mASF post by "TheDatingWizard" posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, July 7, 2005On 7/20/05 1:26:00 AM, Paraiso wrote:
"You get all the way where you fuck her and
you don't even know her name."
I'm soooo proud of you. Personally, I enjoy
the process of getting to know a bit
about the girl in front of me.
But I guess that means I have ISSUES
according to you.
But let me get to the REAL point:
See, even though you haven't explicitly SAID
that you MEAN that this is a great METHOD,
the fact is by drawing attention to this
"no talking" tactic, you distort reality.
This is the kind of thing where you screw up
guys who start to REALLY think that the
"no talking" kind of thing might
be "solid game" if they just were at
a high enough "level".
BULLSHIT.
As opposed to what it REALLY is, the "no talking",
"tactic" is something that can happen ONLY in
specific circumstances, or with SPECIFIC girls.
Don't pretend otherwise.
Just caveman her and punch her lights out
and slug her over your shoulder back to your
bedroom, that's the ALPHA way, right????
Also, for most guys that I know,
they actually ENJOY knowing a bit about the
girl in front of them, so that takes
a bit of TALKING.
Ooops, I said "enjoying talking to a girl".
I guess that means they have ISSUES as well.
And if you are going to say that the "no talking"
method is just an EXTREME example, well then you are
doing the same thing by trying to make out the "indirect"
guys as some kind of "excusers". That is an obscene distortion of the truth, it's not even exaggeration,
it's just pure bullshit.
The reality is that indirect and direct
don't actually differ, it's more in terms
of slightly different METHODS of LEARNING.
And not all folks learn best in the same way.
The bottom line is that in MOST situations
you WILL have to talk and you WILL have to be in
the right states of mind and you will have
to escalate. And you will have to know
how to handle shit tests, etc.
Michael W
The Dating Wizard
www.thedatingwizard.com»
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