mASF post by "Freelancer101" posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, July 7, 2005Aphro,
Your post isn't wierd. In fact,
I like the more challengine ones,
the unusual stories and the challenge
for creative solutions.
I think people aren't used to someone
describing FULL situations like when
you talked about her always smiling.
It's more common for people to give
some kind of generalized situation
such as "I'm in a club and my pal is
doing A, and I'm doing B and this HB9
licks her lips and ..." yada yada...
Real easy to respond to because it's
common fare and people have seen dozens
of answers to common problems.
I'll tell you right up front, I'm just
a natural. I don't know all the patterns,
of SS, but I know some and I know that NLP is POWERFUL. It's just my opinion
from my experience that just having "good
game" isn't really the peak of seduction.
The peak is to really learn a system, one
that is full of proven formula.
Bottom line is pretty simple...
You already have a good rapport with this
girl. Now instead of seeking some kind
of lesbian solution, use the tried and true
method of getting her to think of that
perfect someone that makes her feel the
way you want her to feel towards you, then
transfer the feeling to yourself.
It shouldn't matter if she's bi or les
because, as another bro pointed out, it's
all in frames...you can reframe her to
find pleasure in being with you. As
you listen to her, also feedback the
words she uses to continue creating the rapport.
And lastly, as for the remark on seduction
should be fast in "speed seduction»" well
yes and no...the truth is, seduction can
be a LOT faster than most guys ever realize.
But it's also true that each flower pops in
its own time.
If you're making popcorn and you turn up the
heat too much too fast, it'll pop, but it will
be hard, and not fluffy like good popcorn should
be. If you take too long with the heat, the
same thing. Have SOME patience...plant the
seed and let it grow.
Tell me more if you can, and we'll take it
from there with more specifics.
Sincerely,
Freelancer
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