mASF post by "Norm"
posted on: mASF forum: Advanced Discussion, August 8, 2005Ok so by no means am I an expert on this stuff, but these are some thoughts I
have been thinking about. Many guys have been in the community, read lots,
studied lots of books and material, attended lair meetings and even gone out
regularly without getting success with this area.
Maybe some guys have reached the level they have set out to achieve, but for
those who want more these are some of the things one might want to look at.
(Harsh examples.)
1. Be honest to yourself about the success you are getting and where your skill
level is at. If you haven't gotten laid in years or are still a virgin don't
perceive yourself to be a player when you are not. Women are very intuitive and
can see right through this stuff. They are so savy. Just think about when you
have an off night, the littlest thing or insecurity can blow you out right off
of the opener. Success with women is always better sub communicated anyway.
Resist the temptation.
2. Be honest with yourself about the girls you want to attract. Do you dress in
a way that will attract HB9's and 10's? Maybe I need cooler clothes, better
grooming, and hot haircut. Is your lifestyle attractive to these types of
girls?? If sitting at home and watching TV all night is a lot of what you do or
playing video games online is something you like to do, is this the kind of
lifestyle you want to bring girls into. But maybe you want to find a girl that
enjoys these things also though.
3. You need to find yourself attractive before anyone girl could find you
attractive. If you are not satisfied with yourself and where you life is at how
are other girls suppose to be satisfied with you, or be attracted to you. If
you would not have sex with yourself how would you expect a girl to sleep with
you. Put yourself in the heels and position of an HB and think to yourself
whether you with have sex with yourself.
4. Take a hard look at yourself how you are coming across to girls. Really step
back from all your interactions and look at yourself through your minds eye to
see what kind of image your are projecting through your words, your
bodylanguage, your projection, frame control, etc, etc, etc. Social leaning was
a big one for me that I had to and still do have to evaluate. Constantly be
doing this to look at how you are coming across to girls and how you need to
change.
If through any of the above examples you see areas of improvement just get the
knowledge you need to to make the adjustments. The game is fun and learning it
is even more fun. It would not be if it wasn't for all the successes and
failures. It's not just about sex, being in the field and taking an interaction
from start to finish is where it is really at.
Norm
I create more love and sex in the world!
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