct and confident. But still, most girls
were 5's or 6's.
I discovered mASF some months ago and it changed my whole PU perspective. I had
never heard of attraction before. I thought women were the selectors and all I
could do was open more and more of them in the hope I get lucky. When I first
started reading all of these seduction books and some of the top PUAS archives
in here, I caught myself thinking: all this story of games, rehearsed routines,
c&f is total bullshit.
But I decided to give it try. I have read all of the books out there like crazy
but wasnt getting in the field constantly. So for the last 30 days I am going
out 2 nights a week and practising. I am using situational openers, trying to
control the frame and keep the convo fun. No rehearsed routines and no
questions about herself. Just trying to see if I can spark some attraction. The
weird thing is my mind goes blank after 2 or 3 minutes, I dont know what to say
anymore and eject. It has happened constantly. Once in a while I will be in a
inspired night and will get girls attracted, but usually I feel kinda lost.
What can I do? Should I just have a prepared game plan, like opener, routines,
stories, games..even if they are not congruent with who I am? I feel kinda
silly at this point still dont knowing what to say to a girl, especially after
reading all of this material.
- Melodic
"Only those who risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go".
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