Reproduced from the searchable archibve of articles on FastSeduction.com. Acronyms used in this article can be looked up on the acronyms page. To get involved in discussions like this, you can join the mASF discussion forum at fastseduction.com/discussion.
http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=5&mn=1170723613380037
Prologue
After reading MrDopple's post, I realized that I've shared my phone game ideas with dozens of guys in the chat room but never posted it here, so this should prove to be a time-saver.
Introduction
My phone game is a multi-call plan with specific goals to accomplish with each call. This post assumes you have enough experience with women to be able to properly calibrate to their responses to you. This post also assumes that you have NOT already set up a day-two. This is for cold calling ONLY, so keep that in mind before you tell me, "liek omgz, that would so not work on [Asian/English/New York/Martian] girls."
Using this method, you'll call two or three times before setting up the meeting. The calls are as follows:
Call 1: Attraction, 2 minutes.
The Scoop
In the event that you get voicemail, ALWAYS ASSUME SHE KNOWS WHO YOU ARE. Every average guy that she gives her phone number to will inevitably remind her who he is. You've heard it before... "Heeeey, this is George... um... we met at the bar last night--I know you don't remember but I was the guy with the red hair, thick dark-rimmed glasses and an acne problem. If you're wondering who that lovely lady was who was with me, that was my mom. She insisted I only drink Apple juice, though, and that's why I didn't buy you a Appletini. I WOULD HAVE, THOUGH, BECAUSE I LOOOOOVE YOU!"
Nah, bro. That's not going to cut it. Instead, your standard voicemail message should be something like, "Hey, it's Rob. Looks like you missed me, so give me a call back at 555-1212." You DID make sure she knew your name, right?
Honestly, expect to get voicemail unless she has your name in her phone. Women are fickle creatures--they don't like to talk to strangers.
Back to the call plan, you'll notice that the first call is primarily attraction material. She's not going to be in the state she was in when you got her number, so you need to bring her back to that state with recurring jokes from your first interaction or something similar. I always--ALWAYS--start off with "OMG, the craziest thing just happened to me" and then go into an attraction story. If nothing really interesting happened to you, fuck... make something up for all I care. TD's badass little kid story always gets a laugh.
Talk to her like you would if you talked to her every day. Just be natural. If you set the tone like you've known her forever, she'll take on that set of beliefs. You keep her on the phone for a couple minutes (two minutes is plently long enough) and then get off the phone abruptly when she's in a really high state.
"Hey, I've got to run. The pizza delivery guy just got here."
Okay, maybe not that last one. The other two are fair game, though.
It's important that you don't really mention calling her back. Create some anticipation for Christ's sake! When you get of the phone abruptly, you're leaving her wanting more. She wants to keep talking to this fun guy that makes her feel like she's known him forever. Use that to your advantage.
The next day (or whenever you feel like calling her back), you're going to do some quick attract material--no more than 30 seconds or so. You can DHV ("hey, I just got back from [x cool activity that she probably should have gone to]... you totally missed it" or just run your favorite quick routine. Whatever you're into.
After the quick attraction material, you're going to go into comfort. Relate the attract material to the comfort material and talk about a time in your past or whatever. Essentially, just talk to her like she was there next to you and you were shooting the shit. It should be no different than if you were running comfort game face-to-face.
After about 7-10 minutes, you have two options: switch back to attraction material and get off the phone abruptly and on a high note, much like you did last time or set up a meet. Refer to the "Setting up a Meet" portion below.
Call 3, if required is EXACTLY the same as call 1 except this time instead of getting off the phone, you're going to arrange a meet.
Setting up a meet
At the end of either call 2 or call 3, the time should be right to set up the meet. Based on the feedback she's giving you, you should be able to calibrate accordingly. In your comfort game you can even suggest things like, "I love boating--we should hit the lake sometime" to see how she responds. Again, who gives a crap if you really want to go boating with her or not; it's nothing more than a way to see if she says, "yeah cool" or "ew, fuck no, creep-o."
When you're ready to set up the meet, all you need to do is say, "hey, I'm doing [X cool activity] at [X time]. You should come." They can now respond in one of several ways:
Yes: The most straightforward of the possibilities. Don't forget a condom, tiger.
No: This never happens. You will NEVER get a flat out "no" unless you're Hannibal Lecter or sending her cam phone pics of your cock.
No, but...: If she has what sounds like a valid excuse, "it's cool." Whatever you do, make sure you communicate that you're okay with her not coming. You've got other options and you were planning on going anyway so her decision affects you in no way whatsoever. If she has some bullshit story about her cat getting its dick stuck in the electrical socket, playfully tell her you're not buying it, but REMAIN UNAFFECTED. You planned on going to grab a coffee anyway, remember? You were just giving her the option to come along.
Maybe: "Fair enough. I need to know for sure, though." I will not let them get away with a "maybe" with no commital either way. I'd rather have a "no" than a "maybe." This is the only case in which I will push for an answer. Remember: if she says no, it's still okay with you.
After you set up the meet, just say, "cool--see you there, and give me a call if you can't find the place." That's it.
The Skinny
There are some finer points to work on with phone game than the basics covered above.
Long awkward pauses: This is more for calls AFTER you've met, but it can apply to the comfort call as well. Be comfortable with pauses--embrace them. Let HER re-initiate unless it was your blatant lack of communication that killed the convo. For instance, if she asks you about your day and you just grunt, you're not really doing your share. Effective communicators know how to keep a conversation rolling, but they do stale out on occasion. In the event that there is a pause, only insecure guys will try (as in put forth effort, giving her value and making you look like a needy tenth-grader) to breathe life back into the conversation. If you're running attract material, this should never happen, since you're talking for a mere two minutes and HOPEFULLY you can carry on a conversation (albeit a rather one-way conversation in attraction) for that length of time.
Awkward endings: You've heard it before:
DO NOT be a needy bitch: You're calling her because you feel like talking to her. You're doing it for your own amusement, not to try to win her over. Well, even if you are being a needy bitch, don't communicate that to her. when you first open a set, you need to LOOK like you can leave at any time. You can't look like that over the phone, so you need to sound like it.
Epilogue
Alright, I know I often ramble. If you have any questions or think anything needs to be clarified, by all means ask. I'll check this post for responses for a couple days, after which I just simply won't care anymore. In which case, reply anyway and we'll see what happens.
PS: If you're some new guy I sent here from the chat room, leave some love and thank me later
Ciao,
--
I don't play hard to get--I am hard to get.
Call 2: Comfort, 7-10 minutes. Suggest day-two if it's going well.
Call 3: Attraction, 2 minutes. Set up day-two.
"Hey, I've got to run. Jessica just got here to go salsa dancing."
"Hey, I've got to run. My cat got its dick stuck in the electrical outlet again."
"Okay, bye."
"Yeah, see you later."
"Cool, talk to you some other time."
"Yep. Bye now." Ad infinitum.
Don't do it. Say "alright, bye" and get the fuck off of the phone!
Rob
