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It's been quite some time since I've written anything here. I've been spending my time doing things that serve no point in mentioning here.
What I did want to mention is the potential underlying contradiction that lies inherent within what we know as "game".
This community spends a majority of its time discetting the male-female interaction. Everything from the macro (state, setting, technique) to the micro (calibration, openers, natural vs. stock, etc.) is discussed and analyzed. Like any community we trust those who have been deemed the most experienced to give the best advice, and on many occasions there is a tremendous amount of useful spirited discussion.
One thing is missed over and over again though. The very act of doing all of this puts the male in a very subordinate position. As many know, for women, picking up someone is the easiest fucking thing in the world. They really need to know one word, "Hi". Now, I've seen many of the so called guru's of this community in action, and none of them are immune to the "Hi" of the SHB, they all go AFC faster than you can say, "Can I buy you a drink?". Sure, after they pull up their panties, these guru's try to rebound a bit, but it's generally too late for them.
The point is, women do not need message boards such as this, because as much as we deny it in our verbage, they know that they are in fact, THE PRIZE.
The real and only true way to overcome this, is to get to the point where one does not need game at all. In fact, to get to the point where you actually find that even using game is insulting to your very masculinity.
Become a person of real value. A person that takes responsibility for their decisions and their lot in life ("She was a bitch", "My boss is an asshole", etc. statements like this are all examples of someone who refuses to take responsibility for their actions), you'll find that when you stop blaming others for your life, is also when you stop looking for others to help you. It is at this point when you realize that only you can solve your problems. Real value is also someone who seeks to always improve themselves...we all have the time to do it, we can all put down the Wii for awhile and take a course to learn something, someone who takes pride in how they look and dress, in essence someone who has real value, not based on routines, or on the validation of others, but based on what we truly have to offer.
When you have real value, you do not need game, you do not need C/F, openers, methods, you don't need a damn thing. Because when you have this value, and believe in it, the confidence you give off is the strongest attractor out there. The fucking game comes to you, not the other way around. Women will approach you and when you approach them you won't need game, you just need to believe in the value you know you have. It is at this point where we, as men, finally become THE PRIZE.
Women now run game on me, I can have my own bitch shield up if I want, and let me tell you, it is incredibly liberating! They approach, they try to catch my eye, they hover, and they try to open me up.
Being the prize is a million times better than just saying you are.
