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mASF post by "AllActionAndy11"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, August 8, 2005On 8/14/05 7:10:00 PM, Nineteen84 wrote:
>I'm quite good at hiding this
>side of myself from others but
>it still affects my level of
>happiness. My theory is that
>anyone who doesn't have
>success with women at the
>beginning of their lives is
>perminantly damaged
>psychologicly and will still
>have psychological problems
>similar to mine even if they
>have high levels of success in
>later life.
Isn't that a great limiting beleif. I also have a theory, if people are not
getting pussy now, they never will be, so might as well give up. All kidding
aside, just cause you haven't had success in the past doesn't mean you are
screwed up forever. Very few things in this world are irreplaceable or
unfixable. This is not one of those things. I am not sure if this will work,
but you have to start validating yourself from inside. Look at your life as
something that you dictate the script to, because no one else is fit for the
job. If you dont wanna drink when you go to parties, fuckin don't drink and
know that you are doin that in the right way. In life there are 2 ways to do
everything: 1) the wrong way, and 2) your way. I remember reading a post here a
long time ago that said that for any question you have, you don't consult the
average guy, you instead go to an expert. If you break your arm, you don't go
to your neighbor or some random person on the street. FUCK THAT. When you break
your arm you go to a doctor. You don't have the girl you meet at starbucks to
lookover the contract for the house your buying. Your life is just another one
of those things. You shouldn't look to someone else for whats right in your
life. You are the expert for things pertaining to your life.
I'm only 19 and i
>feel like its really fucking
>me up. I'm sure a lot of
>people in the community suffer
>from the same thing as me
>weather they are conscious of
>it or not. Does anyone have
>any good copeing strategies to
>deal with it?
One strategy that I have seen used for many things is to set little alarms in
your head any time you feel bad for not being validated externally, and correct
yourself. Your subconcious mind is just like a dog that has to be disciplined
with repetition. So everytime you see yourself looking at others to see if you
are right, stop yourself and ask yourself if what you are doing is right for
you.
Good luck man. Step one is done (identify the problem)
All Action
"Do or do not. There is no 'try.'"----Yoda
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