mASF post by "HeadSpace"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, August 8, 2005Hey everyone, this is my first post here. Ive been lurkin for awhile and have
learnt quite alot from other FR's and GWM. Im 17 and when i found this site it
was definitely an eye opener into women and how to deal with them.
The FR:
Last night headed out to a friends place for his birthday. Big party with tons
of my buddies and lots of girls.
Anyway, im movin from place to place, shakin hands with my mates and getting
introduced to girls (using social proof). I move to another group and get told
i have a sexy name by one chick. I realise instantly the IOI, yet i dont
return it. (I realise my mistake later, yet it seems i have some luck.) I walk
away and five minutes later im told that this girl likes me, "HBshy". I head
back over there and get to chatting. She tells me she is shy and so im
basically using fluff talk initially. I small venue change from outside to
inside the house and by this point have started kino on back hands etc.
Sit down, face her and start more talk. A few minutes later theres a lull in
the convo and i start triangular gazing and go for the kiss. Its received
well, and shes a good kisser. I lead her up for dance and more making out. This
soon leads to grinding and a bit of feeling up. I grab her number and leave a
few minutes later.
Things Learnt:
Attraction was immediate so all i had to do was initiate.
When there is an IOI, then respond. I now know i could have cavemanned her when
she said i had a sexy name.
Social proof is very useful.
HBbighair was introduced to me by a friend a week ago and is nicknamed "big
hair" by her friends, (on her head btw). After chatting a bit i arranged a
meet for today. The same basic process as with HBshy. Attraction is assumed
as we basically "set-up" by my friend. Went iceskating with her today and
immdediately started kino by "helping" her iceskate. Pulled her along by hand,
pushed her along with my hands on her waist, and pulled her along with her arms
around my waist. I realised the benefit of this as i could direct where were
going. About one hour into it i approached the edge of the rink with her
behind me, stopped and continued basic fluff tallk, "favourite movies, sport,
etc". Natural lull in conversation happened and i went for the kiss while
triangular gazing. In the build up to this i could feel the tension and
realised i should have gone for the kiss earlier as the signs were all clear.
This led to increased making out and a release of tension.
Things learnt:
The conversation doesnt matter much, as long as you project a confident vibe.
"Lead" all the time - it is expected of you as a man. Project a sexual vibe,
with kino, eye contact etc.
Ive decided to go for with HBbighair as my gf and will put HBshy on the side
though still keep in contact and on good terms. The reason for this is i know
that i will not be able to go for both at the same time, as my friends know of
my situation and news would reach both HB's ears of the other girl.
What have been your actions in situations like this? Comments please on the FR
itself and my actions.
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