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Talk, is a NUCLEAR POWER TOOL during the first few minutes of a PU. You can crack her shield and pump her state all over the place, with words alone! After 3 min of this, the girl will start looking at you like a fat kid looking at cupcake.
After this point, talk become something TOTALLY DIFFERENT.
Girl is EMOTIONAL now. And the entire rest of the 'road' to the state where she is ready to have sex, goes through the Land of Emotions. As SHE walks this road, she will say some very strange things to/about you. "You are so cute!" "I bet you get lots of girls!" "Please dont leave me!".. she says these things, most of all to create a picture of you that will prevent her intelligent brain from saying "STOP - you cant fuck this guy! He is not good enough!" All attracted girls do this 'perfect guy projecting' verbally or in their thoughts. Its a key part of the arousal process.
When YOU talk, its different. Firstly, her intelligent brain is activated (momentarily ripping her out of Land of Emotion - putting arousal on HOLD). Her logic brain has only one question at this point, and its written in HUGE RED LETTERS.. "DOES HE QUALIFY FOR SEX?".. Anything you say will be interpreted against this qestion alone.. (Sidenote: To reproduce once, a girl must give away 9 months, eat like a brontosaurus, go through INHUMANE pain and POSSIBLY DIE during birth.. all to give birth to one man's child... cant blame her logic brain for trying to make sure she finds the best male possible )
So, instead of looking actively for arousal and reasons to fuck you, she is now looking actively for stuff that disqualifies you. OUCH!!
Another important part of her arousal process is HER PUTTING IN WORK to get you. As she convinces herself that you are great, she has to put in some effort, for the picture to become congruent. A great guy could never be won over with ZERO EFFORT. She will try to be nice, say nice things, touch you, smile alot etc etc.. - this is also SHUT DOWN when you are the active talker. Because you are now qualifying to her, she will sit back and observe, rather than do work on her own.
ANOLOGY: Imagine watching TV when someone turns on some loud music. This is how it is for attracted girl when you get talkative.
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Sooo.. *lowering his eyelids and speaking in a softer almost raspy voice* what type.. of.. talking do you.. suppose.. is ok...?
IME, best to limit talk to:
For times when she shuts up, fill the void with just holding her or resting your head in her lap. ROMANTIC SHIT I know but OMG it works..
I tried really hard to explain this with fewer words, but fucking hard. I think you can understand what a challenge this was in my PU and how totally my success rate improved after I was told these things.
CONCLUSION:
-minimalistic response to her questions (use kino or BL signalling if possible)
-tiny reward compliments (use mostly kino or BL signalling for this)
-leading ("Come here" "Tell me more about X"
Know how to attract girls with talk. Know when its time to shut up. Develop the SELF DICIPLINE to avoid giving her your brilliant insights and hillarious stories after this point.
