mASF post by "AtoZ"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, August 8, 2005GS, good times hanging out with you yesterday bro. I'm going to take some
time this week to review your threads thoroughly and post some detailed
comments.
In meantime, my 2cents on this tidbit:
<GoneSavage> wrote ...
[snip]
> I go for the kiss and I'm in. Very nice. Proceed to kiss neck and ears
> and
> arms and legs and touch breasts. She's not breathing heavy or otherwise
> getting into it, but not stopping me either. I direct her to kiss my neck
> and
> I put her hands on my chest. Kiss my chest, kiss here, bite there, etc.
> I'm
> telling her that I want to taste her. I've got my hand under her dress
> and I
> put her hand on my straining cock.
>
> And that's about it. She pushes me away. It's abrupt. All I hear is
> boyfriend, boyfriend, novio, novio, boyfriend, blah, blah. I try "juicy
> secret" threads but she's already locked. Can't get back in for anything.
> Long story short, I respectfully take her home. Keep the ride upbeat and
> playful for whatever its worth. You know, not being a pouty sore-ass.
> We
> smile and kiss when I drop her off. She has my email just in case she has
> anything to say. Damn.
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I don't know about the timeframe of the first paragraph, but you mention she
wasnt getting too into it. In a case like this, I would go light with her -
kisses, make out, touch close to, but not the nether regions directly. You
write she has not objected to that. I'd do it as long as it would take for
her to really get hot and heavy into it, then bump the heat up. From my
experience it pays to tease girls who warm up slowly with the foreplay even
a bit past the point of them actually geting hot and heavy, allowing *them*
to escalate or at least subconsciously adjust their BL to invite escalation,
which as far as I'm concerned is a green light (kind of like the reaction
to my 'genuinity about being faithful to bf' test I told you about).
It sounds like you've progressed too rapidly and she got shocked out of her
rising sexual state. And as we all know, low arousal = high possibility of
logic kicking in, and logically shes only in your van to check pictures...
while high arousal circumvents all logic circuts.
Slurride has a point too, but it was probably a minor detail she didnt
notice too much. Most likely, slower escalation and pacing could have been
the ticket here.
That aside, I'm curious as to how everything worked out with HBspinner :)
-AtoZ
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