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My whole life, I have had some serious hang-ups about "bad boys" and have always hated to hear girls talk about how much they love them. You know, the dark, mysterious guy who rides a motorcycle, does some extreme sport, speeds around in his cool car, has piercings/tattoos, or acts like a wannabe rockstar.
Even in elementary school, I would boil with jealousy when the girls talked about the guys in the class they had crushes on. Usually, these were the guys who were constantly getting in trouble. Being a straight-A dude, it pissed me off so much!
It was always confusing to me.
WHAT IS A BAD BOY AND AM I ONE???
As a young teen, I suppose the sudden flood of testosterone caused me to adopt more risky behavior. I began skateboarding, rollerblading, using drugs, smoking, and drinking. I was having some serious thrills and often escaped dangerous situations by the skin of my teeth, yet girls never considered me a "bad boy". No way.
WHY? WHAT WAS I MISSING?
It didn't make sense.
Throughout my teens and throughout college, I did most of the typical things "bad boys" do. Pretty much any "bad" thing you can think of, I did. Of course, now I've matured and cleaned up my act, which is why I'm writing this.
In spite of all of my mischief, girls never saw me as a "bad boy" type - and to this day, they still DON'T. In fact, some girls find my checkered past a bit incongruent.
So why then?
Perhaps it's because of my looks. Although I currently have a pretty jacked physique, and kick-ass posture, my face is like a 23 year old version of Jimmy Neutron. I don't have a square jaw, dark hair, and piercing brown eyes. No, I have a pale round face that fits the profile of a Christian missionary. When you see my face, you don't get very intimidated. You expect me to knock on your door and hand you a pamphlet about Jesus.
The thing is, I have come to realize that being a "bad boy" is not what you think, and it means NOTHING when a girl says she wants one, or is attracted to that "type". If you think that you need to be a BAD ASS, get in trouble, use dope, and basically be a total asshole to get girls YOU ARE VERY WRONG AND THIS WILL DO NOTHING TO HELP YOU.
If you think that risky behavior will make you more attractive, thus easier to get laid, you are wasting your time and missing the point.
In high school, it would boggle my mind to hear the girl in geometry class lecturing me about why I shouldn't come to school high on drugs, while her own boyfriend was a notorious pothead. It's as if the girl is saying, "Well it's OK for him to do it, because he has piercings and a tattoo, but it's not OK for you to do it because you look like a 'good kid'".
A similar example of this is how I have been playing guitar since I was 12, and in my teens I practiced to the point where I was convinced I was the second coming of Jimi Hendrix. I would have guys bowing down to my unique style and wicked technique - but not the girls! No, they would get wet over some long-haired dude singing a weak-ass version of "Every Rose Has It's Thorn" just because he has the "look" of a musician.
When a girl talks about "bad boys" I still don't get it.
All I know is this:
It is NOT RELEVANT to your own pussy-getting potential. It means NOTHING.
The point is:
The 'bad boy' image does not mean ALPHA MALE».
It is so critical for people who are just now learning about this shit to know this.
Besides, wouldn't you rather be a guy who's out getting laid instead of getting arrested?
In my younger days, I was completely missing the point. It doesn't matter if you are a "bad boy", a star athelete, or a straight-edge who never goes out.
So what DOES matter?
RAW, UNINHIBITED MALE SEXUALITY.
That's all you need to get laid.
That's what rock stars have. It's not the bad behavior.
You can be a star in the school choir, captain of the chess team, or president of the math club and STILL GET PUSSY.
It doesn't matter if you are a proud mama's boy, if you exhibit the qualities of a man who is comfortable with expressing his sexuality, you will have no problems.
It's all about the way you carry yourself, the way you speak, and the clothing you wear, and the things you talk about.
Guys who spend time trying to DHV with any type of "show off" or "bad ass" behavior are wasting their time. Come on, cut to the chase and try to get in those panties for goddsake!
Fuck the "bad boy" image. All you need is an ALPHA image - the core of male existence. It doesn't matter what "type" of guy you are, as long as you are ALPHA.
You can tell the difference between an Alpha and a Beta very easily. Like women, I think men can instinctively see a difference right away.
Here are some tips on enhancing your Alpha image, and projecting more sexual confidence:
An Alpha always has ERECT POSTURE, and moves slowly with his arms dangling freely and smoothly. His neck is straight and his chin is up. I strongly recommend weightlifting to maximize your physical presence. I did this, and it has probably been THE BEST thing I did to help my sexual image and confidence.
Another aspect of Alpha BL is easy eye contact and smile. Get comfortable smiling and greeting people in a confident way. Even people passing you in the hall. It's easier to look them in the face and smile than it is to keep your head down, trying to avoid contact. Fuck unfriendliness.
Second thing is the way you speak. Nowadays, you hear a lot of guys who sound like fags when they talk. Seriously. They sound too feminine - like little girls. Knock that shit off! Speak from your chest to give your voice some power, and for goddsake STOP saying "like" all the time. Don't sound as if someone's got you by the balls.
Third is the way you dress. I recommend wearing clothing that fits your body type. However, one clothing item that any guy can look sexy in is a TIGHT BLACK SHIRT. If you wear polos or button-ups, DON'T wear an undershirt. Expose some of your chest - it shows confidence and sexuality.
Depending on your body style, tight jeans can also be a plus. Avoid dandy open-toed sandals - those are for chicks. Stick with masculine footwear - super white athletic shoes, boots, or stylish leather shoes.
The last and MOST IMPORTANT thing that enhances your Alpha status and defines you as a "sexual" guy is being comfortable talking about sex. If you do all of the above, a girl is going to find you sexually attractive. Once she gets to know you and sees that you are completely confident enough to talk about it, she will want to bang you. If you can say "penis", "vagina", "clitoris", "orgasm", "masturbate", "nipple", "etc." with a straight face, you are good to go.
Overall, when you hear chicks talk about how they love "bad boys" or how they dated one, or whatever, just realize that this statement is yet another line of bullshit a woman is feeding you. This is AS BAD as a girl saying she wants a "nice guy" - SAME THING. Only words.
I think the perception that women are attracted to certain "types" (bad boys, men in uniform) is complete bullshit and not relevant to getting pussy AT ALL. Whether they are or aren't, it doesn't mean shit. Give me a Police uniform and TA-DA I'm a policeman. Big deal. Doesn't mean you are going to make her any wetter just from wearing a fucking uniform.
Remember, none of what a chick SAYS should be taken serious. Get her to respond by being Alpha and sexual. Lay your shit on the line - don't tiptoe through this game. Leave all the other crap to the AFC's who think impressing a chick is the way to get between her legs.
I'll just DHV with my dick.
