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I believe in relationships ... I believe that if a woman is worth fucking once she is usually worth fucking on a reoccurring basis. And in this context women can be pretty cool friends too, IME.
Once you get past the AFC frame of scarcity you realize that there are loads and loads of horny women out there. So if you're like me, the key is to get involved with women that are right for you . You have a lot of women to choose from and therefore you want to pick the best.
An AFC needs to be careful with this information because we all know how guys will make goddamn excuses for not approaching women or not escalating. An internal belief of "she would never go for a guy like me" is not "being selective.
In Franco's Neediness Management post he wrote about how being around women who love to touch will reduce your neediness. We have a biological need for physical affection, and if you get lots of it from beautiful women then you are good to go.
The way to avoid getting into relationships with women who are frigid, or who think it's cool to use sex as a bargaining chip, or have a terminal case of the MPS, is to kino right from the start.
By properly calibrated kino, early on in the interaction, you are doing one of two key things:
1. Making her horny and comfortable with you being physical with her, demonstrating self-confidence and all that good stuff
or
2. Screening her out of your life.
Now, if you are rAFC, you need to be honest with yourself and calibrate this. You might be awkward with your kino. You might be doing it inappropriately or at the wrong time. So pay attention to the feedback you get.
But once you have the confidence that you know exactly how to use kino and you are totally comfortable in your own skin, then the only women who will object to kino are the ones you don't want to start a relationship with anyway.
Not getting enough kino from your GFs can be a direct cause of your acting needy, which in turn will cause them to want to touch you even less, which will totally fuck up your mojo if left to fester. So save yourself the hassle and only get into relationships with women who love kino and know how to give and receive it.
Having the act of kino as one of your relationship screening tools is something that you can look forward to, if you start today by practicing the art of Kino early on in your interactions with women.
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