The Top Pickup Artist Forum On The Internet: Fast Seduction 101

mASF post by "Real_Quiet"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, May 5, 2004

On 5/10/04 10:53:00 AM, scoob wrote:
>I can't even remember the last
>time I originated a post but
>I've recognized a very real
>sticking point in my overall
>game. There is one habitual
>flaw in my body language that
>I can't seem to shake. In
>fact, I've only recently
>become aware of it and can't
>believe how chronic it is.
>
>I recently came across a very
>good post by BadBoy on
>Thundercat's Seduction Lair
>that gave a solid breakdown of
>subcommunication. One of the
>key points he emphasized was
>to not look down at the floor
>or your feet and instead to
>focus on the horizon and keep
>your eyes at that level or
>higher. That is spot on
>because averting your gaze
>downward implies submission.
>Suddenly I realized that I am
>CONSTANTLY looking down for a
>brief second and looking back
>up when I'm in a social
>setting. We're talking 2-3
>times a minute, especially
>when I'm in a situation where
>I'm not engaged in a set and
>I'm waiting on something (in
>line for the toilets, ordering
>a drink, etc.). It's driving
>me absolutely insane now that
>I'm aware of it.
>
>The rest of my BL is congruent
>with my confident and outgoing
>personality. I take up lots of
>space, lean back, hold eye
>contact and so on. Yet I feel
>like I need a cattle prod
>attached to my balls to shock
>me every time I look down
>because it seems so reflexive
>as if I can't control it. A
>nervous tic perhaps.
>
>Anyone have any suggestions or
>advice how to stop being so
>shifty? I was shy and
>repressed for many years and I
>feel like this looking down
>nonsense is the last leftover
>from those days and it does
>NOT want to let go. How did
>you guys unlearn your worst
>bad body language habit?
>Excepting cattle prods of
>course. That wouldn't be
>practical.

Also read the article and went to the bb forum and checked it out.

Anyhow I also had the same problem you described. When I came conscious of
doing it I noticed the only time I do it is when I am standing waiting on
something in a passive state like at the cashier for example or when I am
actively walking to get from point a to point b. Thing is when I catch myself
doing it I always slow down. And it is more so the head youll notice that goes
down compared to the eyes. So it not only has to do with being in a passive
state or idle but with your posture. Youll probably notice you do it more from
walking or standing idle some where than sitting. Nevertheless it's the head
going down not the eyes. And could have to do with your posture. Anyhow what I
have done is if I find myself doing it, and I still do once in a while, I'll
instantly realize it's happening and slowwwwwwww down my movements and
instantly start moving in a slower more purpoeful manner and keep the head up.
Hope that helps.

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