mASF post by "valued customer" posted on: USENet: alt.seduction.fast newsgroup, September 9, 2002Consider this.
I was at the bookstore today, reading some magazines, and I noticed a
lovely young woman out of the corner of my eye. Casual observation of
her movement and actions seemed to indicate she was there alone, and
not particularly focused on book shopping. No big deal, some people
just like to glance and people-watch, so I go back to reading the
magazine.
To my surprise, the woman then approaches me, excusing herself for the
interruption (which I didn't mind at all) and she gave me a very
engaging compliment on my looks. It has been a while since a random
stranger walked up to me just to say such a thing, so I was flattered.
Ironically, I was also surprised to identify some of the 'tactics of
her approach' that I had come across in places like this newsgroup.
Which brings me to my point.
Personally, I am not a big fan of "seduction" type thinking. I know
these seduction tips are meaningful to some folks, so I mean no
disrespect, but because of my focusing on the various subelements of
the episode, I found myself *over-analyzing* the situation ... to my
detriment. All because I had forgotten what I began with ... before I
even knew about the stuff that is in these newsgroups:
Life is what it is, don't take yourself so seriously, there's more to
it than just seducing and being seduced. Stand firm on the foundation
of what makes life meaningful and worthwhile for you, and build from
there.
So anyway here I am, remembering how much fun it is simply to talk to
someone because you enjoy life, and the people you share it with while
it lasts.
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