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FUCK!! Been trying a bit of nonverbal PU last few weeks, cos the new DJ is a total DICKHEAD playing far too loud. A few findings:
If I get line of sight to any girl, I can make her come towards me, simply by resting my eyes on her. (Its not actual EC. Its more like I see the 'entire HER', in a totally relaxed 'quiet' way. Dont know better way to explain differnce between this and looking at girls in a needy way.)
Anyway, they always start looking in all directions EXCEPT mine, while moving slowly towards me. (As you know, this is pretty much how I do approaches too.) I keep looking at her until she is near. Then I go sexual state, like hard to breathe and shit. This makes girl move the last 1-2 meters until her ass rubs against me. (They always face directly away from me at this stage.) After letting the tension build for a few seconds more, I tap her lightly on the shoulder and say 'hi' or 'cheers' or something else. Works on all HOT girls in pub/bar.
Sidenote - 'you got to approach' has reached out to the entire west european male population.. The really hot girls are approached NON STOP in some venues around here. Also, gangs of guys gravitate towards the HBs all the time, and try to do the 'we just happen to be here having fun, you should join in'-thing. IOW I think direct vibing and sexual state in particular is a great way to distance myself from the chodes.
When I move around, I still do the playful thing and it works great too. Recap:
HINT of PLAYFUL SMILE is even better.
Sidenotes:
Background: subject=low eye lids (masf archive)
Edit: Playful smile is very easy to figure out BTW. Play with a kid and do the "I'm coming to get you!" game where you try to catch and tickle them. Look at how they smile.. THATS the smile!
Misc kino/escalation recap:
Kiss openers
The Complete Kiss PU Method
Kiss anticipation builders
Mid-kiss tech
In-bed mini-tool recap:
Take away - pretend I get TOO HORNY in middle of escalation/sex and need to catch my breath.
ULTRA slow take away in bed.. e.g. you are spooning the girl with arms around her. If the girl was sleeping and you wanted to go toilet without waking her, how would you try to get up? Get up like that, but VERY VERY slow.
UNDER THE RADAR dry-humping (very small and ultra slow).
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Thought 'sexual low eye lids' was best early vibe for PU. Its really great, but changed my mind lately because:
-Easy to transition between the two. Almost as if closely related.. good twin.. EVIL TWIN..
-When playful, horniness lurks and GROWS just underneath the surface.. so WHEN you transition to sexual, she will follow you strongly...
-Both 'sexual' and 'playful' put you firmly in the NOW, so wont be nervous/self conscious/analytical/big AR/afraid of talking to girls.
-Body rocking, backturn, facing 90deg away, peacocking and most of my great routines are natural parts of the playful frame.
-'Playful' never triggers the bitch shield.
- When playful, its OK to do stuff thats normally way off limits, like spanking, biting, hair pulling, dry humping, wrestling, name calling etc.
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IOI Approach recap:
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-Girl sends you some IOIs.
1 Quickly but casually get near her, while pretending being interested in something else completely. In fact, look in all directions except hers.. (girls pick up on this ioi from you)
2 Turn straight towards her and smile big and 100% warmly as if saying 'wow - i like you!' TRUST ME, she will smile back with similar warmth!
3 Turn slightly away in a shy manner, while continuing to smile.
4 Turn back to her and compliment her bag or shoes or similar and ask where she bought it.
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-grab hands and smile, if she tries to impress
-kino on emotional high points
-run hands down arms into palms and squeeze
-rub/leave hand on lower back
-stretch legs on lap
-lay head on lap
-sit on lap
-lift her arm and put it around your neck, and scooch way down in the seat so she can comfortably leave it there
-push hair out of face and move slowly down to fondle earlobes
-smell slow along neck
-grab hair, pull head back, gently bite neck
-kiss forehead, nose, cheek then lips
-triangulate, drop verbal flow, move in for kiss ULTRA SLOW.
-pin down, shove arms up against wall or hold head against wall and start making out
-never skip dry-hump
-get EC when moving towards girl. Transition to “I wanta fuck you like an animal” vibe. Triangulate. Touch waist gently. slowly go in for kiss.
-"I need a private word - come with me a sec.." grab hand and lead around corner, "come closer.. closer.. closer..", look in eyes 5 seconds, then wander eyes down to lips as go in for kiss
Use BL. NO NEED for complex word game. From start be "Intrigued Dominant Male". Transition asap to "Sexually Aroused Dominant Male". Then do EXACTLY this:
-Get close
-Look DEEP into eyes a few seconds
-Look at lips
-Move in slowly - BANG - kissing has already commenced!
Break off , then go straight for makeout session. Make it more and more sexual until kinda sexual climax, then break off slowly, take her hand and tell her to come with you. Go somewhere you can fuck, start making out, start taking her clothes off and go in for the fuck.
-stare at mouth
-move towards her mouth
-hoover with mouth near hers
-breath on face/neck
-touch head/neck/hair
-run fingers up back and neck, and make light fist with her hair - tighten as makeout progresses
-move lips near hers.. when she goes in, back up repeatedly until she frustrated, then grab and kiss her HARD
-put lips gently against ear and rotate tounge slowly around ear opening - move it down to ear lobe - stick it very gently into her ear canal
-let kissing trail her chin and neck down to her chest and up again
-nibble her chin, neck and ear lobes
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Push pull - if you want to start doing anal with a girl who never did it, you can push-pull-attract her to do it. Escalate towards it, then deescalate. Repeat. Girl will get really hot in her ass from this and even beg you to put it in if you keep it up.
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