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Here are some body language» things that I aim for. Some of them people may
disagree with. And if you go too far with this dominant body language» you can
come across as TOO aloof or thug or aggressive or self-important.
When you enter a ROOM (or any similar situation where you can be seen by
multiple people) make sure that you are displaying these characteristics:
-SMILE. So important. If you were rich, sucessful, getting laid like a
rockstar, etc. WOULDN'T YOU BE SMILING? Hell yes. So do it and people will
assume that you are these things. To get a really genuine smile, I like to
remember really ON nights or picture the faces of women who want me. It needs
to be on when you enter as well as when you approach.
-BIG GESTURES. THe most dominant person in a group will often take up the most
space. I like to sit with my arms spread out and my legs crossed, like Hef
chillin' at his mansion. Try to keep your arms AWAY from the body. Especially
don't cross them in front of your body. Neg any girl who does this. Don't hold
a drink in front of your stomach like everyone else does either.
BIG TIP: If you are with a group of friends and you say something funny and the
group laughs, make an especially big gesture. This signals to the people who
happen to be looking that you are the funny one.
Same concept goes for dance floor - don't dance like you are trying not to
touch anyone else. Dance BIG. Move over a large area of the dance floor, put
your arms in the air, etc.
-Talk the most. The person who dominates the conversation is usually the
higher-status person in the group.
-Talk and move at a measured pace. Not too fast. Speak slowly but react quickly
to what other people say to you.
-Erect posture. Don't slouch. (Duh)
-'Bout it, 'Bout it walk. This was the phrase that a girl I worked with once
used to describe the way I walk - with a swagger. Sort of like I am a male
runway model. The ass shakes from side to side.
-Avoid shifty eyes. Don't stare around the room lookign like you are on the
hunt. Don't "Fish" for EC. You will look predatory and sleazy». Instead, hold
your gaze confidently.
-Always be talking to somebody. Standing around alone is a bad thing. When you
are talking to the person, look like you are having a fun conversation and
-When walking with a group of friends, walk in front. Don't look back to see
-Use EC and body language» to reward / punish. When someone says something you
like, look them in the eye and lean toward them. When they start to get boring,
look around the room and turn your body away from them.
-Enter obliquely. When you approach a girl or group, do not march straight for
her and start accosting her (because that's what it will seem like you are
doing). Instead, make a remark off to the side. Make it seem like you are just
making a throwaway comment. Master the art of always looking like you are about
to leave... UNTIL you have gotten "IN" the group and they actually WANT you to
stay.
-Special tip for waitresses, strippers, clothing people, etc. To really give
off the vibe of being IMPORTANT, when they first approach you ("Can I take your
order?" "Would you like to buy a dance?" "Can I help you with anything?",
Don't look at them at first. Look like you are absorbed in the menu or the
sweaters or whatever. I sometimes even hold up a finger (To signal "wait".
They are now WAITING on you in the truest sense. Then I like to counteract this
impression by saying something funny to gain rapport and then looking DIRECTLY
at them with a confident smile.
-There are certain HANDSHAKES that are more dominant than others. For instance,
when I am first introduced to someone, instead of just shaking hands with them,
I like to "give dap." Good for the HB because it shows you are not awed by her.
You are being silly. Or another very dominant handshake (especially good for
use on PAWNS) is where you shake hands normally and then you use your LEFT hand
to cup the other person's shaking hand. So that you have your hands SANDWICHED
around theirs. Also try to make sure that your hands are turned so that yours
is on TOP. Another sign of dominance.
If you are not Alpha, the best you can hope to be is the Master Beta
