mASF post by "thrillseeker" posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2005So I'm trying to live by the maxim, "If she's in blue (a fellow Coastie) she's
not for you."
Sounds simple, but this shit has gotten so wired into me, that I find myself
using all opportunities to create attraction in women whether I think it would
be a good idea to sleep with them or not. It's my reptilian brain I guess,
manipulating this lumbering robot that I am to carry out the directives of my
genes...
But, I don't plan on carrying it through to the end. What I do plan on doing
is getting female friends and using them as pivots. BWAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA.
And I was just reading PlayerSupreme's article on how pathological players are.
RUN AWAY LITTLE GIRLS!!!
It's an interesting game I'm playing here. I have to be especially subtle. I
can't just go around cold approaching all the hotties on base. That would be
totally obvious and people would notice. And it's a very small community.
However, I definitely want and intent to be on good terms with all the hotties
I possibly can. So I network and move people around like chess pieces.
So I get them to LIKE me, indirectly and inconspicuously, so you can tell it's
not me being weird and pursuing them, it's obviously a mutual getting along.
THIS is the difference between direct and indirect. What I do in clubs is, no
doubt in my mind, direct. I HIT on girls. In a very sophisticated way that
actually WORKS, but I fucking go for the jugular. "You guys are BAD/I LOVE
YOU/My puppy died, I need love." That's direct. Turning girls into gal-pals
without letting anyone on to the fact that you have any undue interest in
them...that is SUBTLE. Indirect.
To all those of you who are always ranting against routines cause they're fake
or whatever, my use of routines has given me the experience of the underlying social dynamics that serve me well in normal unscripted social interactions.
I am BTW way cooler than almost all the guys here, which works to my advantage.
They're all military dudes, what do you expect? The fact that these chicks
have truckloads of guys vying for their attention (most of them don't get out
like I do, and we're like 12% female) means nothing. Just like it means
nothing in the clubs. Especially because, unlike them, I have options (I
actually DO, I don't have to fake it anymore) and thus am not needy.
I think I'm starting to go through a transition from the ASF dude who merges
out of the shadows, spits out internet shit and vanishes into the night, to a
guy who simply has a lifestyle where he's constantly surrounded by women. I'm
fucking addicted to that female energy and I feel weird without it. I think
developing both sexual and non-sexual relationships with women is a positive
thing.
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