mASF post by "Candor"
posted on: USENet: alt.seduction.fast newsgroup, June 6, 2001[email protected] (MrSex4uNYC) wrote in message news:<20010607143025.25906.00000247@ng-cn1.aol.com>...
> >MrSex4uNYC <[email protected]> wrote in message
> >news:20010606101133.27586.00000305@ng-ct1.aol.com...
> >Doesn't it ever become a hassle when you want to see her in particular and
> >she's fucking him and so can't fuck you, or is a fuck a fuck ie. you call
> >another chick and fuck her instead?
>
> THAT'S why my PRIMARY has to be all about me. SHE is the only one that has to
> be available to me whenever I want to see her. if her attention is divided
> between me and some other guy, what happens is that I want to go out with
> friends and their girlfriends and I call my PRIMARY and she says she can't make
> it because she is going to the movies with her other boyfriend. nope! :) fuck
> that. the primary is like the "firsl lady". Clinton used to show up to
> dinners and summits and press conferences with Hillary... but he was getting
> blown and fucking all these other bitches. do you think he was concerned with
> whether monica was fucking or sucking some other guy? do you think he was
> concerned that monica couldn't make it to the press conference or the
> dinner-dance? who gives a shit? :) the woman CHOSEN to represent HIM is the
> one that goes along to the engagements. I don't give a fuck WHAT chicks are
> doing or who they are with because there is only one that has the title of my
> PRIMARY and the EXTRA responsibilities, sexual and social, that come along with
> that position.
Here's a minor difference between myself and NYC. It sounds like he's
a little more spontaneous than me, whereas I tend to schedule
everything in advance. ALL of my MLTRs are ALWAYS available to me,
but I always schedule meetings with them about a week in advance or
more. The only time an MLTR has been unavailable has been when one of
my MLTRs got seriously sick and had to cancel an evening of
festivities, so I called another MLTR that I was in the mood to see at
6 p.m. asking if she was available at 7 p.m. She wasn't. I didn't
feel like seeing one of my other two MLTRs that night, so just read a
book instead (didn't feel like PU either).
IF you want to be spontaneous and have someone available all the time,
then you have to go the NYC way and have an exclusive primary who can
drop everything at any moment. Since I always schedule, I only need
MLTRs who can drop everything, cancel plans, etc. with a minimum
advance warning of a few days. And they do that. My non-primary MLTR
who hides our relationship from her boyfriend constantly cancels dates
with him in order to be with me. She just makes up bullshit about how
one of her girlfriends is having a crisis and needs her to visit.
So for me, primary status is all about a feeling of being special that
the MLTR has, and hasn't been formalized the way NYC does it. Then
again, he's been at this a lot longer than me. I never had a primary
until a few months ago, when I promoted two of my MLTRs (one in each
city) because they treated me exceptionally well. But I gave them
both shaky, uncertain primary status, that could be yanked away from
them at any moment if they didn't keep coming up with ways to please
me and be supportive of me. Then when HB8Lips gave me the threesome,
I solidified her standing. She just has to keep doing what she's
doing, and doesn't have to worry about her status. The other one is
still shaky. If someone else comes along who does a better job, she
will slide down the totem pole.
Who knows, though--as I continue with this, you may see an evolution
in my MLTR policy in the direction of NYC over the next few months or
year.
Candor
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