mASF post by "Style"
posted on: mASF forum: Tactics / Techniques Discussion, December 12, 2002Just a couple quick thoughts:
INNER:
After reading all the SP-Inner posts, and hearing some roundtable
discussions with women that an LA seduction teacher I know made, I
realized what DOES NOT work. It doesn't work if you come off as
socially awkward, and it doesn't work if you try to be a cool player
either. What BOTH of these have in common is that they are
SELF-CONSCIOUS. So, the goal in the field, is to move through your PU
with a TOTAL lack of self-consciousness. That is what it means to be a
natural.
OUTER:
I realized that there is a KEY element of attraction that is NEVER
discussed in this NG (to my knowledge). And that is having AMBITION.
To women, car, job, money, status, etc.--all that does matter to some
degree. But what is MORE important is having ambition, a goals,
direction. So what I'd advise everyone to do is to come up with a
paragraph-long mission statement. And, at some point during your PU,
when a natural opportunity arises, tell it to the girl with excitement
and a gleam in your eyes. If you are a musician, tell her your dreams
and ambitions and hopes. And if you're a computer programmer, tell her
you are working on a code to play all media files (or whatever--I know
nothing about computers). It is going to be called the Yourname Code,
and, if all goes well, you will actually become a household name
because your name will be on everyone's computers.
That may not be the best example, but all of us here have a non-PUA
dream. Figure out what it is, and share it. HBs are like talent scouts
sometimes; they want to hitch themselves to the rising star before
anyone has discovered him.
There are certain switches that must be flipped to create attraction.
Things like being desired, having confidence, having value, being a
protector, etc. This is one of them...
CPowles
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