mASF post by "Julian"
posted on: USENet: alt.seduction.fast newsgroup, October 10, 1998
ALFAHOT1 wrote:
> I was just sitting here tonight, bullshitting and reading through the posts of
> alt.seduction and alt.romance when something occurred to me for some
> reason. There is a certain "war of the sexes" going on these days. Let me
> see if I can articulate and make this clear. Men are reading books and
> studying systems on how to seduce women and to put it quite bluntly, how
> to get laid. Women are reading books on how to control and manipulate men
> or to keep from being seduced by men who are good at seducing, or to keep
> from putting out for as long as possible while getting what THEY want.
>
> In other words, it seems to come down to a lot of measures and
> counter-measures and counter-counter-measures, etc, etc. A lot like
> war in a way isn't it? Well shit, now I seem to have lost the point I was
> driving at. Well anyway, Men have all the weapons of Speed Seduction
> and books on how to be the Jerk that gets women, and women have books
> like "The Rules" and cosmopolitan to help them along.
>
> So what the hell is this all really coming down to? I know that women have
> for years been studying the art of seduction and have always had their circle
> of
> inner friends to talk with. Men are just now starting to wake up and pull their
> head out of their asses and realize that they better start studying these
> things
> if they even hope to put themselves on an equal playing field with women.
>
> But does it not seem like sooner or later all these seduction measures and
> counter-measures will be seen for what they really are and eventually
> become useless, at least in a sense? Or at least its' efficacy reduced to bare
> minimum? As an example, since "The Rules" was published, doesn't that sort of
> blow the game plan for women? Since all men will be reading it. Likewise with
> men, anything that could be
> potentially very useful, being published, doesn't it eventually lose most of
> its' effectiveness? Or am I just paranoid and reading something into it that
> just
> isn't there?
>
> AH1
The only time that women in general find out about a certain pick up ploy is
when it becomes corny. Remember 'what's your sign'? At one time, that was
probably a good line to use. But it got over-used. Now, that line is synonomous
with the 70's swinger in the leisure suit and platform shoes lurking in lounges
around the world.
However, SS, NLP and all the other techniques talked about in here are more
than just lines. They are different ways of thinking. Eventually, women in
general might become familiar with speed seduction to the point where it'll become
a trendy buzz word but I don't think that they will actually learn its secrets.
First of all, No girl will spend $150+ to get these secrets. Second, they aren't
as motivated (only guys would pour so much resource into finding a better way to
get laid). Most girls will learn OF speed seduction but most of them will think
'oh, that will NEVER happen to me. I'm too smart to fall for that stuff'. And
they'll be thinking that as they are going home with a guy they met 20 minutes
ago.
The bottom line is this is not World War II. They aren't trying to crack our
secret code. They know that this stuff is out there and they think they are
prepared to spot it. But the thing is, they never see it coming!
Julian
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