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Post #1- Observations of a Bouncer
As a forward, I should say that I am in no way a master or even a decent pick-up artist. These are just my observations as a man looking to “improve” himself. Take them for what you will.
Over the summer I decided that it would be interesting to work in a local resort town near my college. So, what job would lend itself best to learning about PU? Ah Ha! A bouncer! I get to interact with all kinds of people and really get a feel for how people react to different approaches. At least that is the plan.
So far I haven’t learned anything too radical. Everything I have to say has been said before. It’s always good to re-enforce the basics and see examples of their real life applications. So, here come the observations of a bouncer (First real post!).
Show Em' The Pearly Whites!
First thing I have noticed with successful guys is they always smile. The bar/club/restaurant/tourist trap I work at has all kinds of areas that lend themselves to different styles of PU. There are places you can have a conversation and have the first interaction verbally and places where the first impressions are always physical. One of the biggest indicators of success between both were when the fellas had some sort of smile on there face. Whether it was a big cheeky grin or a full-on full-frontal teeth glowing smile, smiling was always linked with success.
My Most Powerful Words: Fuck It.
I was working at the dance floor the other night and I saw the most peculiar spectacle. An old man, with sagging tits, a bear belly, wrinkles, FUCKED UP hair, terrible cloths, poor BL, and an overall pedophile like demeanor rolled up to the floor solo. He danced. Oh, did he dance. It resembled a kind of sponge-bob with severe arthritis (any one in the Baltimore club scene knows the dance I’m talking about). You know what though. That man saw more action then half the guys at the club that night who were spit shined. It wasn’t looks, it wasn’t a secret verbal hypnosis trick, it wasn’t some kind of super special seductive power. The guy just did not give a fuck. He didn’t care about any societal stigmas, do’s or don’ts, sets, hook points, or anything. He came, he saw, and he didn’t give a damn about it.
Find the Fatty
Another thing I have noticed is that a lot of successful guys on or around the dance floor dance with the most outrageous girl they can find at some point in the night. I have several theories about why this is but that is for further discussion. The point is, fat chicks will pivot for you. If you dance with them she will be grateful and, more importantly, her friends will be grateful that she won’t be completely miserable that night. It amplifies your image as an object of fun (which, now that I right it, is actually kind of a disturbing thought). So, if you’re in the floor don’t be afraid to dance with the fat girls. Make time for them. In fact, go up to them and start grinding your dick on them like a jersey guido. Be as raunchy as humanly possible and see what happens. Nine times out of ten the girls will light up that are around the area. Oh, and make sure you smile while your at this.
That’s all for now, I already have some ideas for a next post (Eye contact experiments, BL play, and more), Hope everyone enjoys reading this and, please, if anyone has experience bouncing and has some tips or pointers they’d like to throw out I’m always receptive to new ideas. I’m still trying to figure out how to really close girls within this working framework.
In noticing this I decided I’d try out some experiments. Now, generally when people see a bouncer approaching they tend to assume the worst and are instantly defensive. So, with that framework in mind let’s see how smiling affects groups or individuals when approached. First, to reiterate, when not smiling I noticed that people were instantly evasive and were uncomfortable. Men tended to either retract upon themselves or react with some hostility. Women tended to close there body language» and acted in a manner that would shut down any kind of PU attempt. Any men who were on the dance floor and were not smiling were either riding the pine or were dancing with themselves.
Being always the bearer of bad news I was surprised at the reactions I got from people when walking up with a smile (I tend to have a more sly smile personally). Often times they engaged me in conversation after I asked them to do something that many would not otherwise like to do. Witty banter is often the course of the interaction. All of the women reciprocated that smile and many seemed engaged. Just last night I walked up to a group of people at closing and told them to literally “get the fuck out.” Normally people are blown back by this and often react in, lets say, not so friendly ways, especially since they’re drunk. But, since I was smiling, they read it as humor on my part, and the fine blond in the group opened right up to me and blew out the two guys she was with. I had opened a set and hooked by telling the group to get the fuck out. A smile is indeed a powerful thing.
So what is there to learn from this man? Have a good time. Go out on the dance floor and do something. I watched a guy the other day pull some nice girls. Couldn’t dance, had a decent body, but the guy exuded fun. He went out there, pulled a girl out, fell on the sand, pulled her down with him, and started dry humping her for shits and grins. She slapped him right? No. Her, and her friends too, dug it. In fact, they came back for more. So, people, when you’re out there, stop fucking caring. Release your inhibitions and let loose and when you feel them coming back do what I do and say to yourself “Fuck it.”
Which leads me to my next point…
