mASF post by "nichols"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, August 8, 2005>Its like poor game
>mixed with regular AFC shit
>right afterwards. Your game is
>not Direct, and not Indirect
>either. It needs some fixing,
>and I KNOW YOU HAVE IT IN YOU
>TO DO THAT IF YOU WANT TO. =)
I would definetely agree that I don't have much of a plan when going into PUs.
Just fluff for awhile and try something new at some point is my goal. I saw the
maniac plan but it's too long for me to learn. It's tough to believe every PUA
has a plan like Maniac's in their head
>Okay, if I'm not totally off
>here, this is how I saw this
>situation from how you explain
>it. "Hey, I
>like you and I got aroused by
>your hair touching me. But
>I'll pretend to put up my wife
>as a obstacle." -and his
>subcommunication telling: if
>she's really there, or is he
>lying. and if shes there that
>she has him by the balls so if
>he talk to her he wont get
>laid the next week.)
>Here is would be perfect to go
>with some cocky/playful and
>tease her some to get some
>interest/attraction. Something
>like "That was a really lame
>pickup attempt.. But
>honestly..... I really don't
>like your hair
>either.......you should
>consider shaving it all
>off........ (She laughs).. I
>had this friend who had to
>shave his hair when he lost a
>bet.. bla bla and this and
>this cool and crazy shit
>happened..."
>(The last part is when you go
>into an interesting/funny
>story that relates from your
>life. where you control the
>FRAME)
>The C/P line above is said
>seriously, but with sly smile
>afterwards... dots indicate
>length of pauses in delivery.
>;)
Wow, that's really nice.
>I can't see
>your BL from reading your
>post, but I suspect that
>your're not on top of that
>shit.
Yeah, I just do what feels natural. No mirroring as of yet.
>You're also repairing
>something that you should have
>avoided in the first place.
>With a Cocky/playful reply
>etc.
>She's probably quiet because
>she's annoyed with all the
>weird shit she has to put up
>with before the customers will
>buy a dance from her and she
>can get some $$$. Then she
>remembers she needs the cash,
>and goes back into the
>battlezone with you again.
Lol and I thought I was running some high powered new age game on her...
>
>------------
>I then asked her if she had a
>b/f.
>------------
>
>You think this behavior
>separates you from other
>visitors?
>Think again... And this shit
>doesn't even matter. If she's
>more into you than the BF, it
>really doesn't... And not to
>mention the subcommunication
>in this line. When asked
>sincerly this question
>subcommunicate Insecurity,
>needyness, that you probably
>dont have a g/f, that you're
>not very smooth or socially
>savy (and 100+ more things
>thats not good for you..)
Yeah, I understand that subcommunication, that's why I followed it up with
talking about her probably being lonely and explaining all her shopping to try
to make it sound more natural. But I'm sure she gets that all the time which is
not something I considered at the time...
>Cant you see it
>man? She's practically
>bragging about some lamass
>that tried to pick her up by
>offering her lots of money...
>Here you can go cocky playful
>again. Just improvise
>somerhing like: "Oh.. you're
>trouble... I see what you're
>trying to do... Yeah...ok
>then....you could possibly
>take me out for dinner
>sometime... if... you're a
>good girl.... But I'm not that
>cheap... i'll make you a
>special offer though, since
>you're amusing.... only 5000$"
>this shit is all tonality and
>delivery, so if you have that
>down you can say almost
>anything in those lines.
Damn, yeah I'de really like to get to the point of saying stuff like that but
I'm just not wired yet to think like that. It didn't even cross my mind to say
something like that.
>INNER
>GAME. BODY LANGUAGE. TONALITY.
>FRAME CONTROL. important shit.
Sounds good, anywhere besides old posts where I can readup on that stuff?
>Listen to OX's advice
>on techniques, but have the
>inner game» to back it up
>first, or you'll just look
>like an dumbass. I also
>believe mystery has a "meeting
>strippers" seminar if you¨re
>really into this, and there
>are probably some good posts
>in the archives.
>
>And don't you go around hating
>strippers or some shit after
>this. See, that's stupid. You
>messed up yourself. She just
>did her job, and I can tell
>from your post that she was
>kind to you as well. MAN....
>YOU CAN CHANGE, and you're
>doing it right now. can you
>feel it? THAT IS A GOOD THING!
>=)
I feel like Forest Gump at a physics conference right now.
>You have in you what it takes
>to be a great PUA/"ladies
>man", but your focus is a bit
>wrong. Work on INNER GAME»,
>body language, and just
>socially vibing with cool
>people. When you gain the self
>esteem and a good unshakable
>foundation, then you can use
>techniques and they will work
>for you. INNER GAME», BL,
>FRAMECONTROL, AND FIELD
>PRACTICE WITH SOCIALLY VIBING.
>Get into Huna, NLP (on
>yourself, wait with the Speed
>Seduction stuff because it'll
>mess your game up at this
>stage... some of the Ross
>Jefferys material is good for
>comfort building though..) and
>build a happy life to fix your
>inner game». just sit down and
>think about life and your
>place in it.
>
>Then look into
>subcommunication. What does
>your clothes and shoes
>communicate, what does your
>body language communicate,
>what does the shape you're in
>subcommunicate, what does your
>eyecontact communicate, what
>does the people you're rolling
>with communicate about you,
>what does your voicetone
>communicate, what does your
>reactions communicate, your
>mannerisms, haircut,
>accessories etc.. this list is
>endless.
>The actual words you say are a
>very little % of your total
>communication.
>
>AND MOST IMPORTANT: always fix
>up your life before thinking
>too much about PU... THIS IS
>SO KEY!! I CANT STRESS THIS
>ENOUGH... This WILL improve
>your inner game» (which is 100
>times more important than
>knowing a few techniques..)..
>
>THIS... IS... THE.. MOST..
>IMPORTANT... THING... YOU'LL..
>EVER.. LEARN.... FROM.. mASF.
>
>Just ask yourself, is there
>anything in my life that I can
>improve. If the answer in is
>yes in any aspect of your
>life, THEN DO IT. Health,
>fitness, economy, friends,
>family relations, hobbies,
>education etc.
Nah, life's ok. It's just the desperation and not getting laid that's getting
me down.
>
>
>
>Then you can go back to mASF
>and look at those techniques
>and what to say, and your game
>will REALLY skyrocket..
>
>
>Love from your friend,
>Victor of Norway.
This input was really appreciated my man, thanks for taking the time out to
drop some knowledge!
-Nichols
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