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Unlike what most people believe, sex does not begin in the bedroom. For it to work correctly, you have to set up certain things even before you begin to really make it amazing. This is my guide to great sex.
FIRST of All, here are some rules:
1. It isn't sex unless she cums.
2. It isn't sex unless you cum.
3. She goes first.
Second of all, here are some myths:
1. It's hard to make a girl cum. (Only if you're clueless)
2. Sex is just about you sticking your dick into her pussy.
3. Girls don't enjoy sex as much as guys (only if you're a moron)
Proper preparation:
To set it up correctly, you need her to imagine what is possible even before you even get started. You do this with subcomunication.
Subcomunication is done through the simple use of sentences to build an impression in her mind. Think about it as breaking her social conditioning of women not enjoying sex.
For example:
You're both watching a movie or listening to a song, and the sex scene shows up, they hump for a while and then the next scene they're both laying down in the sheets and she's all on him.
This is your cue.
You make a comment about how she's all over him because that guy couldn't even make her cum.
You make a comment about how their sex probably sucked because she probably didn't even orgasm.
You made your point and now she has a picture in her mind. Rinse and repeat a lot of this.
Ok, so you've isolated her and you're getting ready for sex.
In case you don't know, when doing PU, your frame of mind should be one of giving (giving conversation, giving entertainment, value). Sex is nothing different.
Great sex is all about her. Is all about fucking her, making her cum. As guys, we have fun anyways, so the real satisfaction is when you know the girl got exactly what she came in for.
Ok, so you're making out with her. The first thing not to do, is go for the pussy, or go for the tits. Don't do it. Sex is meant to take some time. Take it easy and build it up layer after layer, here's the process:
-Start kissing her softly.
-Caress her waist, and with the palm of your hand pressed against her body, start touching the outside of her thighs.
-Start making out more passionately. Change tempo, kiss her passionately and faster, and then switch to her neck and take a bite more slowly.
-With one hand grab her hair and with the other start caressing the inside of her thigh. What you're doing here is building up the tension. Don't touch her pussy yet.
-Move your hands all over her body, the key is to move your hands firmly and slowly pressing the whole palm against her body. If you never done this before, this feels amazing.
-Grab her neck and kiss her passionately and push her so you both end up in horizotal position.
-Don't move on top of her yet. Now is time to start rubbing her tits. The way to do it is in circles. Start in the outside and start moving three fingers in circles around her nipple. Start closing in until you hit the nipple.
Of course this get better once you take her clothes off. Sexual tension builds up even stronger if you can move your head away while doing this and you look her straight into her eyes.
-When you feel you've built enough tension, you can start rubbing her pussy with her jeans on. Be sure to press against it and move slowly. Another option is rubbing it with your thigh.
-If you've never fucked her before, start with taking off the shirt. As a rule, you have to be equal in the amount of clothes you're both wearing. YOu take her shirt, take your shirt as well.
****IN CASE OF EMERGENCY*********
If she's not bitting, a good alternative is to take off your clothes and put her hand on your dick and start making out with her (I know... but it works).
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-Unbutton her pants and without pulling her jeans down and gently start fingering her.
If this is the first time you're fucking her, this is the part where you take a moment, stand up, and say "give me a sec".
You then go ahead and turn on your CD player and play PORTISHEAD Roseland NYC Live CD. This is by far the best fuck music, and If you keep fucking her this CD is going to create a strong anchor with having sex with you (If you already fucked her you can play it from the moment where you're alone and the anchor in her mind will help you a lot).
Ok, so listen up cause this part is the most important part in the entire sex process.
********** How to Touch Her Pussy **************
You may be wondering where should you start?
Well, first of all, realize that any pussy has certain spots were it will feel much much better than others. As a guy your first assignment will be to locate the clitoris. But have no fears, since any part you touch will make the girl feel good.
A womans pussy is complicated. It's not as simple as a dick were you just yank it and we're done. No, you have to know your way around it. There are two layers of skin (labia) that cover the vagina, and above the vagina (where you put your dick in) you'll find the clitoris. This is the spot you need to focus on.
If you put the clitoris against the rest of the pussy, you'll find that it's just a little button that gets lost in the rest. A great way to locate it, if you're a newb, is starting by fingering, then move up slowly.
A great thing that will make this much hotter is telling her smoothly: "tell me how you want me to touch you".
"you like it like that?" and stuff like that, but those two are my favorite.
This will usually lead to the location of the clitoris, and the beggining of a great "sex talk" relationship. No image you watch about some pussy is going to help you through this. This is going to be a purely kinesthetic job, so don't be afraid to touch around and ask as this will make you learn much faster.
Once you've located the clit, touch it very slowly. Move in circles for a while. The most important thing when doing this is resistance. If you really want to make her cum you're going to be patient with it, maintain the same speed and keep going for a while. This allows her to focus on the images in her mind. If you keep changing pace and tempo she won't be able to focus for enough time to cum. This is why you should find a comfortable position and keep repeating the same thing over and over until she cums.
While your doing this, ask her what's her favorite position, and tell her to imagine you fucking her in that position. Give her images to cum with.
Ulike what I personally use to think, most girls will enjoy clit stimulation rather than g-spot, but some girls will go crazy over you touching her g-spot so here are some tips:
-The g-spot is at the "roof" of the vagina.
-It feels like a rough little spot, like a ridged bumpy spot on top of her vagina.
-To make her cum like this, press it a little bit harder than you would with the clit, and move it in circles. Some girls won't stand it cause they will feel like they're going to piss all over you, but the ones that can stand it, will go crazy over it.
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Continuing with the process...
So after a little bit of touching her pussy with her jeans still on, you should take her blouse and her bra. Keep your hands inside her jeans and lick her tits. Take a break and take your shirt off.
When licking her tits, repeat the same process as touching them but with your tonge. Do it in circles around the nipples and start from the outside to the inside.
If she hasn't already, grab her hand and lead it to your cock. Take her jeans off and expect her to do the same to you, if she doesn't take them off yourself.
Talk about the stuff you like about the process. Get on top of her and tell her how you like to feel her tits against your chest, tell her how like that she's touching you. Tell her you want to make her yours. Tell her you want to be inside her.
Talk about all those things you're feeling and tell her about it, it will bring it to her awareness and it will feel much better.
If this is the first time you're having sex with her you can start in the regular missionary position, but if you already have fucked her in the past, it's much hotter to start in a different position. For example, if you're both laying next to each other, you can roll up your condom (PUA's always use them) and you can lift her leg and fuck her while both laying next to eachother. You may not cum in this position, but a little bit of rubbing her clit while doing it like this and most likely she will.
Some girls will be more oriented to try new stuff more than others, so if your girl isn't open enough yet, it's your job to open her mind to explore new possibilites, this is why asking questions work. Talking during sex is kinda kinky for most girls, so ask her how she feels, how she likes it, is she ok, and a lot of stuff so she gets used to talking and accepting that she likes it.
When you done all of the above, chances are she's loving it. When you do the advice about touching her pussy, you'll learn how to make her cum, but just in case she wants something better, this is going to be the coup de grace.
Eating pussy.
For those who've been there and done it right, it's amazing. At first you'll don't know what to do but just move with the confidence that anything you do will feel just right.
Here are some tips.
-Don't be afraid to "lick it" (like the long gone jlaix used to say). Eating pussy is going down and dirty, so just let go of your fears and go all out with it.
-Find her clit. This is the only thing that matters.
-Once you've found it, find a comfortable position and start licking steadily.
-You will get tired. Just keep pushing through until she gets there.
-For her to get there faster, you need one of two things:
1. To press harder with your tonge, the harder you press her clit with your tongue the faster she will cum. This will also make you tired faster, so you have to build some resistance to it.
2. Get her talking. I don't know why, but when you're talking about what you're feeling you'll come a lot faster. The same goes with her. Tell her you want her to keep you informed of what she's feeling and you want to know when she's about to cum, this will make her cum much faster than being quiet.
Like fingering her, just choose a pace she likes and stay with it doing the same movement over and over until she comes.
******* Getting her to suck your dick *********
Getting her to suck your dick is actually easy once you follow this process.
-The first step is all about giving her pleasure. If she's the type that thinks she "doesn't suck dick" This step should be last, and only after you've made her cum a couple of times. In fact, this part is only if she's this type of girl, most girls will be able to suck you off from the beggining.
-After you've had sex start asking her what her favorite thing was. If you ate her out properly, she'll say it was that.
-Whatever she says, she'll probably ask you. Tell her how much you enjoyed it, maintain your positive vibe, and after you told her what your favorite thing was, tell her you want her to do something to you.
-When she asks what, just play shy and leave it at that. Don't tell her right now. Trust me, she'll get it.
-The next time you're having sex, start licking her pussy, and before she cums, move back up and tell her that you want her to do the same to you. Say it in an excited sexy tone so she would sound like a idiot for saying no.
Reciprocation is a bitch. And so will she be after you've done this cause she will have to suck you if she wants to keep getting the goods.
You follow this and you'll find that there's no limits to what sex can be. It took me a while to write this guide up so print it up and follow it to the bone (no pun intended).
Go out and enjoy this shit.
the end.
dahunter,
