mASF post by "PlayerSupreme"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, May 5, 2005I took this off a email that came to my ebox:
"Announcing A Breakthrough Starter Kit For Any Man Looking To Dramatically
Increase His Success With Women"At Last, A Guidebook For Men On How To Easily
Meet, Date, And Attract Women --
Even If You're Fat, Bald, Or Ugly!
I have a confession to make to you.
I AM NOT a good looking guy.I AM NOT what most people would consider "cool."
I AM NOT even very well off financially.Because of these three things, I used
to think that no woman would ever want to LOOK at me, let alone TALK to me.
So you know what I did?I sat alone in my apartment every weekend for months on
end, lonely and depressed, because I thought women only wanted guys who were
good looking, rich, famous, or generally the opposite of what I was.
I tried everything to get out these and find a girl. I went on internet sites
like Match.com and Yahoo! Personals.
I tried Speed Dating Events.
I went out with friends to Bars and Clubs to try to meet women there.But no
matter what I did... NOTHING WORKED!
Why?
Because even though I tried all these different forms of dating, the simple
fact of the matter is that when it came time to talk to these women: I DIDN'T
KNOW WHAT TO SAY!Does Any Of This Sound Familiar?·
You go out to a bar to meet some girls, and end up sitting by yourself, nursing
your drink, scanning the room and looking at women you find attractive, KNOWING
you should go up and talk to them, but held back because your stomache is all
tied in knots? ·
You see all the other men in the bar and think they're better looking, better
dressed, richer, and cooler than you are and there's no way on God's Green
Earth you can possibly compete with them? ·
You see a gorgeous, sexy woman you really want to talk to, but as soon as you
get up the courage to talk to her, you either say something stupid or don't
know what to say, and before long she moves on leaving you alone and feeling
stupid? ·
You feel that everyone in the bar or club is looking at you and is going to
make fun of you as soon as you try to talk to a girl because they all think
you're going to fail? ·
You stand in line with a beautiful girl next to you and you KNOW you should say
something to her, but your mind goes blank and before you know it, the
opportunity to meet her is gone? ·
You see a girl that might be younger, older, richer, classier, from a different
background, whatever the case may be, and you can't think of a way of talking
to her because the two of you couldn't possibly have anything in common?
Guess what? I experienced ALL THESE THINGS!
I was frustrated.
I was angry.
I was sad.
I felt like the whole world was against me and I was destined to be alone
forever.
I Was Buying Into "THE MYTH!"Most men, by this point, may have given up and
resigned themselves to a life of solitude, preferring to live as a hermit
rather than to continue to meet with failure and rejection.
Call me a sucker for punishment, but I decided not to accept the fact that I
was going to be alone for the rest of my days.
I was determined to go out and learn what it takes to meet women, despite all
my shortcomings.
With the help and support of a few close friends who I knew to be good with
women, I was able to figure out what I was doing wrong, and what I needed to do
in order to start meeting fantastic women I wanted to be with.
Just the other day, I was out to lunch with a friend of mine who, by all
accounts, is better looking, richer, and all around more attractive to women
than I am, when this beautiful blonde goddess came walking by our table.
Seriously, this girl was so radiant, every guy in the place was looking at her
as she walked through the restaurant.
My friend and I saw her coming, and I knew that I wanted to meet this girl!
Now, most guys would just resign themselves to the fact that they'd never get
to meet this beauty, that maybe she already has a boyfriend in her life and
they have no chance with her.
Other guys would try to pick her up with some cheesy line and get rejected
instantly.But as she approached my table, I used my patented "Screening Test,"
and knew that I'd be able to meet this girl.
As she approached,
I said:ME: What's got you looking so cheery today?
She stopped in her tracks and looked at me funny, as if she couldn't believe
someone was actually bothering to talk to her! She smiled and said:
HER: I just got off of work and I'm happy to be out of the office.I then smiled
at her and said jokingly:
ME: Man, I thought you were smiling like that because you were happy to see me!
Now you've gone and hurt my feelings!She started laughing at this, and before I
knew it, I was in a conversation with her where my better looking, richer, and
more attractive buddy was all but invisible to this beautiful young woman!
We talked for about twenty minutes before she went to rejoin her friends, but
not before she gave me her number with the promise to meet up again for a date!
It's funny cause the author "thundercat" is also offering a e-course on
approaching.
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