mASF post by "illpapiny" posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2002On 7/13/02 5:35:00 PM, aspiringplayer wrote: >Hi all. First time poster. >Moved to Manhattan not so long >ago, am quickly finding out >that the pickup game is HARD >here. I am a 23 year old AFC, >about 9 months out of a >defunct three year >relationship...let's just say >my game is near zero. It
Welcome to New York! I am a 22 year old RAFC from just outside the City.
>seems that looks and status >are a big deal here, not that >I'm bad looking, but I'm no >model, am not ripped, and am >not tall. Looking for advice
Like the other guys mentioned, game and confidence can overcome looks, status,
money, etc. That is obtained by practice.
You can practice on your own by going out to places where HBs have their guards
down like in museums, cafes, coffee shops, music stores, department stores &
malls. The best thing to do is do Svengali's challenge where you get
comfortable speaking with everyone, not just HBs.
You can also practice sarging with some PUAs right here in NYC. One of the
benefits of being in NYC is that there is a support network of guys who are
everything from absolute newbies to seduction gurus. There are monthly
seduction meetings held in Manhattan.
For more information: go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/
Then, type in: NYCTSF
Join the group to get feedback on your questions, get NYC sarging events and
meetings. NYCTSF is also forming a group for newbies to meet up and do nothing
but practice approaches. That group should be formed in early August. Also,
sign up for PAIR on this site to find additional wings. Lastly, feel free to
e-mail me privately for any further information or to meet up and sarge.
Anyway, take care and have fun sarging.
IllpapiNY
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