mASF post by "aidien flea" posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, June 6, 2005Alot has been happening to me over the past few weeks. I feel like my skill
level has really gone up and all of a sudden everything is changing, and
it's been great.
I posted a field report last weekend about what I consider to be my first
"true" masf lay. I opened her, ran attract game, blasted through her asd
when she tried to blow me off, extracted her, and got the lay. The way my sarges were going up to that night, I kinda knew I was about to have a
breakthrough, but I really had no idea how quickly things can change.
After that lay, I noticed my game really getting better all around. Two days
later I went out again, and got 2 # closes and a makeout. And it was like I
didn't have to do any of the work. They pretty much opened me, I just
attracted them and kept laid back about the whole thing. And this stuff has
been happening like every night since.
Friday night my band played, I've always had difficulty on these nights
cause I'll be on stage the whole time and unable to really spend any time
with any girls until we finish. But by that time it's 2 in the morning and
most of the chicks leave when we get off stage. After we played there was
this one girl hanging around the bar with a group of 3 guys and one other
chick. She was obviously pretty drunk, I rolled in, opened her with the
minnie cold read "You look confused" (by confused I meant seriously fucking
wasted) and within like, 5 minutes this chick is all over my shit, massive IOI's, kino, I didn't even have time to initiate it before she did. Her boyfriend showed up and started chewing her out over it so she bounced.
Then the bartender, this hot Irish chick who'se like, at least 4 or 5 years
older than me starts talking. I neg her a little when she tries to light my
friends cigarette. I take the matches from her and show her the "proper" way
a bartender is supposed to give someone a light. And i proceed to snap the
matches and fling the lit match book across the bar to my friend a la Tom
Cruise in "Cocktail." Her and I get into a little verbal sparring which ends
in me taking her number. Gotta follow up on that this week.
Then last night, I'm at a party. I get introduced to this HOT brunnete,
about an 8.5 or a 9, I haven't decided yet. Without me doing anything this
chick is telling me we need to hang out, offering me her number. It's
fucking nuts! I spend all this time trying to learn how to game and shit,
and it's like these girls are beating me to the punch all of a sudden.
Later that night this other brunette and I start talking. Whereas before I
always felt like I had to keep talking just to keep these girls interested,
now I'm just like, non-reactive, they talk, I bust on them a little, tell
some interesting stories, make them laugh a little, and it's like they don't
wanna leave. I swear just 3 weeks ago most girls I talked to would be
looking over their shoulder, as if they were looking to leave. This girl
ends up telling me she's going home, I offer to walk her to her car
(figuring I'd go for the lay,) we get distracted on our way out saying
goodbye to everyone. I ended up with her friend who I thought was hotter
while she was saying goodbye. We are talking, then the brunette comes over
as if to see if I was still planning on walking her out. I decided to take
my chances with the friend, gave her a polite kiss goodnight and sent her on
her way. Kiss and # closed the friend an hour later, and I'll be following
up on her this week too.
I've also suddenly been getting phone calls from random girls I was gaming
and not getting anywhere with a while back, begging me to hang out. I swear
these chicks have like a sixth sense or something.
I'm really only posting this because I'm just in disbelief of what's been
happening. It's not meant to be a field report, but a description of how all
of a sudden things can just click for you.
The one big improvement that I made that pretty much lead to all this was
improving my frame control. Whereas I think I used to seem way too eager,
now I stay nice and non-reactive, I don't bust on her too much, and if I go
to make a move (escalation, isolation, whatever) I do it with utter
confidence, because now in my mind, I'm not even thinking for a second that
the girl won't want to.
The whole thing has been a little strange, because I don't really feel any
different, or that I've changed much as a person in the last few weeks. But
all of a sudden all these things start going great, and I have to admit, I'm
quite excited about the future.
Well, if anyone needs me, I'll be out kickin ass and taking names, FR's and LR's to follow. Peace!
-Aidien
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