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MANIAC HIGH'S
GET LAID GUIDE
NEW MANIAC PLAN
v2002
This is my latest pickup plan. It is very long, but an AFC can learn it, and follow it and likely get laid with it. As it is notes to myself (mainly) some of it can be pretty cryptic. It is not word for word of what to say, but the topics as reminders to me. Key is tonality and delivery (smooth, slow talking, deep voice with confidence) as you run this plan.
It is still a work in progress, and could use some better formatting. I will do it someday. Content is what counts though.
I designed this plan based on field work, and this plan is tested in the field, and WORKS.
Notes:
-A PU running this plan takes 3 (better 3.5) hours from opening to lay. So to not run out of time, plan enough time (3 / 3.5) + train time to return chick + 30 minutes (comfort factor). She may not actually go back that night, but will need to know that she can do so, before she agrees to go to your place.
-If the chick has a BF, you must GO FOR THE ONS TONIGHT. It is far more likely she will flake out (ie. forget about you) if you do not get her TONIGHT because once she does her BF again, she will get UNEASY, or FORGET about you! If the chick has no BF, then you can risk waiting till the 2nd time to lay her if timing or conditions are not right. But if a BF, you must GO FOR IT TONIGHT as it is almost certain that she will NOT see you again (even if she is sure she will at that first night), once she sees her BF's face again the next time. (exception, married chicks, treat them as if they are single.. they are probably sick of seeing their husbands faces!).
Also, if kino is good, you should go for the lay tonight, chicks monthly cycles radically affect their horniness. Most chicks will be very horny for a few days when they are fertile, and the rest of the time, don't care about sex as much. So if you meet an HB, she is ready to go and make a date for next week, chances are HIGHER she will be ICE COLD when you see her the next time, just because her horny state has been lost. So Don't wait. On the other hand, if you meet a chick, and she is reacting well to you, but not kino, then maybe this is not her horny day, wait a week or two, and try again before giving up.
-This plan focusses mainly on 'feeling' phrases (which are effective on chicks) versus fact phrases (which are not as effective on chicks, since chicks are not logical). It also has the advantage that it makes the plan more flexible, because feeling things can be said in a much less strict order (and even repeated often), which is not true of fact phrases (you can only say what you did this morning one time to her). Each time you repeat a feeling phrase in conversation, the chick will internalize it more.. which is what you want.
How to use this plan:
-The idea is to start using the phrases in a section below, and then when possible (ie. after you have run a bunch of the phrases in 1 section), start slowly introducing phrases from the next section (each section is a mental state transition, of the chick) below, (while still using some from the previous section), and then expanding into the following section after that, while still using phrases from the previous section. This may feel (to a guy) to be random illogical rambling (which it is!), but remember, chicks don't think logically, so they will not notice this (ever wonder how chicks ramble senselessly for hours on end with their friends about totally nothing!?).
So as wierd as it may sound to you, the chick WILL be fooled by this, and it will sound totally like regular natural conversation to her. This takes care of the problem of 'natural sounding' conversation while doing transitions/ state setups. The lines in each section are in order of 'usefulness/ease of applicability in general situations', so lines at the start of each section are better. You can talk for 2..3 hours using this plan, and it should take around 2..3 or 4 hours of talk to get the chick to the last section/state of this plan so that you can lay her. You do not need to complete a section before moving to the next one, just use as many lines/topics from a section till she is comfortable that you can raise lines from the next following section.
This means that it should always be possible to introduce phrases from any section above the section you are currently in, while slowly advancing through each section to the next (more deeper one) below. As a rule, you should try to be saying phrases only from at most 3 adjacent sections (ie. when you move into a new section of phrases, you (for the most part) drop the oldest section you were using. Keep doing down the plan until you either lay the chick, or crash the PU. Basically that is how it works.
-For young/dumb chicks, focus on fun/excitment, for older or more mentally
mature chicks, focus on relax/comfortable/understanding.
How it works:
-This plan is arranged to seduce the chick first from a romantic/emotional (vertical) standpoint, and if that fails, use the 'emergency close' which is a logical direct (horizontal) point of view (ie. HB brains) in the 'closing' section.
-Purpose of PU is to see if you can control, lead and conquer that chick and not to get them to like you. You want to take over them in their mind, that is the game. Chicks and guy's brains work very differently, and speak a different language when it comes to attraction of the opposite sex. This plan, speaks that language. In short the translation table is something as follows:
Woman Man ---------------------------------------------------- Trust Hot ass just begging for it Relaxed and talk Big tits Honesty Getting it until she screams Understanding Bending over, and taking it from behind Honest talk Wild shagging Communication Fishnet stockings with holes in the right places Culture and fun Sex and fun
Some examples: here is some normal guyspeak, and how it gets translated to chickspeak before it comes out of your mouth, if you want to attract and then arouse the chick, and then finally be able to lay her:
FROM: That is a really hot ass, I would love to do you from behind
TO: It is so important to have deep trust and understanding when you are with someone you are with. For me, that is what I need first before anything else. (with kino)
FROM: Fuck those tits are big, I want to put my boner between those
TO: For me, to feel relaxed, and comfortable together, and be able to talk about anything, that is so desireable, when being with someone who I want to enjoy spending time with. (with kino)
Make sense? Yes, it seems about as alien as translating English into Chinese, but it does work, and it WILL get you laid. This is how different guy thinking and chick thinking are, and why (up to now), there has been so much misunderstanding by guys, about chick logic, on what makes a woman work and how to nail her. For the first time ever, with this guide, you now have the translation dictionary, needed to translate your thinking into chickspeak, so that you can communicate with women on their level in a way they will understand and react to.. and then nail them! Using this, they usually never know what hit them! (just "it seems so right and natural" they usually say after, while their drippy panties are on the floor next to them after an evening of (unexpected) very hot sex!).
If you get stuck remember:
Guys want: Girls want: ---------------------------------------------------- Short skirts To feel special Sexy legs To be understood Nice ass To feel connection Net stockings To feel attractive/sexy Excitment Excitement Nice face Guys who are assertive, strong, leader Big Tits confident, successful
-->Also in openers a good strategy is to make an aggressive statement, but then follow it up with a very innocuous question. That will soften it, and allow you to probe more aggressively, than if you had only made the comment without the followup question. Conversation should always be that way, at least initially.
ie:
-[chick with belly exposed shirt] That is a nice belly (very aggressive)
-Do you exercise/go to the gym../how long?
-That is a very sexy outfit
-Where do you usually buy your clothes/what stores do you usually shop?
Ok, here we go:
Format of reading this:
Each left most '-' is a new topic. Indented lines are followups to the same
item. The next leftmost '-' is a new topic.
Everything within left most [xxxx] is a new state transition/section.
ONS: :::LOOP(go through each section below, 1 line of each section at a time, and items get deeper as you go..).. ie. rinse, wash repeat! [Preparation] -PU locations and way home known -Home ready, music, massage oil, towels, candles/insense, cleaned up [Self Affirmations/pre opener] -everyone wants to meet other people! -I DON'T GIVE A SHIT! -I DON'T CARE! -IT DOESN'T MATTER! -IT'S NOT MY FAULT! -LETS DO IT/TRY SOME STUFF OUT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS! -siren voice come out "all girls are waiting for you!" -Experiment in psychology -kanchou (Mr. Smooth, and how he behaves like the 'captain' -attitude -this is an experiment -(you must arrange all places ahead of time (eating/drinking place with counters (and backups in case they are full), shagging place, where taxis are, condoms and music ready at home..etc... it is like a Broadway play, anything that fucks up, and chick will lose state). [Warmups] (credit: Rock Harders) -To warm my self when I go into a bar, I can adopt a party host mentality quite quickly. I walk in and start talking to women right away as if I was meeting my best friends at a party. For example, I'm in, I would see a girl wearing item x of clothing, and make a comment on it right away, get her giggling or flattered then I would say something like have a nice evening (like a party host would). I act as if I own the place. It's not sarging, but I do this to warm up and I might do 4 or 5 of these before I get into the proper approaches -Must check every chick, do a quick 'game on' test, with 'comfortable/communication/ good feeling' and see what is reaction/ie. basically a quick screen of every chick to find the game-on ones. Sometimes I assume/don't test a chick... mistake, I missed (then later recovered) that sometimes after I then saw another guy do the test, and then I went in.. -Any time a chick makes EC (eye contact), smile or say hi! -Remember your 'happy bubble' which is all around you! -Go through affirmations [Observation of target to create opening line] -rings (color, big, small, color, pattern) -where did you get it -what is your favorite style? -how many do you have -do you make any yourself? -what is your favorite color? -what do you wear with it? -what other styles do you like? -hairstyle/color -clothes -you can get in US/korea -ever travel to there? -where did you go? -Europe? -art/music -communication/culture differences -earings (color, big, small, color, pattern, sexy, matches outfit?) -jewelry -jacket/coat (looks so elegant!) -necklace (big small, color, gold, pattern) -skirt/dress -long/short dress -material of her clothes -what she is reading/holding -handbag? -shopping bag? -her phone -shoes -lipstick/makeup (looks great) -wearing leather -new age type/punker/elegant type -dressed casual (you look so natural!) -dressed up (you look so elegant!) -wearing studs? -tatoo -lots of black? [Openers - gentle / stealth - no props: There are so many openers because you are entering in an uncontrolled situation, idea is to funnel into a controlled one, then the plan gets more specific/narrow. Usually, openers tend to be questions, as that is only way to keep chick talking.] -Getting 'primed' in a new social group/situation/people you want to talk to, but no introduction -Walk by a couple times, make EC/wave/blink/big eyes, keep going walking -Walk again, oh, there you are again, then do regular openers -EC -EC where you are in rush/going somewhere -Would you like to see me again (make appt time/place (NO NUMBERS!)) -Wave/hello -(rainy day), wow the weather is cold/wet/terrible! -(nice weather after bad weather) wow its a really nice day today/finally, isn't it -Where is xxx/Starbucks -I am not sure, do you have a few minutes, can you take me there? -This place is full, can I sit here -Is anyone using this (next to her empty) table? (go RIGHT THEN to next opener, keep eye contact, so dont get uncomfortable blank period). Do even if place not full... probably she won't notice that fact. -Do you speak English? -(Fake phone conversation opener, sitting next to chick, be loud, remark where you are, next to two cute girls) -will be late (from phone convo) -where is xxx (from phone convo) -(remark to girls about the phone convo, open the girls) -Excuse me -Smile/grin (Mr. Lager style) -Stare at her (followed by a Mr. Lager smile/grin) -my niece has a scarf/hat/jewelry/haircolor just like that! can I see?! -Which of these (point to two items) do you think looks better? -you know, your style is so cool! -your hair, it is so soft (touch it) -and your skin, so gentle (rub ear?) -do you like it to be touched? -That dress is really unusual (mare(na)) -My coworker has a very similar one -Where is a good place to get it/did you get it? -That xxx/ring/neckless is so beautiful/unusual, -where did you get it -by who -why you like it so much? (give all attention to it, and not the chick herself) ..ie. nanpa the jewelry, not her..) -how often do you go there? -That is a big bag, my sister has one, where did you get it? -It looks so unusual -Where did you buy it? -What is in your bag? -What is your favorite color? -That is a nice dress -it looks so unusual/stylish -my sister has one like it -What is your favorite style, color? -Where do you usually go shopping? -Why do you like that store? -How often do you go? -what do you usually buy? -depending on the price? what size? -(standing by her, looking at her book) Where did you learn to read English? -Did you live overseas? -How long did you stay? -Do you mind if I sit down -(then continue talking lines from this plan) -(read her cup/something brand/book she has) -What is that? (what you read)/are you drinking? -Where did you get it/what does it taste like? -Is it your favorite? -What else do you recommend? -to go to shiba koen/xxxx, how long it takes -easy to go? 15 minutes c: explains way to go -Do you have a light (if you/friend smokes) -So what are you doing out here today?/did you do today out here? -What drink/tea is that? -Do you know how to send an email on this phone? -I'm lost! Where is xxxx?! -Can you take me/us there? -tell me, do you happen to do fashion designer/do yoga? you look like the type who does, you have that energy about you -its unusual to meet this way, so I want to find more about you -what are you doing now?/reading/going? -You must be/are you a dancer/from Spain, an artist -just a moment, she (to wing/to target's friend) you look like whiteney houston! -sit next to girl: what do you think about xxxx (westminster abbey) -forgive the interuption as you are doing xxxx (reading relaxation book), but I'm curious about something... Do you happen to yyyy (yoga), or zzzz (meditation) She says yes or no. If she says no, I add: well, you look like the type who does, bc... you have great energy and I just had to tell you. [Openers - gentle/stealth - props/situation: Usually, openers are questions (only way to have conversation work at start)] -What are you reading? c: Marie Claire -That sounds expensive -In the states, that is only 400yen -Have you ever been to the USA -Where else have you been? -Which of these pictures do you like more? -What do you feel when you see this picture? -you look very interested in that book, what are you reading? -so tell me what is interesting about it? -What do you like about NY? (she has book on NYC) -Why not LA? c:NY is stylish -So what do you like L.V., or Prada? c: LV -Then you should go to France c:sou kana -you never been to Europe? -you must like shopping -what brand? -What is the good point of that brand? -c: (reading a food magazine) -So do you like French/Italian (whatever page she is on) restaurants? -I dont know about Italian/French Restaurants, of these, which is good? c: looks for new, unusual restaurant -Do you know restaurant in Shibuya which is good? c: no {whenever chick does a straight no, use a joke next to open her up} -You ever been to Shibuya? {with smile/laughing/surprise expression} c:yes! {laugh} -doko/where? c:109 -What is 109? -Which you think tastes better, the xxxx (Ice tea), or (yyyy) Herbal tea? -What other flavors here are good? -What did you do here today? -That scarf/dress is very unusual, where did you get it? -you look like you are going on a trip/where are you going? c: am going to nepal -really, nepal, my classmate is going there, I heard it is so beautiful, -what are you doing now -can you tell me more about it -where is a good place to go? -(reading TC) You know.. I am wondering,.. xxxx (which of these girls you think is nice)? -why do you like her? -what type of guy you like? -what is your BF like? -'hmmm, can you suggest some good classical music bc I need some really good stuff to listen to tonight' -This led into some fluff about classical music, I discover shes a damn good violinist and i talk about paganni etudes and caprices, and I talk about playing violin music on the piano. She shows me some good music so I take the CDs, and a little more fluff about music and about herself (3 minutes). -(reading textbook) what is this kanji {this is lame} -Do you believe in ESP? (need prop, like book on it first) -Ghosts in the Thai office story. -Do you believe in Spells? (need prop, like book on it first) -Night in the graveyard story. -you are putting on lots of makeup, what is special today? -Hey look at that lamer trying to pick up those 2 chicks, isn't that funny -Go into Iranian from hell story -(in coffeeshop/on train reading book) it says here that xxxx (guys in HK are nice to girls because too few).. -what do you think? [Openers - aggressive / with wing / young chicks: Do a few from this list to keep conversation going] -kawaii -Japanese for busy people opener (with 5 questions homework, are you Japanese, where do you live, what is your hobby?..etc) -if two set, "did anyone ever tell her she is so beautiful?", ask her friend -the palm reading handshake (shake hands, put your free hand round her wrist then upturn her palm into palm position, then rub her soft hands and fingers and say, 'hmm, fascinating.' while rubbing more and more. Follow on with 'I have an intuition about you. You are xxxx (passionate and sexy) because you are xxxx (so open minded and energetic).' -what is your email? -did anyone ever tell you you are so beautiful?" *kiddingly in the siren voice* (if nice answer, then tell her, if bitch, tell her "no one ever will! I wonder why!) -Your fashion/dress/hairstyle/shoes/legs/face/smile/walk/dance is great -where did you get that skirt/sweater/boots -I like stylish fashion -what is your favorite color -how often you shop there? -You are pretty and very sexy and I want to see you again (HBILikeSexy train opener..very direct) -he ask for number, and then when got it, ask to see her right now to go somewhere -sugoi (that) xxxx (scarf, hair..etc), where did you get that? -you have a really nice smile -I would be so honored that I can shake your hand/you kiss me? (CK) (as club /izakaya/restaurant opener) -Wait to see if she will do real KC, if not, then gesture a CK. (might be bad if she KC so easily, like Smooth's girl's friend.. then gets frozen) -Probably all of your friends tell you this, but it/you are so cool/cheerful/stylish.' -It shows you have alot of energy/cheerfulness/taste -where did you get it? -Oh really, I thought it was from someplace exotic, like India -Did you ever go to India? (=fact) -Where did you go? (=fact) -Where would you like to go? (=feeling) -Probably all your friends already tell you this. -xxxx (But you have a really nice smile) -yyyy (it shows you have a lot of positive energy). -Maybe you are told every day, no? [giggle], when you go work, home, sit next to the guy on the bus and they say xxxx (you have a nice smile) about you. -What is the occaission tonight (you are so dressed up) -Where are you going? -Did you ever go there? -What is interesting/unusual about that place? -I had to say that you have a so incredibly xxxx (sounding voice). -I heard that someone who is xx, is also very yyy -I read somewhere that a person with an exceptional voice, is also very intelligent as well -I want you to do a favor for me, -I want you to imagine that you are in a field, all by yourself (Str.fld, 4q, cube) -can you do that for me? (continue the 4q game, or whatever from here) -so, why did you come here tonight -Did you go here before? -How often do you come here? -What places you like to go? -Why is that place good? -How is your evening so far? -(To girl dancing with friend.. get in front) -hello, I like you, do you like me? lets be friends [openers that work only with wings who are funny/laughing] -What do you think about my friend's hairstyle? -Does he look better with punky, or straight hair? -(comment to your wing, about target, loud enough so she hears and reacts) -Wow, check out her xxxx (hair/skirt/sunglasses..), isn't that wild?! -(She will likely turn her eyes to you when she realizes you are talking about her, then go, 'so tell me about that xxxx', I am curious about it now) -Wow (but very friendly if day, silly if night/out) -(dump stuff/glasses..etc on the floor, ask for help) -leap in front of her! -just a moment (hand in police stop signal) -hey, what do you think about my xxxx (wierd ring, I got today/necklace.. get this kind of gimmick before you go to club) -please talk to us/me - lets talk -please stop [anti-stalls/fluff runners (no wing/non sexual): Keep the conversation going after the initial openers] -(kino) you want to get out of this step, and into the ones below ASAP!] -Any english? -where did you study? -how long? -you are very good! -I am surprised, you seem like a kind/gentle person -What kind of person do your friends say you are? -Did you ever go abroad? -Where did you go? (=fact) -What did you see (=fact) -Where would you like to go? (=feeling) -You ever go to NYC/Hawaii -Would you like to go? -What do you want to see? (museums, parks, clubs, shopping, beach?) -How long does it take you to get to work? -Is your house far from the station? -Do you ride your bike, or walk? -What time do you usually finish work? -What time do you usually get home from work? (=fact) -How long have you been doing your job? (=fact) -You think about quitting your job (=feeling) -What do you usually do when you finish work -What do you do on a day you are not working? -Is your work/study busy? -How do you relax after a really hard day of work. -I take warm bath, new age music, relax -What kind of music do you like (point/hold my walkman) -what do you want to become (singer/dancer)? c:singer -what is favorite singer? c:U2 -u2! -can you sing it!? -Recently/tomorrow/tonight I saw/will see spiderman (=xxx, something recently, to open topic) -what is your favorite movie type (romantic/adventure) -Movies/actor/actress -what are you, student? -what kind of school? c: fashion design -what is your favoriate color? -what kind of materials you like? -but my skirt, can see a bit, this material; -Do you come to Shibuya/xxx often? -What do you think of her? (point to 3rd person around there) -maybe you look better than her though? -So you must speak french/english? -So how long have you been studying? -xxx, That is so unusual -Where did you get it? -What else do/did you get there? =What places do you recommend? -lets be friends, -everyone wants friends -So you must like xxx (psychology) then.. it expresses differences in culture -(go to lower parts of plan) -Do you have brothers and sisters? -So today you must have xxx (if weekday, work, if weekend 'did laundry') -(ie. pick something as assumption that is funny, or you think she did) -you xxxx, wow, can you tell me more about it? -I have an intuition about you.. you are xxxx ******???XLATE INTUITION! -"it is funny how people communicate".. like if I were to say to you xxxx (you fall in love with me, attract my voice.. pu)/induction, it would make you feel yyy (like me), wouldnt it... THIS IS GREAT< CAN INJECT ANYTHING! AT ANY TIME! -(if two set) So tell me, what is the most interesting thing about your friend? [anti-stalls/fluff runners (with laughing wing/sexual/aggressive)] (this is mostly stuff from the nanpa videos.. I havent tested so much... M.H.) -(kino) -its pretty, kawaii -what is your height? c:160 -very sexy -just a moment -I want to see your hair under the hat -[take off cap] -kirei, its so cute! -very sexy -one favor, what color is your hair? -(touch hair) -That is stylish fashion! -we are doing interview for / you have stylish fashion -you know, your style is so cool! -your hair, it is so soft (touch it) -and your skin, so gentle (rub ear?) -do you like it to be touched? -wow, what fashion, it looks all worn out (jean shorts) -what is your favorite color/today's color? -just a moment -I want to see your hair under the hat [take off cap] -kirei, its so cute! -wow your skin looks so smooth -nice smell (perfume) -What is it? (=fact) -Where did you get it (=fact) -Why do you like it? (=feeling) -you smell like cat, it is so nice! -today, no parttime work? -she has face like dog! (nice way) -so honest, and cute -how many of you in your group c:18 -so many? -why they all left, sugoi.. -you two must be wild -what are you wearing under your coat? [this section is clothes] -Can you show me? -your dress looks so nice -you have bra? -color? -black? -(CK gesture), nice guy -fashion check, can you show us inside your coats -just a bit, show us c: open coats a tiny bit -just open 3 seconds c: [opens coats] -wow, it is so great -wow! -what clothes style you like?... -h question (if shes smiling), tback, or panties) -fashion interview -what is underwear color c:white -what is your 3 size? c: xx xx xx (numbers) -chotto h question, but what color is your panties? c: chotto.. (cant decide) -you like lace? -panties, tback, you ever wear? -what kind of bra under that dress? -d cup? c:secret -if unbutton your dress, can see everything? -What is your favorite part of your body? -panties, tback? -So what kind of guy is your BF like/Do you have a BF? [this section is guys/sexlife] -when is the wedding? -When did you break up with your BF? -when was last time you did H c: 4 months -kawaisou.. -Maybe this is an unusual question, but how often each week did H c: 3 times -did you come c: no -kawaisou -lets ask an h thing. how many times you make love / week -10! -how many boys? bfs? -2? 3? c: 2 -she is player -when was last sex? yesterday? -[giggle] c: don't know -besides your bf, did you ever fuck? -no bf? c:no -hate guys? c:hate -I like girls -no bf since xxx, taihen, no sex since xxx! -(bow) -let me ask h question, when you have BF, how many times you make love/week? -Look, today you are wearing such short skirt [this section is action section] when you go into the place -dont you raise it up a little bit? -We want to see your bra/panties, can you show us? -hide face, 2 3 seconds, then finish -go to private place a bit c: dame -2 3 seconds only -one more thing, if its ok, one more favor -xxxx bj (money) -30 seconds only -by mouth, get xxxx (money) -just 30 seconds -if bad ok, but it is cool -you were very good, so go to studio/home/out/hotel, do sex -but until now, did, so just a little bit more, widen a bit more todays day -just a little bit you have to do c: really, only a little bit? -yes, only a little bit c: really, honto ni? doshoyo? (bow) -if yada, its ok, that can happen, done worry, you dont need to stay (she doesnt decide, they take her) -My friend likes you [Mr. smooth stuff] -you are a nice couple -douzo (put hands together) -give him kiss, try -just short one, a little bit! [get facts/screens/tests (get neccesary info on chick you never met before not stable time situation yet.. get time to leave/next meeting test) - use Kino!] -Where are you going now? (on train, in street..etc) -I am going to xxxx (after she answers, so you can control *when* you exit, ie..after her) -Do you work around here? (=see why she is here, house/office nearby?) -My friend will come in 25 minutes, you seem nice, do you have 15 minutes to talk? -Why did you come here today (=what are your interests?) -What is your plan after this/tonight? (=does she have to leave soon?) -I am meeting my friend in 20 minutes (check your phone) -(if its going well, you can 'receive his message' that he is not coming and continue PU, or bail in 20 minutes ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---->Made appt with chick and now she is in beer food pub/Izakaya sitting next to you at a counter with you...start here!-------- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -What did you do today? (=what are your interests?) -what time do you start tommorow (=see if you can get her back tonight!) -what is job/where (=logistics for setting up lay tonight/next time) -what area do you live (=logistics for setting up lay tonight/next time) -your mom give you nice food and laundry each day? (=you live alone?) -What are you doing here today/after this? (=does she have to leave soon?) -Do you like beer, wine? -how old are you, may I ask? (=only if you suspect underage, to get rid of her) -Do you like to go out to restaurants, cofeeshops, or stay home? -your voice/eyes/hair/style is pretty, what does your BF think? (=do you have BF) -What do you do in your spare time? -Do you do art, dance, movies, singing? (=test for 'communication' pattern below) [transitions - move state from fact talk to feelings/emotion/sex, once succeed this part, continue with sections of plan below] -(kino starts) -office fight at work today [link to things that happened now] -People want to understand each other, like guys and girls..its so hard, so few men understand a lady, because they have to xxx,yyy,zzz -Today/tomorrow I will go see art show/play/dance -art/play/dance is communication -I am meeting my friend tonight/tomorrow, he caught his GF with another guy (go to straight to section of me -vis-a-vis a girl/demonstrate personality) -Are you picky for clothes/bags/hairstyle -How about guys -Me too, hard to find good qualities, me, I look for someone who is... -How about you, what do you look for? -Grandfather/coworker who needs to relax -Relaxation is important -Understanding of other people is important -Today a french guy came to the office from france branch -Do you know that french is somehow more understanding language than english, and better for expressing feelings -language is communication, EC, body language» -stories about how I am attractive/women attack me (social proof) (link to me) -(transition to demonstrate personality) -went to brazil/SP story/cultural differences -HB Blitz jealous story -Do you have foreign friends? [Link to something persistant about her/me/environment] -How are they different from Japanese? (go to section of understanding/communication) -That is nice hair/smile -You are probably popular with the guys/get lots of attention -So what is your guy life like? -You have a BF? -What kind of guy do you like? -What parts of your job is creative? -creativity is a way to communicate with other people.. it is like art (go to demonstrate self personality section) -What is important to you when doing adventure/romance with someone? (go to demonstrate personality section of this plan) -eyes are so warm (what does your BF/husband think?) -Would you say you are adventurous or romantic type? -Did you live overseas?/where/what did you notice? -(go to section on different cultures/understanding each other) -Do you like art?, it is way to express/share natural feeling/each other -(transition to demonstrate personality) -ideal actress/girl/guy (move on to demonstrate personality from here, acting is communication) -pretty girl (girls like this attention) -Do you like it when someone says you are pretty/how do you feel? (go to section on personality vis-a-vis a woman) -Maybe you want to be independent and strong minded (though most chicks aren't anyways in reality) -It is good, because the qualities I look for in a woman are: (play back her desired qualities in herself/ideal woman) -Here maybe is a difficult question. Maybe next thing, hard to say -Did you ever xxxx? -The reason I ask, is because if you did do, I am curious about how it made you feel, both during an after? / because people who xxxx are also very yyyy. c: yes/no -If you didn't do xxxx, would you? What would you feel if you did? -What color are your panties (only do if you are with a wing and laughing alot) -Under that is only bra? -(Transition to aggressive vis-a-vis a woman's sexuality section below) -How you feel when you see this (picture)? -(transition to demonstrate personality) -Can you dance? [sexually aggressive transitions] -Would you dance in that samba parade every year? -Wear t-back and nice feathers and decoration, you have confidence for that? -you ever dress a bit sexy, embarrassed about your appearance/confident? -Do you have bed in your house or futon (I had in japan house) -But I prefer bed, because it makes my knees hurt when I am with a girl, can you imagine? -Do you like long or short hair? -I like short, because long, when you are with a girl, it will get stuck (during sex), and hurt, but short, it never gets in the way. [get feelings/screens/tests] -You ever date a foriegn/blond/black/white/asian guy? -How was it different? -Do you like to kiss/kissing/touch/touching/hold hands -Maybe because it makes you feel safe -How big are your hands, lets see.. -what is most attractive/favorite part of your body you think? (what your bf say?) -What part about yourself (character, body) do you like most? least? (=LSE test) -if could do anything in 5 years, which? -do you feel comfortable around me? -which type of person do you think you are more, elegant or sexy? -which you want to be? why? -do you believe in magic?, speels, esp? (hypno voice) -you are pretty, how many BF's you have? (say in joking way) -Do you look for a BF/nice guy/friend? -Do you think love is dangerous or attractive? -If could redo life, what would you do? (link her not fucking, to her last screwup!) -(stare at her bottom to top), Can you say what is your favorite part of your body? -I am curious, (if she stalls: "maybe your smile, legs, hair") {mix nonsexuals with sexuals} -if there were two you's what would the other one do? (stay with BF, be wild?) -what is your ideal guy like? -Which is important to you in a relationship, sex or romance? -Do you have a BF -[opener] Are you looking for a guy/friend tonight? -Would you like to kiss me (after 3 + signs.. hair ruffle, smile, reverse kino, laughing) -Why you are here tonight? [bad? she will always answer 'to dance'] -Are you looking to meet people tonight -How do you feel when you meet new people? -Strawberry fields (if you stall/reaction bad.. go to this!) -If you could meet.. What kind of guy do you like? c: I want just dance/be with my friend/just a friend -I am looking for girl/GF, shall we try? -(talking about kissing/holding hands..etc) shall we try? -do you think you are the right girl for me? -expand your world/horizon/limit -So what kind of guy is your BF like? -Can I ask, maybe deep question, but do you love yourself (=LSE test) -c:yes: that is good because for others to love you, you must love yourself -c:no: (change tact): you are scum so you need me and should fuck me, becauase that is what scum cheap girls like you do (in SM voice), you deserve to get fucked cheaply because you are cheap scum.. (that is the idea anyways.. will try it on my next LSE girl) -what is your type of guy?/important in a guy? -Did/would you ever xxx. The reason I ask is that a book/crazy psych teacher.. said that people who are interested in xxxx (sm, 3p, fucking on first date..) tend to be very yyyy (emotional, open minded, successful, attractive, confident..) (idea is when asking an outlandish question is to tie the reason for it to an emotion). -ex GF who was kinky -You look very pretty, were you ever hostess? -If you could be very elegant or sexy dancer for one night, do you do it/what would it feel like? [anti-stalls/fluff runners - if you have met the chick once already and are getting restarted with her this time] -so what did you learn about/discover about me from last time? -so what did you tell your friends about me snice last time? -did you miss me? -how much? -so what did you dream last night? -Maybe you dream about me? -I bet you dreamed of me every night! -pay attention to me.. -humm.. i work very hard just for you! -(chick going to bathroom) -have fun! -did you have a good time? -are you comfortable? -I am curious, what about me is it that you find interesting? -ok ask me something! -many things to know is big, but brain is small. -how I learn kanji, just each day they smile at me, and I learn them! -wow, such big smile, what happen? -I like you but I don't really know you very well -I like you but I think you are too tall/a bit old for me. -Maybe I have to protect my self from you! [embarrass/flatter/make her smile - if dumb/young chick, you can be very aggressive with this] -you are pretty (joking way) - maybe I need to protect myself from you -Good morning (or worse, hello) (as friend, using Mr. Smooth voice) -you are so full of energy I would be honored to shake your hand! -your hair/eyes is really beautiful -you english is very good, I am SO impressed (laugh and kino her!) -Japanese is zenzen.. kodomo. -That bag/neckless/dress/top looks very nice on you and matches your top/dress/neckless/bag well, you look SO very nice in/with it. -you should make your skirt shorter (as joke if it is already so short) -you have such a beautiful voice, it is so smooth and relaxing -maybe you have alot of attention from guys? (smile) - maybe I need to protect myself -sfields -do you smile with every nice guy like you do to me? -do you always laugh with everyone/every nice guy like that? -you are pretty, maybe all your BF's say you are sexy!? -you step in room, and all guys start to come to you! -are you nice girl? - should I protect myself from you (gesture with defensive hands)? -maybe you are too nice/(sexy) for me! -sometimes a little bit bad can be fun too! -Maybe your friends/coworkers tell you xxxx (you are pretty) all the time. -Did anyone ever tell you your (hair/style/clothes) are so cute/sexy/attractive? -handsome guy just sat next to you (when sit next to her again), what do you do? -Hello, what is your name (after you already met her once) -maybe i have to protect myself from you, (such attractive/nice/sexy girl) -Oh, what a beautiful girl (kino, alot!) (after you already met her once) c: xxx question -maybe!? (smile face, eyes look up and right) -I am sure all the guys bow to you, such beatufiul girl? -everyone is always looking at you, giving you too much attention! -I have to protect my self from such beautiful/horny girl like you! -good style like that, all your friends get jealous to you! -good looks like that, all the guys follow you everywhere! c:I have a bf -pretty girl like you, of course you must have 5 bfs! -but I want to know more about you, so lets not talk about that -so how many BF you have? (might be bad.. dont bring it up unless she does?) [demonstrate personality about myself] -you never know what can happen, that is what makes life so interesting and mysterious -communication at many levels/dance/art is communication/talk only 10% -I want understanding -I like to feel comfortable -I like natural way -I am not like other guys.. natural -I am valuable guy -Just I want to have a good feeling / feel good -just be kind to everyone, and naturally, good things can happen, it is my way -When I see someone/something, just I follow my heart -I am looking for a warm heart -I am looking for understanding of each other -people have trouble to get along, most guys never understand what is really important to others, because the guy has to xxx,yyy and other person has to xxx,yyy (listen, feel, open mind/heart) -it is important to want to explore and discover new things, about yourself, and others -must do what feels right, and people trust you - company fight, everyone follow me -levels of mind -are you creative? (c:no) -but everyone can be creative (c: ok) -you have a very vivid imagination, and you love imagining things, but maybe you dont express them, unlike creative people who do (rephrase all her values) -talk about how everyone is creative -like.. maybe each day as you do normal things like laundry, but you imagine if you could be on the beach.. ... etc..mind has many levels -sharing is important, it is way to understand each other -Goal is to disover new things (together) -just I want to feel comfortable, and relaxed -everyone needs an oasis/place to escape -maybe you like the smooth pace of my voice.. -trust is important, closeness, natural feeling is important -And of course, we really have to love everyone and serve everyone in this life. -I am not easy guy -It is important to be kind, because I found that if I am kind, everyone will be kind to me back, and and take care of me when times are hard. That is what real trust is about. -Must respect others -I hate selfish people who want only attention to themselves, because just then they end up alone because people can see their selfishness. It is not a good way. -I went to high school reunion, and had the most interesting life of all my classmates -I think, choose direction.. and GO. It is my way. -(Never talk about 'relationship', (maybe she wants a ONS). Just talk about 'understanding, because every woman wants that!) -I am looking for special/pretty/sexy/nice/relaxing girl tonight, I am picky [demonstrate personality vis-a-vis me and a woman (nonsexually) - once you have run a few lines of section above and reaction is good, start introducing lines from sections below] -people have trouble to get along, most guys never understand what is really important to lady, because the guy has to xxx,yyy and woman has to xxx,yyy (listen, feel, open mind/heart) -When I see someone, just I know if she is right or not, naturally -hard to find the right guy/hard to find the right girl too -I have 3 qualities I look for in woman -I am valuable guy, interesting, fun, physical shape, so my expectation is high -I expect together to be comfortable, natural, and good feelings to each other -ow (our world) -It is important to respect each others limits, as well as understand each other well -I want understanding of each other -understanding is most important, comfort, communication -Just I want to share our feeling with each other -Only I want to relax and feel comfortable with each other -I am searching for my special partner -I want someone I can feel natural/share feeling/kinochi -Men and women often have a hard time to understand each other, because each does not know what is important to the other -do you like a man who really knows how to treat a lady and can really appreciate a woman? -A man must pay attention to a chick, not only intimately, but also emotionally, spirutually -That is the man's job, to look after women in all these ways. -It is the mans job to create a safe environment for all women, so that they can feel comfortable, and free around me. -I am picky guy, and will choose woman who is right for me -Most men pay only attention to themself. But a good man will pay attention to the woman completely, in mind (and body). -sp story -4q -I am very open minded person, so you can say/ask anything -ex bi gf -I expect girl to take chance -ic -l vs -a -People want to feel close to each other, not only by talk, but also by touch -fascination -ideal guy/girl -I dont like fixed rules, just go the natural way, how you feel (ie. no 'the rules') -Just it feels comfortable, nice to feel comfortable, make each other relax, feel safe and comfortable -by discovering things about each other, it helps me to learn/discover new things about myself. That is why it is so important -mans job is to deliver/make woman feel good, like at work..to deliver -just has to be the right guy.. same for me with women -not many guys can please a woman not only physically, but emotionnally too -I understand that.. not many guys do..my Ex's always told me that.., so I am never dumped -I dont respect (rules) girl, who says 'kiss on date 2, sex on date 5'.. just have to follow natural way.. if faster ok, and if slower, ok, or just end up friends, or something more.. just follow what is natural, is the best way. Otherwise, to want something, but not follow, is disrespecting me (and herself). -I want woman to be interested in me, and not because I have nice job. Because in long term, physical beauty of the woman may fade, and I may lose my job. So something deeper, like character, or connection, is far more important. -I am dancer, and good guy, so just for sex, it is very easy to get any girl, so maybe I am selfish, but I expect more than that.. just being cute is not enough for me, that is everywhere, and I am past that now. -I am expensive/picky guy, not so easy..I am 30YO, if I was 17, then I want to get as many girls as possible maybe. I had those experiences. But soon it just gets boring, because there is nothing deep as a connection or understanding, because that girl has no experiences at all for life. So I want more. So if that is all you want, then 17yo guy is good for you, because I want understanding and deeper things than those silly guys. Can you understand what I mean? -you dont know me at all (mysterious, attractive) -I like women who follow their heart/natural way -At my age, chicks want stability, money, so I need to protect myself. -I want chick who wants me for who I am, not what I have. -What if I lose my job and money tomorrow... sabishii. -So I don't need that kind of girl. -I hope I dont disappoint you with my thinking. -If you want that, then I don't need it (turn away from he with my beer) -Lead man, follow man or get out of way.. I dont respect non-chance takers who want somthing, but arent willing to make the effort or chance to achieve/get it. -I am not stupid roppongi guy, not like those stupid guys. I want to know people, culture, so I make extra effort, but I have higher expectations too regarding understanding each other when I am with someone. -when a girl meet me, she gets fun, excitment adventure and passion.. I am confident -I dont choose any/every girl, only one I can feel natural, if I cannot feel natural, then I dont want.. just feel cold.. but if feel natural, and her too, then GO. -I was never dumped, because I always pay attention to the girl's feelings/pleasure -(CK chances) -I am not just type who lives in Hiroo, play in Roppongi and work in Kamiyacho, it is boring, I want to discover culture and people, so I live in Japanese house/life. -My Ex(s) said I was best BF they ever had (caring, good man, sexy, attractive, suteki) -meet girl, is to have exciting/happy together -sometimes danger, but when really, actually is safe, that is important for me. -You know the way xxxx (I am/it is/young girls/Ols) are, always yyyy (touching girls and making them feel excited) -Rocks & Gold (try not to use this pattern, unless PU not going well) -not any girl, only one who is special, and very nice for me! (tschivoice) -Did you ever feel you want to meet some one, that somehow, as you talk to them more and more, they seem more interesting to you, and you want to find out more and more about them. And maybe as you listen, you realize how much you have in common, and want to get to know that person in front of you more and more. if you could meet someone like that, what would it be like? -all/some nice girl(s) are waiting for me! -I want to meet interesting people, expand my world, and you? [demonstrate personality via dance (or art/painting/singing/talking) - for girls who can dance, like art, music, can sing.. or can appreciate these things] -I took these, I am artist/photographer [Rio/NYC pics] -How does this make you feel when you see this (picture)? -Dance is a human expression of music, and a way for 2 people to share a unique way of communication and feelings with each other at a deep level. -art/singing is just feeling the natural way of expression, it is communication at many levels between two people, the artist, and viewer/listener -Dance is a kind of relationship. So the man must pace dance at the level of the woman, else it feels bad. Even if the guy knows many techniques and skills, if he cannot pace that to the woman, he is not a good dancer, because ultimately, dance is communication. -Dance lead should be gentle, for woman who is good to follow, and harder for woman who cannot. Idea is to communicate at proper level to that woman, and she should look him in the eye, and communicate back by her touch, and her natural following. -Dance; some women follow natural, others are more stiff, and follow only themself with their body. But it doesn't lie, and you can tell far more about a person by how they dance in 1 minute, than by talking with them for 1 hr. (or holding, hands, touching, hugging, also faster than talking.. that is why it is an important aspect of forming understanding with each other and is so natural). -Ie. guydancer, idea is to make the woman look good, not yourself. That is misunderstanding your job in relationship to the woman. -Talk is communication, between 2 people, EC, Body language», where looking, tonality.. all it is important, not only words themselves.. words is only 10%. [NLP injections] -sometimes you/everyone feel lonely -but if you stay with me, it can feel very comfortable/secure and special -sometimes you/everyone want to feel comfortable and free -sometimes you/everyone want to feel special -sometimes you/everyone want to be paid attention to -sometimes you/everyone want to just relax and forget about all your problems -sometimes you/everyone want to try something new, expand your world -sometimes you/everyone want to have a bit of excitement -sometimes you/everyone does something they don't expect, but are glad they did -sometimes you/everyone want to escape from daily boring life, just for a while -sometimes you/everyone want to go to a seperate world -no one/you don't want to be/feel rejected -you/everyone is looking for something -people like attention, to be touched, feel secure (still holding) -So why do you see me? c: xxx -Maybe it is because of yyyy (you like an interesting person who can lead you, feel comfortable with) -maybe you cant pay attention to your work because you think of me every minute! -maybe always you hear and enjoy the sound of my voice! -maybe you want to kiss a nice guy like me. -Ok, I let you, but here only (gesture CK) -Allright, a real one.. (gesture KC, finger on her lips) -Why dont you spend some time with me, expand your world! -you keep listening to me, maybe you fall in love with me! -lets be friends -having a close friend and trust, it is very important -can you say a fairy tale -No, ok, well, lets try.. of course it starts with a castle, and a princess (gesture to her), and a king (if she has BF), and a handsome prince (gesture me), who takes the princess out of the boring castle, to have excitement in the forest around (start with describe her current situation, and then describe what you want her to do, as the princess) [kino tricks] -What color are your nails (touch hands), do they match your feet? (touch legs). -Wow, your skin is so smooth, and size of your fingers (hold hands) -Your hands, (they look so small! (compare size) ) -how/where do you like to be touched (feel secure, comfortable)? -you like to be touched like this? -touch arms -touch hair (my feeling now is to touch your hair, can I?) (while you already started) -hold -hug -touch hand -touch face (my feeling now is to touch your face, can I?) -touch neck back -gesture a CK -touch ears/front of neck -kiss forhead/neck/ears -breath her neck, forhead, ears -hold chin, stare down & move in -touch lips with your finger (does she draw away?) -KC (can do most of above steps without saying any word (better not to.. ..because you won't activate chick brain #1 if you keep your mouth shut and KC will be much more easy to reach (ie. in dance club)) ???insert KC steps from dance night (salsa party)???? from diary to this line???? [demonstrate personality and SOI vis-a-vis a woman's sexuality - if dumb/young chick, can be very aggressive with this] -hb blitz bar attack, but have/was with my GF, so rejected her -I like Japanese/office/career/blond/artist girls because they are very sensual, and warm -Japanese/office/career/blond/artist girls are excellent lovers because they know how to value the special *intimacy*???xlate -Just I want 'skinship' -expect progress from next date to next date, don't want to be played either.. -I like romantic/adventurous women follow natural way, and then it is OK even if you do.. no artificial limits -I like women who follow their heart/passion/feelings, daiji -it is obvious women want to be seduced -it is obvious women want adventure/excitment -it is obvious women want to feel sexy -Any woman who goes out with me, will be glad she did -I dont get sex, we share sex/communiate feeling.. that is point of sex, not just physical -sex is just way to reach your mind, in itself, sex is nothing, without the mental communication -I like a woman who is attractive and takes care of herself -ever have a ONS/sex first meeting, every girl had ONS (ArtBabe pattern), just it is normal -What makes a woman sexy is not what you show, but what you dont show.. that is very sensual.. -I never push anyone to do anything they dont want, just hug, its ok., just follow natural way., just comfortable communication, is all I want -So do you like guys, what do you like? -I like pretty girls -It is important to respect each other after sex -Sex is good, because sometimes people need to relieve their stress, feel refreshed (by sex) [Demonstrate personality regarding excitement/adventure, possibly she has BF/husband she wants to keep] -live life only 1 time, so need to try something new, expand your world, take a chance -life is adventure -You only live one time, so don't want to miss the chance -it is important to be open minded, and think first, but willing to take chances -OW -You are very attractive and sexy girl -Do you like to feel sexy/attractive -I really like you, beautiful woman -For me it is simple, I don't expect so much -I had a married/girl with BF before, so I understand that. It was nice, because I was in London, she had husband she loved, but looked for something a little different, to escape. So we knew what the expectations were, and we had a very nice time together, because we understood each other, and what we could expect, just natural understanding of each other. -I dont care about your BF/husband, that is your seperate life and is not important to me at all -Just when we are with each other, I want us to pay attention to each other (kino) -When I am with you I will give you all my attention, and I want you to give your all your attention when you are with me. -Can you do that for me? -I am very simple guy, that is all I am asking for -There is no other expectation than that, just follow natural way and communicate with each other when we are together. -Your other world is there, and this world is with us. -Do you understand me? -There is alot you don't know about me, I am still maybe somehow very interesting or mysterious to you. -But that is good, it is what makes life exciting, and is the spice to add to a normal day to day life.. it is so exciting, isn't it. -Maybe you want to find out more about me, or escape from your regular world, and have a special adventure, share it with me. -Do you think that you are elegant or sexy -What if you had the chance to explore that further, would you like that chance? -Ex gf who was bi, it was such interesting world, but different, so I learned to be open minded. I learned alot about women, from her -All my ex's said I was the best guy they ever met. -Everyone wants to have fun, smile, be happy and just relax and relieve stress. -Sometimes just it is nice to escape -It is exciting to do something a bit unusual, or risky that you are usually 'not allowed' -But then that is what makes it so attractive, isn't it -You want to feel good, everyone wants to feel good, feel refreshed -It is human, everyone played/had affair.. if not I can't believe, everyone did, just it is normal/human -Maybe you just needed a new and different strange experience. -Do you like sex? [if it is going well, continue this section, very direct about sex] -Did you ever come? -How does it feel when you come? -You like that don't you? -It feels good, doesn't it, to feel that pressure in your body, and then it explodes in excitement and pleasure -HB physics close -when was the last time you got excited, tell me about it." c: (description) -Of course you obviously want to be excited and that a similar experience might help. -(jokingly) I would help, it would be fun for me to try, and that if I failed, you could of course trust me to back down as I had done so many times that night already. -But I am completely confident that if you would only let me change the venue/relax I would excite you without a doubt. -I mean, how am I going to excite you in this damn playground/coffeeshop/without your help -You live close to here, and if we were at your place/if we try I could at least give you a nice massage and try to get you excited there. -And that would feel good no matter what the outcome, right? c: yes -Yes, you are right. -(shut the fuck up, grab her and take her to your place) -(start massage) -Now, to lead to exitement for both of us I would take off your top and bra -(take them off, continue massage, get more sexual, fuck [Out of time closes - new chicks] ::IF OUT OF TIME DURING THIS MP, ATTEMPT FOLLOWING RE-MEET CLOSES (Need 15 minutes of talk (25 is better) to demonstrate enough personality that I can meet her again that night/tomorrow. For a phone/email close 20 (30..40 is better) is required). -Best is to do all in 1 shot (see if you can get her to stay) -Do a 1..2 minute routine that will demonstrate personality and SOI..FAST before forced close (ie. leaving train/friends arriving in 1 minute). -It is funny, that we can meet like this, talk like this so naturally, it is so rare to just feel comfortable with someone so quickly and be able to communicate so well. I don't know you so well yet, but you seem to be a nice person and maybe I can trust you. Would you like to meet again and talk some more (about xxx (common thing)). -But I only want to make arrangements if really you want to see me, so I will ask you again, do you want to see me? -you are very pretty and sexy I want to see you again -(try THEN to get a KC, or at least a CK) -(Next best is to set next date RIGHT THEN for that night/next day -What are you doing tomorrow/next Monday? (=go for close NOW, no phone/mail shit) -I want to talk with you more, what day is free for you -xxx time/place -See you then. -(Next best is email/phone (chances are very dwindled at this point!, use mail for next appt, phone is too high chance to get her at wrong time, or look like stalker trying to reach her) -(Want to close with something in common -(Before close, some joke about how she is woman/attractive/interesting/comfortable/relaxing (the SOI basically) -please come with me to xxxx (that coffee shop/ my place) and we talk about 20 minutes -We should stop standing here, and go sit down at the xxx coffee/family restaurant that is down there (point) and talk some more -How do we meet again? -Exchange number (not important, just do it for next step) -When are we going to meet (see TPUA hairchick lay report (she gave number, so presupposition that she will meet you is now made) -what is your free day? -shall we meet at my place, or xxx Restaurant? (another presupposition) -What time/meeting place -Listen, you seem really cool, and I would love to hang out with you sometime and BE FRIENDS". -What are you doing tomorrow/tonight? -I need to buy some shirts, why don't you come with me (mystery style) ::END IF [move in closer/accelerate] -you seem very warm/passionate/creative, I can see it in your eyes -you are so beautiful -you look so sexy -try something new, expand your world! -sometimes, someone/something mysterious can (feel a little dangerous) be very attractive -Maybe it is fate.. because we seem to share so much in common. It is my first time. But it is always best to follow fate, and what naturally follows from it.. 1 bn ppl.. it is more than chance, so must take it. -you are so comfortable to spend time with, I can feel so natural and relaxed somehow -you are cute like cat (then move to head/neck/ear kino) -somehow we feel so comfortable around each other -maybe you are too nice girl for me? -can I trust you -your hair is very gentle (touch it, along with neck) -do you like it when I touch you? -you are very pretty and sexy, pretty, really (honto ni), cannot believe -you might ask me why I like you/want to see you.. because you are warm, and comfortable to spend time with -can I trust you? -I want you to trust me, I want you to do that for me.. -I want you to follow me -did anyone ever tell you you are so beautiful? -it gets more fun/interesting/exciting if you hang around me, you will enjoy, I am sure -if you have sex with a guy you really like, but is a bit mysterious how does it feel? (she should say yes), Maybe you feel connection, exciting, physical pleasure, which one is most? [tests to see if interest] -are you happy to see me tonight? -maybe I can trust you? (see her reaction to saying this) -if you met great guy, do you take chance with him? -you ever feel alone? -Do you take a chance with me? -Can I take a chance with you? -did you ever xxx (kiss a guy on first evening). -Just it is natural, because just it feels right. Maybe the reason is because people who are/do xxx (KC/open mind right away) tend to be very yyyy (passionate/trustable). -I cannot let you kiss me, I hardly know you (can I trust you?) -OK I try (a CK gesture) -A real one (KC touch her lips with finger gesture) -do you like to be touched? (like this (leg), or like this? (neck) ) -do you like to be held/hugged? -what did you learn about me tonight (see what she says) -it is my feeling, I would like to touch your hair/face/neck/lips, is it ok? (J.I. did this to me) -you said you are excitment/adventure type, lets see if it is true, lets try a little adventure.. do you like (kino, touch neck) this?, (gesture for CK). -do you want to kiss me? -you want to spend time with me? -My feeling is I would like to hug/hold you -I would like to feel closer to each other -I would like to feel to know each other more deeply -unusual to meet like this, but somehow we feel so comfortable, it is very unusual/strange/nice -you seem to be very unusual, very special, and attractive -unusual how we can get to know each other so naturally, and feel so comfortable -1bn ppl pattern -everyone wants a bit of excitement? I dont know if it will be long term romance, but if you let me change venue, we can try and in any case I am sure I can give you excitment. and at worst case, you will have gotten good massage in safe trusting environment with no pressure. (be persistant, and loop around this plan coming back to here if at first fail!) -(IF RESISTANCE:) I want you to really take a chance with me, I guarantee, you wont regret, just I want you to trust me. (and loop with above), -I am valuable/expensive guy, are you valuable girl? good enought for me? IF INTEREST (ie. enough yeses to more than 1 question in this section), THEN EXIT LOOP [kc/close - get at least 3 of these to work] -do you like me : KC -touch neck/ears, kiss them, then KC -I would like to get to know you more, I want you become closer to each other, can you follow me?: KC -I can only bring you if I can trust you, can I trust you? :KC -So do you like me? -Lets go for a walk/go -I am hungry/tired/smoky/lets go for a walk/eat/coffee/dance/show pictures/draw/spend time together now, (then to home asap after that) (BE PERSISTANT!) -dance/art is my way to express, I want to dance one dance/share art with you, right now that is my feeling, and what I want to share so much. Just 20 minutes, then leave, I am relaxing comfortable guy, I think I can trust you. -(As long as the body is not saying no, IGNORE THE MOUTH AND KEEP PUSHING!) -I have never kised a xxx (garlic girl, bug), I want to -shall we try.. (gesture/take chin) -You never kissed a french guy/xxx -shall we try (gesture, take chin) -I want you [Exit] -go home/fuck -------------------------------------------- EVASIVE ACTION.. (ie, if it is not working out, try stuff from here) [Statement of Intent / Expectations - handling slow chicks/indecisive chicks/bullshit] -(Try to feel up/KC, but not getting anywhere) -(kink action to be ok due to enivornmental factor (Folgers in TG) -Usually of course you dont do this, but here in this environment, we can relax, so it is OK/acceptable ..when the chick is doing like HBsexyMadam, warm, good EC, but not much sexual/reverse kino going on/KC/CK/a bit sexual (legs..etc) touching major resistance/roadblocks] -Rocks and Gold story -Sex and intimacy is part of any healthy relationship. I expect a woman to understand that and act accordingly, or her existance in my life will soon finish/is very short/ is at risk/will soon cease to exist. -I have no intent on being any lady's girlfriend. -No good guy is going to wait around a woman who is indecisive, or doesn't take the chance when it is given to her -I expect progress from meeting to meeting -I expect that sex/intimacy will happen after we spend some time to know each other, but I don't tolerate indecisive women. -I get to know you, you get to know me, and then we decide to take a chance to start a relationship. That is the way it works. -I have no intention to wait 6 months while you 'get to know me' before deciding to start a relationship. -That is the same as if I were to tell you to have sex with me for 6 months so I can decide if we have a relationship, and then we can go to dinner/walks..etc. of course it is ridiculous.. well so is the above, and no good man is going to accept that, just it is selfish.. -When was last time you had sex? (note, she might lie in her answer) -Should just say sex is normal part of human expression, so need to accept that as OK -Anyone who doesnn't of course is liar -I want respect when I am with a lady, I want her to feel free to express herself completely with me. -I want you to do that with me. -Do you respect me, I want you to show that for me, now take a chance -It is normal for people to enjoy touching, holding, EC, as it is also communication. -If you try, I am confident that you will enjoy a better time, and it will make me feel more relaxed too that you are having a good time. -Of course you want excitement, dont you. So if you relax, I can help you feel more excited and relaxed -When you take a chance, usually good things happen -AI movie pattern.. like forever and forever, -You will get old soon, lose youth soon forever and ever, so must take chances now, while still can, or they are gone forever.. you are old, youth is gone -I don't need any girl who wants to treat me as their girlfriend. I expect more respect than that -TC girl who didn't understand why I blew her out for being selfish -Ldn J-girls (both of them) who I blew out for being selfish -I am valuable too, can get attention from lots of girls.. so I have expectations. -KC, holding is natural communication, and I expect it, or it means our communication is not honest, and not complete. -I don't meet girls again who are cold, or don't show me that they appreciate being around me with their warmth (and not just talk), just I feel cold -I am not GF's to women, I don't waste my time with that -Story of virgin, and try to fuck her, or dump her for disrespect/selfishness ] [Random things] (what do to if she starts to run away/ice up/freak out) -but your doing nothing? -I am just trying to talk to you, is that so crazy? -Please just a moment -no, I dont give emails/phone numbers, we have to meet now, I dont want a relationship with my answering machine/computer -stay a moment, dont run away -we dont have lie face -lets just try a little -soon finish, then ok -I want to sit at the counter, I dont like tables, it reminds me of 'interview style', but I want relaxed way c: this is too fast -I can wait for you, but I cannot commit to only you while I wait (RedCherrySockBabe close) -So if you want me to wait for you, you need to show me some commitment today, then I can wait for you (works great when you are going on a real (or imaginary) trip). -Turn away with your back, and your drink -"I am going home", gesture to leave (jokingly) c: I have a BF -that's great! -its really great when your with a guy who will really listen and appreciate your opinions. -When are you planning to get married? c: (She changed subject after an errrr.) -just once, very easy, ok? lets go? c: (cant decide face) c: no -(gently takes her by the shoulder) c: (cant decide face) -(nudge her) lets go! -(chick goes with them) -not here c: you're here just to pick up chicks, arent you.. -'to tell you the truth, yes, i did go there to meet people but a pretty face -isn't enough for me....I actually have three qualities I look for in a woman.....' -(WHAM, now were both talking about relationships and what we both look for in a guy/girl) -no obligation -we go to top of building/my place/back there where no one see -easy to go? 15 minutes -just a moment, dont go -just 3 seconds / 5 minutes -please stop -please talk to me -but your doing nothing? -only short time, even leave early, still I buy you coffee -what time? -a bit early isnt it? -{if chick gives excuse you cant evade, repeat unrelated request (state break), or change topic/ask question, or say 'its my feeling xxxx to yyyy' c: ok, just a bit -just a moment 1 minute -just one minute -just a short bit of time, then finish -I wont eat you -no one will know -everyone needs an oasis -lots of girls pay attention to me, but I am expensive guy, so I expect more than just a cute girl.. that is so empty -but until now, you did/we talked alot, so just a little bit more, widen a just bit more todays day/experience -just a little bit you have to do -yes, only a little bit -if yada, its ok, that can happen, done worry, you dont need to stay -(she doesnt decide, they take her) -(on way to studio, repeating) just a moment, short time c: I'm engaged to someone right now/have BF -Yes, I'm seeing someone else as well (used on psychicbabe!) -When will you marry him? -(talk/inquire about troubles in relationship) -that's ok, I don't replace boyfriends, but they can be forgotten when they're not around -(I pace) I say 'you can't believe I'm saying these words to you, can you' -She agrees and says 'Yeah, you're direct and you don't waste time do you?' (now she's getting calmer) -Then I go into 'Yes, you're right. Bc most guys in here will fool around and waste -time and chicken out. I don't have time for that and I don't fool about, I'm not -interested. Besides, most guys in here (as I gesture away) simply don't have the balls -to say what I say' she nods. C:'I'm sorta seeing someone' excuse, so I used -'hmm, you sound enthusiastic about him'. -just a couple minutes chat.. can be relaxing/raku, its fun to talk!.. I am not going to eat you! (well, I will..but dont tell her! hahaha!) -Just I am like child sometimes, but it is nice. [Last gasp, nothing is really working, but she is warm, but not sexual at all.] -Situation: warm, but walls for sexual, still wants to see you. -After all the above stuf has been tried, attempt the following -work talk -I got nanpa from salsa club (social proof/transition), she wanted massage, or maybe just sex, but then after it is boring/wasting time, but sometimes ok depending my mood. -but what is important is how you treat each other after sex -failed KC... -you might take a chance, you see me often, but expand your world.. -Demonstrate personality (copmany fight, new job/appt/success in saving corp money) -Excitement as teenager -Kino/hold hand (as teenager) -Massage talk -KC, try? (as teenager) -HB physics close (change venue, like excitment) -happy to just be other woman.. you are free, try something new -spend private time together -castle fairytale -succeed or bail -Just I want 'skinship' -expect progress from next date to next date, don't want to be played either.. -or just I get another woman -chick who always tried to change date (london j-girl), at last minute, so I dumped her.. lots of pretty girls around, I respect myself. -I like romantic/adventurous women follow natural way, and then it is OK even if you do.. no artificial limits -I like women who follow their heart/passion/feelings, daiji -I like a woman who/it is obvious women want to be seduced -I like a woman who/it is obvious women want adventure/excitment -I like a woman who/it is obvious women want to feel sexy -It is important to respect each other after sex -Sex is good, because sometimes people need to relieve their stress, feel refreshed! -can you do me a favor, take a chance with me, touch my belly.. change venue -my ex's said I was best guy they ever met -what you do when you meet nice guy -I give massage, passion, heat, special time and connection -Do you like sex? [if it is going well, continue this section, very direct about se! -Did you ever come? -How does it feel when you come? -You like that don't you? -It feels good, doesn't it, to feel that pressure in your body, and then it explodes in excitement and pleasure -HB physics close (credit: TPUA) -when was the last time you got excited, tell me about it." c: (description) -Of course you obviously want to be excited and that a similar experience might h! -(jokingly) I would help, it would be fun for me to try, and that if I failed, you could of course trust me to back down as I had done so many times that night already. -But I am completely confident that if you would only let me change the venue/rel! I would excite you without a doubt. -I mean, how am I going to excite you in this damn playground/coffeeshop/without ! help -You live close to here, and if we were at your place/if we try I could at least give you a nice massage and try to get you excited there. -And that would feel good no matter what the outcome, right? c: yes -Yes, you are right. -(shut the fuck up, grab her and take her to your place) -(start massage) -Now, to lead to exitement for both of us I would take off your top and bra -(take them off, continue massage, get more sexual, fuck -unusual to be comfortable like this..maybe fate? -dance/art is my way to express, I want to dance one dance/share art with you, righ! what I want to share so much. Just 20 minutes, then leave, I am relaxing comfortab! ------------------------------------------------------------
