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The battle for a woman is WON or LOST in the first 3 seconds of an interaction
WILL YOU or WILL YOU NOT assume attraction?
That is the question....
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Assume attraction RIGHT AWAY
Not after 5-10 minutes.
Not after checking for IOI's and IOD's
Assume attraction NOW !!!
Assuming attraction is the most CONFIDENT thing you can do
Women LOVE confidence
Do not confuse assuming attraction with being ARROGANT
Assuming attraction is QUIET and CALM not loud and in your face
Assuming attraction has nothing to do with HER and EVERYTHING to do with YOU
Whether you DO or don't assume attraction should have nothing to do with a woman's looks or label (ie. model, porn star)
You assume attraction every time
I don't care if you are talking to Hallie Berry, you assume attraction
You assume attraction every time because you know you are an attractive man...
You don't only assume attraction the times when your talking to an HB6 and you think you can "GET" her easily
When you assume attraction without even thinking:
- Your BL is relaxed
These subcoms alone are enough to get you attraction with most women
What happens when you doubt yourself?
What happens when you lose touch with the attractive man inside?
What happens when you DON'T assume attraction right away
Your bad interactions are the ones where you feel you need TO DO SOMETHING EXTRA TO MAKE HER ATTRACTED
Iow, you start off feeling like you're not good enough "as is"
Because you think she's a SHB11 you tell yourself you will need to bring your A-game
Of course no matter what you do or say it all leads back to a meta-frame where she is the prize and you are chasing her
And the more you TRY....
Before you add on any of the PU tactics we have in our toolbox
ie. playful teasing, qualifying, or touching you FIRST need to assume attraction
Oh wow, you're talking to Miss Universe, whatever, assume attraction.
This is what I mean when I say... NO GIRL IS HOT
"When you don't assume attraction you are rejecting yourself" -60
Because you start out feeling unworthy, you will spend the rest of the interaction trying to hurt HER before she can hurt YOU
Of course, this will all happen outside your conscious awareness.
You won't even know you're doing it.
In field this translates into...
- You tease her but for some reason it doesn't come across playful
- You just being your normal c&f self, but somehow the words come out mean spirited
- You think you're just being the "prize" but she thinks you're being a DICK
When you don't assume attraction all of your attraction tools will ONLY convey one thing...DISINTEREST
You backturn on her but instead of it communicating "I like you, I'm just having fun"...
it will come off as "I'm seriously not interested in you"
In fact, without realizing it the subcommunication of all your teasing, qualifying and prizing will all = I DON'T WANT TO FUCK YOU
You may think you are being a challenge, but since ALL OF YOUR TACTICS ORIGINATED from the wrong headspace, she will simply interpret it as you aren't interested in her
Also, when you don't assume attraction your mix of indirect and direct game will be WAY out of balance
You end up taking less risks to protect yourself
You play it safe and take longer to escalate
Like clockwork she will become disinteretsed when you don't make a move
Of course you will rationalize....
"See I was right, she's wasn't attracted to me".
This negative feedback loop will continue until you break the cycle at the VERY beginning of an interaction
Assume Attraction...every time!!!
- Your voice is clear
- You hold strong EC
- Your vibe is seductive
- You give her that sly devilish look that says "I know you like me"
- You touch her with confidence
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1. You TRY too hard
2. You Reject Yourself
3. You ACT Disinterested
