mASF post by "Yuri"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, January 1, 2005On 1/10/05 4:42:00 AM, Riker_AUT wrote:
>All around christmas you could
>see happy couples everywhere.
>I just took a look at my
>company ( ~ 25 people between
>20 and 35 y.o) and I'm the
>only Single here. All the
>other guys and chicks got
>regular partners, I know some
>of the girlfriends and a few
>of them are quite hot.
>
>Now, the funky thing for me.
>None of these guys ever heard
>of concepts like "attraction"
>or "bridging" or "day2". They
>dont know "C&F" or how to
>calibrate, most of them would
>probably faint if they had to
>do a cold approach in a public
>place.
>
>Yet, I'm the only one not
>getting laid here? Something
>doesn't compute.
>
>How is that possiple?
>Everyday, tons of guys who
>dont know ASF are getting laid
>by their girlfriends or
>fuckbuddys or ONS's. Yet some
>of us here, even after
>learning and lots of field
>experience, are struggling for
>even a KISSCLOSE.
Riker, Hi :)
I think your problem starts in that you haven't developed how to work on your
PU skills. You need to become organized as much as is possible, and FIGURE OUT
what exactly is going wrong. I don't think that there's a lack of information.
I think that the information you have, you aren't using correctly. It's not
your fault, it's just that the material is some times hard to incorporate into
a useful framework.
Also, I think you need to go out in the field as much as possible. Stop farting
around and go lay a chick. Seriously. It's not as hard as you think. You go up
to them, you do c&f, you joke around, sexual state... you progress as far as
they'll let you. If they won't go with you, then just do stupid stuff to see
what will happen.
It's YOUR life, after all, it sounds like you're going out sarging and that
it's stressing you out at the end of the day. Well that's fine for a little
while, but bro, HAVE SOME FUN with it. And get it done. Go as far as any chick
will let you. You said that guys were having problem getting kiss closes. You
can get a kiss close easy.
I highly reccomend that you meet up with guys from your local lair if you have
one, or come to summits, or even just fly/drive out to guys who you want to
meet and schedule time with them.
Make it a top priority to keep your mental state positive and upbeat. Find some
"Major Mark" audio or some Tony Robbins.
When you go out to sarge, if you are mid-set and bored, just lick your lips and
start pushing the girl and say, "what? you wanna fight?" with a devilish grin.
Then grab her and fall with her to any soft surface. Pretend that you have to
wrestle for control, and that she might actually have a small chance, but then
when she gets too cocky just dump her on her back and pin down and makeout. :)
Or ... Just to any stupid shit she says, stick your tongue out at her
playfully, like you're a little kid teasing her, then BACKTURN her and walk
away like you're counting paces to your death... Just make up some stupid shit
and do it.
Hope this helps.
Yuri
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