mASF post by "thrillseeker"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, August 8, 2005I had another night that was less than stellar. There weren't as many targets
as I would have liked, but there were enough. The problem was that I had no
game.
They say you learn in plateaus. I think for me, it's more like peaks and
valleys. My game shoots way up through the roof, then it dips back down. Then
eventually it shoots back up again, and then dives back down, but that valley
is higher up than the last valley.
I was experiencing a problem that has come up for me a few times so far. I use
ASF material to good effect, get really good with it, get killer results. As a
result, I have an awesome vibe, and I see that it's the vibe, not the material,
that gets the goods.
Then I think, "See, I don't really need that material after all." And it
starts to seem a little lame--I just don't think it's cool anymore for some
reason and thus have a hard time being congruent with it. So I try to go
improv, but I don't really know where I'm going so my frame control is weak,
and I fail to hook. I suddenly start to doubt myself, and have a hard time
having conviction in what I'm saying, whether it's a routine or not.
Whether you're using material or flying by the seat of your pants, I think one
of the most important things is to have conviction in what you're saying.
And I'm going to have conviction in my material, whether I like it or not. I
do doing very well. I was kicking ass. Isn't this one of those things Dave D.
was going on about a lot? How guys will FINALLY do something that actually
works, and as soon as it's working, they suddenly feel compelled to STOP doing
it for some reason? WTF?
Next time I'm going to tear it up, doing what I KNOW works.
My little pony
Best friend test
Total badgirls
Sexual predators/Girl who stole my hat
New gf...cook?
Badass kid story
Etc.
Bang this stuff out and they're hooked. THEN I can vibe.
Also, I need to lay off the caffeine pills. Like booze, you need to find the
right balance. Obviously, I can't game if I'm falling asleep. However, I tend
to take too much, and as a result I have this high-strung nervous energy and I
fail to have the relaxed confident sexual vibe that I've gotten such good
results with in the past.
So it was a nice little BREAK I had from running game. How about I get back to
doing WHAT WORKS?
I did, BTW, get a chick's #. She picked me up. I swear, the sexual predator
routine is so true. She opened me by slapping my ass, so I ran some game on
her, qualified her a little bit, and was then cuddling with her on a coach. On
the downside, she has a kid and her uncle's in the mob or some shit. On the
upside, she's really cute. Hmm...
Girls are my anti-drug.
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