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I don’t want to insult all of your techniques, and strategies and tips; they are all very good.
I think that not enough value is given to the concept of “momentum”.
In physics there is a concept called static friction and it pretty much means that it requires a large amount more energy to get a stationary objection moving, than it does to keep an object that is already moving to keep it in play. That’s because the force of static friction is resisting your push and holding the box in place.
In my experience “momentum”, or keeping the box moving, or keeping on fucking women after you have fucked one or two, is everything.
That may seem obvious, but it has some major ramifications for your game.
Often in my own game if I go through a dry spell I can go from not fucking anyone for a month to fucking ten girls in a month with ease simply by getting a bit of a roll on. You’ll hear virgins talk about struggling for 3 years and not getting anywhere, then fucking 4 women in the next three months.
The missing piece from many guys’ advice and strategy is how big a part momentum played in their overall success. They’ll often stake a claim they discovered the best technique ever, or they have had some massive realisation that super-charged their game or they have gone from super chump to super PUA; but in reality all that happened was that they got a couple women under their belt and after that they could do no wrong.
It goes so deep that just about all the advice and tips I read have a great deal to do with momentum, and momentum alone. Like if you have enough momentum you can really break all the rules and do whatever the fuck you like and it works.
From a biological point of view I think sex is as important a basic need as food and water. You wouldn’t go without food or water for a week, so why go long periods without sex? It’s totally unhealthy and it somehow on a level that won’t show up in photos ruins our vibe.
Although society as humans became civilised (or less civilised) we put all these barriers around a healthy sex life and humans stopped on average having sex as often as evolution designed us to have. We are one, if not the only, animals where females have concealed ovulations (unlike say dogs where the female knows and its obvious she is ovulating & gets on heat and only has sex then) so we have been designed to fuck the majority of days of the month, and a failure to do so has a similar effect to us starving, it fucks up all our body chemistry.
This is probably because only the real losers in the local tribe of humans went without regular sex (I think I personally disagree with the notion that only one or two guys got all the women in the tribe and the rest missed out but I won’t argue that point now).
Having sex regularly and getting momentum is a real priority that is essential for high level gaming. It is near impossible in my opinion to run high level game like models or threesomes and stuff unless you are getting regular hot booty.
The messages from this are:
1. Do whatever it takes to get some momentum. Join 10 online dating» sites, and send 100 messages a day, go clubbing every night of the week, do day-game, try every method there is, and don’t be afraid to really push your comfort zones, and lower your standards a little if you have to (just don’t show your friends).
2. Whenever you reach a new point in your game or a glass ceiling be prepared to encounter static friction. It may be fucking hotter women, or going out on your own, or moving to a new place and not knowing anybody. This is the part that requires your maximum persistence, dedication and thick skin!
3. Don’t settle into a comfort zone. It may be easier to switch onto cruise control when you get some momentum but it will soon come to a stop if you get fat, lazy or comfortable. Some of the best results will come after you are really happy with your current results. Such as when I’ve said no to dating a super hot girl and then soon after dated an ever better girl that I would have missed had I not increased my standards and not refused to get comfortable.
4. Be prepared to put your ego away and try heaps of different things. During this phase of static friction your ego will only hurt your game. Be prepared to change everything about yourself to get some initial results, and it will roll from there. Nothing can compare to the micro-communication of a guy who is getting hot sex and is getting success, and women can smell it. They will often look at you and guess how much sex you are currently getting; and they are generally good at this.
5. If you learn from a pro get a good idea of what they do to get some momentum. Don’t be afraid to take enormous risks in getting some move on. Be cool about not getting sex, like don’t come across as a desperate freak but at the same time, freak out if you don’t get sex for a few weeks or a month or so.
Think about the story with the frog. If you drop a frog into boiling water it jumps out, but if you put a frog into a pot of cold water and slowly increase the temperature it will burn and die because it slowly because it learns to get comfortable in a terrible situation.
6. Fake it. Act like a guy getting regular sex. Somehow.
7. On an advanced level attempt to get way more momentum than you think is possible. Be surrounded by women who are wanting to fuck you but you refuse them, have so many fuck friends that you run out of time, and only get excited by high level wild sex.
Don't get comfortable with a girlfriend or your previous goal, keep pushing and stay emotionally detached. This massive momentum will open doors of possibly that only exists in dreams.
I read these forums and in my opionion probably the difference between the beginners, general and advanced is purely momentum. In beginners section they have none, they are negative, annoyed, frustrated, and experiencing massive statis friction, in general its about in the middle and in advanced most have momentum so they make it sound easy, all spiritual, and like they have the magical keys to success.
